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This just made my day. I’m happy you didn’t fall for her sob story. F that. She knew what the heck she was doing. Go on with your life dude and I wish you much success.
Nope. He has no business tracking your location. If he wants to know where you are he can ask like an adult.
He needs to deal with his trust issues.
This shouldnt even be in question. The answer is No. They dont have kids together or a business together then there is no reason to associate in a setting as intimate as a birthday
Many people meet live and get to know one another before meeting in person.
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I am sorry, hope you get better, pls seek therapy.
Fair. But if he is calling her pathetic and insists on night walks, and the solution is for him to hold her hand I think it's warranted.
My bf in high school gave me that same excuse. After he banged a bunch of girls he came to me saying he was ready to start our life together. The conversation ended with him crying when I responded with absolutely not. I found someone who actually cares about me. Good luck and please realize what your bf is actually saying to you.
Dude sounds like a whole bum and 10 years older than you. Do yourself a favour and live your best life. Go to school, get normal 20 something life experiences. Don't shack up with someone so flakey.
Aw OP. I really feel for you.
Can I ask how and why your relationship ended? What happened?
Why do you think you cannot be your best self without a partner?
I do not think it is badly out of line to ask if you can have a chat just to have some closure, you could say something like- ” Hey, I am sorry to message out of the blue, but I was hoping we could just have a quick conversation. I am struggling with my mental health and would really appreciate if we could talk so I could have some closure about our relationship ending”
I work in criminal defense and often see DV cases like this. If it is not a direct set up with the help of the DA… it’s an unintentional setup and regardless, you are right. Keep doing what you’re doing. I suggest taking all this information to your attorney or public defender. The court needs to see how she is violating the protection order as well. Get a good criminal defense/family attorney. This can get messy. Best of luck.
So basically, you're abusive and she's scared of you. Don't play the victim… Let her run.
I’d start by evaluating why you think you need “authority” to begin with.
Then what did he mean (if not what we all know it means)?
Yeah. That’s weird.
Just hate-fuck her one last time, and then breakup with her.
“Honey, I am not the problem here. As you know, I have repeatedly tried to connect with your mother, but she has made up her mind about me and refuses to accept me. I am not going to try to force someone to like me who clearly is determined to believe I am a bad person. This is between you and your mother, not me and your mother. When your mother is ready to have a normal, adult relationship with me, without insulting me, without thinking I'm not good enough for her daughter, THEN i will make an effort again. But first you need to work things out between you and your mother.”
No we're not, but your last comment put into perspective for me why rape doesn't require physical violence. I would even say that in OPs case it sounds like rape now. My girlfriend and I even discussed this post today and I guess it was just naked for either of us to relate to letting it happen even though you know you don't want to, without a threat, because they were begging/guilting. We both agreed that it'd just piss the both of us off and make us not want to be with that person anymore because they're a loser who begs for sex lol Everyone's different though, and she seems to still be figuring out adult relationship dynamics. Rough situation 🙁
At least my degree carries value and will turn into more money.
CS degrees are worth very little aside from getting your foot in the door. And unless you get specialized and get certs (or get into app dev), you'll be obsolete in 2 years.
She’s planning on going into “pharmaceutical technical writing” or some sort of technical writing career. Writers don’t make much money.
Technical writers working for a large pharmaceutical company absolutely do.
what does it even matter
You need a couple’s therapist not Reddit. It’s too big of an issue to solve through these people’s short biased opinions.
This is the same kind of poor impulse control and emotional maturity that leads to domestic violence. The fact that it hasn’t quite crossed that line yet is good. And it may never cross that line. But it’s the same “I have big feelings and because of that, it’s okay if I act out physically”. Given your history with your dad, I’d avoid dating people like that.
If you’re looking for a red flag, it’s when he threw and punched things. Those were the line. He crossed it.
Don't even think about moving together. You will end up paying for everything! He won't have money for rent, bills, groceries… But somehow you will see him buy fun stuff. He will end up cheat on you and you are stick with the lease and costs. Why i come with cheating right away? Because he has no problem to look in your eyes and lie to you! He is an liar! Do you think finances will be the live think he lies to you? You will be the woman that finance his home and food. Then he will have a woman for the fun stuff for whom he will spend the money on. In short: he plans to use you.
The trust is gone. With this, the relationship can't work. And i wonder… was it his idea to move together after just 6 months?
You are just 25. And it was just 6 months. Don't waste more time with a liar. You will just get more hurt.
Thank you for typing these and allowing myself to rethink what I am doing. I do understand that she had given me plenty of time to pull myself together. Even though during this period of time, something tragic from my point of view happened that disrupted the relationship, I did want to make a full commitment in late Feb. Sadly, I havent got the chance to say it face to face with this love of mine and the situation just got a whole lot worst all of a sudden.
I understand what you are saying and I do appreciate that the most logical and respecting thing to do is for me to leave her alone. Barging in right now into her life will probably cause more problems than good. Best thing for me to do is to move on and only ever thought about reigniting the relationship if she ever becomes single again.
It is unhealthy for myself to get myself stuck in a situation that is self inflicted. Tho I still very much would welcome any suggestions as in how I could get back together with her. Super selfish, I know, but this is just the thought that is flooding my mind right now.
Agree that I shouldnt have realised how much she meant to me until this late.
You haven’t dated in ten years? I hope that part was just a joke… If he hasn’t said “Will you be my girlfriend?” you’re not his girlfriend. Even if you go on dates for 5 years, you aren’t in a relationship until someone asks the other to be in a relationship.
Where are u from?
That’s what got me. It’s one thing to cheat but where the FUCK was that child? I’d be worried what I’d do in this situation.
That’s incredibly sweet, and I’m really happy for you both. I wish you guys all the love and happiness, and don’t listen to morons saying negative stuff.
I understand I've honestly been there. If you feel this shitty being in the relationship then yeah it would be better to end it. Regardless of all that and her excuses if she physically cannot and is not giving you what you need then you should find a relationship where you are getting what you need. Maybe it is malicious or maybe all her excuses are true. Either way you're just more miserable with her than without. That's not something you should want for yourself.
I am so sorry for the loss of your eldest son.
I understand your mum is grieving too and so she is probably speaking from emotion and not rationally. But truthfully I feel she is being selfish. For all that losing a grandchild is difficult, it does not compare to losing a child. Your grief is the priority, not hers. If she needs to vent or wants help coping, then she must go to someone else and not the parents of the deceased child. That is just so insensitive and selfish.
Secondly, the number of children you have is nobody else’s business! Even if you hadn’t lost your eldest son, perhaps you decided that you love being a parent and you want 5 children. Perhaps your second pregnancy is twins. Perhaps something tragic happens and you end up adopting a loved one’s child. In every case it is the business of you and your husband, no-one else.