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Coming from a staunch feminist: At her own house, sure. She can spill water everywhere and not clean up after herself. Doing this at someone else’s home is ridiculous. I was always taught to leave things the way you find them. It’s about being conscientious. I see it as having a certain level of respect for the domestic labor it takes to maintain a home. You calling her out on making a mess at your house isn’t misogynistic. You would do the same if it were a dude staying with you. Explain to her that not cleaning up after herself means that you are the one who has to do it instead.
Watching a parent punch another parent – especially in a household where yelling during conflict is “normal” is what messes kids up. OP knew stepping away to make space was the best choice in the moment to decompress and resolve later. OP’s wife completely steamrolled that with violence.
OP’s wife needs to work on herself more than anything, and then might be ready to work on the relationship with OP and the kids – if that’s what they want.
At least one of OP’s kids is already feeling untrusting and unsafe around their mom and won’t leave OPs side. It’s one thing to teach patience, grace and resolution to your kids, but it’s toxic to force kids to live! afraid in an environment that is still volatile.
Separation doesn’t have to be forever, but it’s a healthy option when your kids don’t feel safe.
Take it from someone who grew up in a family where yelling was the way and no one wanted to figure out how to truly communicate or resolve, they just needed to be heard and let out their feelings without a care for the consequences.
When my parents approached me about them potentially divorcing I saw a glimmer of hope and supported that decision for their happiness. They chose to stay together for our sake and to work things out.
Spoiler alert: They never did.
I tried being the peacekeeper but they refused to believe a kid could know better. I was the one that was physically turned to in anger and ended up with a fractured hand when trying to block a blow. Court mandated therapy was awkward because my family didn’t learn anything. My parents were embarrassed and refused to accept responsibility and remained in angry denial.
Everything got better once my parents finally divorced, but that wasn’t for another handful of years after I’d moved out. After divorce they were finally happy.
My anxiety and stress was GONE when I moved out at 17. It only came back when I started dating and discovered that my volatile home life had actually trained me to accept abuse and self-sacrifice for fear of conflict until I lost myself, but somehow thought I was wise and strong because I refused to choose anger and violence. It took being married then amicably divorced in my 30’s to finally break the cycle I was lost in since childhood. I also learned that breaking up/divorce isn’t a bad word. My ex and I were much happier after.
Sometimes leaving, even temporarily until there is very real and healthy change, is the best option for kids. Teaching kids to stay with a violent partner can be just as dangerous.
Therapy is great, but so is making a healthy and safe space for OP and the kids while OP’s wife heals from her issues and learns healthy communication and conflict resolution.
For the weight thing, I am vocal about losing it in a healthy way. And she has witnessed the way I eat, I keep my calories between 1500-2000, ensuring I get at least 150g of carbs and 100g of protein daily. EDs are nothing to joke about, because I know how body dysmorphia creates delusions that aren't real or healthy
For the love language, we have communicated ours to each other. For me, it's definitely words of affirmation, and for her it's acts of service. I think she's just not a vocal person with compliments. I'm confident that I contribute more to the acts of service area than she does words of affirmation, because I know there's this stigma about men not helping women so I go way out of my way to prove I'm not a misogynist to her.
Why would you want to be on the mortgage? Be a tenant, pay rent to him and he can put that money toward the mortgage or whatever he likes. That way, if things go south, you don't have to worry about mortgage or getting your equity back.
If you do get married, that's when you talk about putting your name on the deed or buying your own property to rent out.