24 thoughts on “YnesClark is horny!just look at this sight”
Exactly! It would have been livid. I would wonder the following. 1. Why the fuck does he still have nudes or sex videos of ex saved while being with me. 2. Do I need to worry that during our intimate sexual acts, he’s going to be secretly video taping me? 3. I will never be able to UNsee him in the throws of sex with his last gf.
OP, glad to see you realize what a fucking idiot you were. At least that’s better than being a clueless wonder. Your best bet to make this up to her is to get rid of sexual images of any exes of friends you have saved up. Buy her roses with an apology. When she wants to vent and chew you out, don’t try to redirect her or change the subject, let her vent and get it out of her system. Just tell her how sorry you are and how you will work on building trust again even if it takes a while, you understand. Just go gentle and tread slowly, as what you did to her by putting your ex sucking your cock up close in her face must have been pretty traumatic and terrible for her to see. It’s going to take time to get past this.
I agree, but they specifically stated recording it at all was the issue. I understand keeping being a deal breaker, but don't understand having made it to be a deal-breaker assuming it was consenual.
If she had cheated on you, one of few cases why there's a ripped condom, then don't confront, she could easily deflect, lie and treat you dismissively and you just grow more frustrated. Best to watch out, be more careful and investigate and move on if you can't trust her anymore. Yeah another possibility might be for the use of toys, some use condoms with their vibrators or dildos. But another question arises then, why in the care, you think she would use her dildo or vibrator in her car? It might be but I guess it's highly unlikely.
Have some self-respect, bro. Are you really going to support her need for intimacy while she chases other dudes? She doesn't see you as worthy of a relationship. You're just a backup plan.
When we first started dating I did ask him if he thought this was a fundamental incompatibility but he said he didn’t think it was and that he would be monogamous. Now, I do understand that he’s allowed to change his mind on that.
Transvestite is offensive nomenclature my dude (Rocky Horror – 1975) . Transgender Woman/Female, Trans Woman, Trans Female are the way to go (y'all correct me if I am jumping stupid and failing).
No, you are not the asshole, but be kind to her please. She went through some shit (life, family, friends, employment/government shitlaws etc.) and doesn't need to be reminded of all that. She has survived that bullshit and just wanted to avoid being lonely with you. You found her attractive and that's OK. It doesn't mean you should question your sexuality.
Yikes. If you're dead set on not breaking up with him, you're going to have to address this at some point soon. Your feelings are valid and as your partner he should want to help you process them and give you reassurance, not pressure you into ignoring them.
That being said, if your friends ALL dislike him and think you should break up, that means he's probably exhibiting other red flags as well. Your choices are your own to make, but I'd recommend whether you're with him because you WANT to be and actually like him, or if you're just afraid of being alone.
It's very noble of you to want to just accept your boyfriend's issues without truly knowing what they are or why, but it's not healthy for you or for your relationship to just keep ignoring them. In fact, by ignoring them and hoping to just work around them instead, you're only employing the same strategies he is.
Whether your conversation will have negative effects probably depends entirely on how you both communicate with each other an how invested you both are in the relationship, but you can't screen for ill-effects and you can't control how your boyfriend reacts when you voice your concerns.
You just need to do it and hope that he takes the matter as seriously as you do.
If you don't want to date someone who smokes, don't date someone who smokes. You don't get to tell him he can or cannot smoke, but you can choose not to be with a person that is going to smoke and then lie to you about it.
Not to mention, we have been discussing marriage and it makes logical sense to take the next step and move in with each other. We both want to be around each other all the time even when we are doing different things.
Women lose interest in a man looooooong before they say the words “I’m breaking up with you”. It could take weeks or months before they are consciously sick of a guy.
Essentially you guys are broken up.
It’s best to just say it out loud and move on. She doesn’t want you anymore.
Exactly! It would have been livid. I would wonder the following. 1. Why the fuck does he still have nudes or sex videos of ex saved while being with me. 2. Do I need to worry that during our intimate sexual acts, he’s going to be secretly video taping me? 3. I will never be able to UNsee him in the throws of sex with his last gf.
OP, glad to see you realize what a fucking idiot you were. At least that’s better than being a clueless wonder. Your best bet to make this up to her is to get rid of sexual images of any exes of friends you have saved up. Buy her roses with an apology. When she wants to vent and chew you out, don’t try to redirect her or change the subject, let her vent and get it out of her system. Just tell her how sorry you are and how you will work on building trust again even if it takes a while, you understand. Just go gentle and tread slowly, as what you did to her by putting your ex sucking your cock up close in her face must have been pretty traumatic and terrible for her to see. It’s going to take time to get past this.
I agree, but they specifically stated recording it at all was the issue. I understand keeping being a deal breaker, but don't understand having made it to be a deal-breaker assuming it was consenual.
If this is real, DO NOT speak to him. Take the laptop and go to the police.
I don't think it's hypocritical. He's a straight man and traight men prefer being in sexual situations with women.
I would only be open to a two man threesome because I'm a straight woman. I don't see the hypocrisy in having a preference.
If she had cheated on you, one of few cases why there's a ripped condom, then don't confront, she could easily deflect, lie and treat you dismissively and you just grow more frustrated. Best to watch out, be more careful and investigate and move on if you can't trust her anymore. Yeah another possibility might be for the use of toys, some use condoms with their vibrators or dildos. But another question arises then, why in the care, you think she would use her dildo or vibrator in her car? It might be but I guess it's highly unlikely.
“right now she was ok with me”
Dude, get the fuck out of here! If that shit isn’t emasculating enough, you need to see a shrink!
Have some self-respect, bro. Are you really going to support her need for intimacy while she chases other dudes? She doesn't see you as worthy of a relationship. You're just a backup plan.
Your girlfriend is, currently, kinda dumb about people. Does she have something going on?
I ask because I used to be very trusting and it turns out I’m autistic. Now I don’t trust anybody, oh at all.
When we first started dating I did ask him if he thought this was a fundamental incompatibility but he said he didn’t think it was and that he would be monogamous. Now, I do understand that he’s allowed to change his mind on that.
she was very upset because I had left one of her messages on read for literally 3 minutes
Talk about chronically online. Cell phones have made so many people feel entitled to other people's attention.
my gf has definitely left me on read for more than 3 minutes in the past and I never got mad at her for something so small.
Ah, gotta love a good double standard.
All I did was leave her on read for 3 minutes!!
Leave her on read for 6 minutes next time. She's being ridiculous.
Transvestite is offensive nomenclature my dude (Rocky Horror – 1975) . Transgender Woman/Female, Trans Woman, Trans Female are the way to go (y'all correct me if I am jumping stupid and failing).
No, you are not the asshole, but be kind to her please. She went through some shit (life, family, friends, employment/government shitlaws etc.) and doesn't need to be reminded of all that. She has survived that bullshit and just wanted to avoid being lonely with you. You found her attractive and that's OK. It doesn't mean you should question your sexuality.
Take care sir!
not at all! I’m mostly trying to understand it I guess
Yikes. If you're dead set on not breaking up with him, you're going to have to address this at some point soon. Your feelings are valid and as your partner he should want to help you process them and give you reassurance, not pressure you into ignoring them.
That being said, if your friends ALL dislike him and think you should break up, that means he's probably exhibiting other red flags as well. Your choices are your own to make, but I'd recommend whether you're with him because you WANT to be and actually like him, or if you're just afraid of being alone.
you're not my real mom. You can't tell me what to do.
It's very noble of you to want to just accept your boyfriend's issues without truly knowing what they are or why, but it's not healthy for you or for your relationship to just keep ignoring them. In fact, by ignoring them and hoping to just work around them instead, you're only employing the same strategies he is.
Whether your conversation will have negative effects probably depends entirely on how you both communicate with each other an how invested you both are in the relationship, but you can't screen for ill-effects and you can't control how your boyfriend reacts when you voice your concerns.
You just need to do it and hope that he takes the matter as seriously as you do.
If you don't want to date someone who smokes, don't date someone who smokes. You don't get to tell him he can or cannot smoke, but you can choose not to be with a person that is going to smoke and then lie to you about it.
And he's going to keep lying to you about it.
My dad: That’s not how it happened that’s just how you see the situation
Not to mention, we have been discussing marriage and it makes logical sense to take the next step and move in with each other. We both want to be around each other all the time even when we are doing different things.
I don’t know what to say to someone who thinks a child is undeserving of compassion.
He literally assaulted someone what the fuck
So women break up differently than men do.
Women lose interest in a man looooooong before they say the words “I’m breaking up with you”. It could take weeks or months before they are consciously sick of a guy.
Essentially you guys are broken up.
It’s best to just say it out loud and move on. She doesn’t want you anymore.
He's already broken up with you and he's stringing you along while he enjoys his life. You need to let him go
Also.. if she can't hold her food: what is her current weight?
I would be worried she would be starving to death some day.
Holy crap you are so good to go. She's tall? In my experience, tall girls love to accentuate their height, but can't because society.