Like I said β they arenβt mutually exclusive. Meaning it can still be a βselfishβ decision, but that doesnβt mean it wasnβt the right decision.
One could argue that you ruined the relationship by not accepting her drug use, one could also argue that she ruined the relationship by using the drug. A logical person however would acknowledge that itβs a simple lack of compatibility that led to the end of the relationship.
I can't agree. The distinction being that if he just got upset/disappointed that's be one thing (happens to everyone), but if he told her “any other woman would have fucked me then” I would say he's being a rude entitled jerk.
It's understandable to have a bruised ego or self esteem, especially for young women who falsely believe men are always in the mood for sex and take it overly personally when they get rejected. But something being understandable doesn't make it okay, including speaking out of hurt. She needs to apologize.
You've already said you for sure aren't going with him, and you say he is your number one supporter. Your mom is terminal, im so so sorry your family is going through that. Based on the information you provided in your post, what is your worry? What do you mean, “what can we do?” If your connection is that strong then one year of you guys being long distance won't be too bad. He's only 2 hours away, if he has a car he can pretty easily come visit you regularly. And you have days off of work, a 2 hour drive isn't unreasonable for leaving in the morning and driving home the same day.
Take care of your mom and yourself, you can find balance if your boyfriend is as supportive as you claim
you don't need a cheater as your bf as they don't change.
just forget about the wedding & him & break it off as its not worth it.
Know your self-worth & you deserve better in life, with a better man. not with someone who is disrespectful, irresponsible, unworthy & especially a cheater.
There are more branches of Catholicism than the number of brain cells i would have, which one are you?
Like I said β they arenβt mutually exclusive. Meaning it can still be a βselfishβ decision, but that doesnβt mean it wasnβt the right decision.
One could argue that you ruined the relationship by not accepting her drug use, one could also argue that she ruined the relationship by using the drug. A logical person however would acknowledge that itβs a simple lack of compatibility that led to the end of the relationship.
I can't agree. The distinction being that if he just got upset/disappointed that's be one thing (happens to everyone), but if he told her “any other woman would have fucked me then” I would say he's being a rude entitled jerk.
It's understandable to have a bruised ego or self esteem, especially for young women who falsely believe men are always in the mood for sex and take it overly personally when they get rejected. But something being understandable doesn't make it okay, including speaking out of hurt. She needs to apologize.
You've already said you for sure aren't going with him, and you say he is your number one supporter. Your mom is terminal, im so so sorry your family is going through that. Based on the information you provided in your post, what is your worry? What do you mean, “what can we do?” If your connection is that strong then one year of you guys being long distance won't be too bad. He's only 2 hours away, if he has a car he can pretty easily come visit you regularly. And you have days off of work, a 2 hour drive isn't unreasonable for leaving in the morning and driving home the same day.
Take care of your mom and yourself, you can find balance if your boyfriend is as supportive as you claim
you don't need a cheater as your bf as they don't change.
just forget about the wedding & him & break it off as its not worth it.
Know your self-worth & you deserve better in life, with a better man. not with someone who is disrespectful, irresponsible, unworthy & especially a cheater.