I already told her all of that and that was before she made a big deal out of it so now I need to think about if I should just let her go. Thanks for your help.
He said friends come and go, but that isn't true. Your friends in particular have been with you since you were young. A good friend is someone who doesn't just support you blindly, they talk to you about good things and bad. They especially address concerning elements in their lives and yours. They notice changes and red flags before you do because you are in the middle of it. Your boyfriend is concerned about your obedience. Talk to some of your male friends and ask their opinions on “allowing” gf to do anything. All the men I know don't allow another human anything. They express concern but know that another adult is their own person & don't need permission from anyone (as long as it is lawful.) If one of your friends stopped going on getaways for a man, what would you have thought and said before bf?
I think it’s right to tell him if you were a sex worker.
I already told her all of that and that was before she made a big deal out of it so now I need to think about if I should just let her go. Thanks for your help.
He said friends come and go, but that isn't true. Your friends in particular have been with you since you were young. A good friend is someone who doesn't just support you blindly, they talk to you about good things and bad. They especially address concerning elements in their lives and yours. They notice changes and red flags before you do because you are in the middle of it. Your boyfriend is concerned about your obedience. Talk to some of your male friends and ask their opinions on “allowing” gf to do anything. All the men I know don't allow another human anything. They express concern but know that another adult is their own person & don't need permission from anyone (as long as it is lawful.) If one of your friends stopped going on getaways for a man, what would you have thought and said before bf?