Press right there to start video
Room for online video chats xKinkyChloex
xKinkyChloexlive sex stripping with Live HD
18K Share
Press right there to start video or
Room for online sex video chat xKinkyChloex
Model from: gb
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1989-08-09
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorOther
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
">
We have some tough areas in town, but not where she would’ve been headed. It’s just a Big Lots three minutes up the street lol.
Never would I let her go somewhere I think she would be unsafe. Although, things just continue to get more reckless in this age..
I always try to consider her pov as a woman as much as I can, so thank you lol
I’m not a man but I can give my perspective from being in a similar position, as a 26f.
All in 13 months I met, went long distance, got engaged, broke up with my ex-fiancé. We are both in the military, we started dating in December 20 and I deployed in May 21 for 6 months. I got back home in November and by December 21 he proposed and I said yes. He was my first serious partner so I thought the fast speed was normal since we were “in love”. It wasn’t until I was really thinking about our future when I had the realisation that I was going to marry someone who id only spent 3 months in the same location with. At the start I postponed the wedding until we could be in the same state for at least 12 months, then I called it off completely because the LD was never going to end. In hindsight, I came to realise he was quite controlling and I stopped being myself to please him. We’ve been broken up for months now and I’m in such a better place mentally and physically than I had before!
You have so much growing to do as a person, so don’t marry this dude! Cause all the opportunities to have fun and a single person with no attachments goes away. But, just be aware of the way that he might try and manipulate you to keep you around. I wrote a script and included some potential rebuttals that he could say, so I could be confident in my position to call it off!
Your boyfriend was worried about you so he invited you to live! with him, clearly he did this, because he doesn't care about you!!!! Sound logic of your parents at full display.
There is something seriously malfunctioning in your programming.
You almost sound like a small boy with a schoolyard crush or some shit lmfao couldn't imagine putting so much effort into someone I didn't like. sounds like you're really committed to making her feel something so you don't have to feel rejected and unimportant, almost like you care a great deal about her.
Maybe it’s just not his thing to do
What has he done to mess with your trust?
So you called C cute to just try boost confidence personally i dont see anything wrong with that so id say your not cheating but for some advice id say maybe stop venting everything to him or you may land in a situation you dont want to be in, specially if your bf reads them. Maybe avoid sayin other stuff like cute aswell just to be safe before it sounds like ypu are flirting, its good your trying to help C out though.
She disrespected you, she disrespected your relationship but most of all: She sexually assaulted your boyfriend!
No, he said the draft version is on his phone.
No I hand wrote it I just have rough drafts and stuff also in my phone from where I was drafting it out
We are both consenting adults.
Ohh, I didn't think of that. Yes, this seems very possible.
You’re a coward and an idiot Get back with her. Go see a therapist
Because it’s false confidence. She is faking it. I do this too. Because confidence is sexy and I know that. But deep down I’m a coward.
Why are you on here wondering how to fix him? You can’t. You should break up.
Some things are not worth it.
Could he have Prader Willi syndrome or something similar?
If you asked for specific things then I can see how you'd be annoyed not getting them. But I think you way way overestimate the ability of a guy to figure out what your style is. I'm a guy and I try to avoid buying jewelry when dating as much as I can because it all looks the same to me and it's dumb luck if I get anything that matches their style. Same thing for clothes really. He could just be walking into a store and buying whatever or he could be really trying but just unable to figure out what style you would like. Very hot to say.
That. Just don't invite who isn't worthy.
Yall should have an intervention for your Dad and let him know that if he continues his relationship with a person like Marge, that you discontinue contact with him.
She's a toxic asshole.
But he's not a victim for keeping her around..
Tell us you’re a shitty partner without telling us you’re a shitty partner lol.
Just because he “might be trying to fuck” me, doesn´t mean he can do it if I don´t want to. Consent is a thing still.
Just because he “might be trying to fuck” me, doesn´t mean he can do it if I don´t want to. Consent is a thing still.
I am not interested in him romantically but I feel close to him emotionally and it feels important to me
Oh please shut up, you know you're meeting to fuck c'mon now ahaha
Oh. I’m positive he was trying to purpose her if he hasn’t already…
I could never date a grown man with a tik tok. I would just leave.
…”she will also do some 'things”. This entire argument is based on the completely unfounded and unlikely scenario that came from out of nowhere, in which she accuses you of having cheated? And now she is justifying breaking up and her future actions with this invented scenario? Man, she wanted to have extra-relational sex with someone else and invented this excuse to get it. Prediction: after she has sex with someone else does some things with someone else (regardless of if you know about it), and it doesn't work out, she'll be back. Don't take her back. These are the consequences of her own actions.
Is he the type of guy not to realize things unless it’s pointed out for him?
Sometimes I need to tell my husband something directly even though it seems so clear to me. It’s just how some men think. Perhaps he felt that “oh man, it’s done” and then didn’t really put two and two together that you’d like him to try to make it right, even though that makes total sense to you and even other people.
I mean you’re going to marry him. So you need to decide if you can still be happy with ‘helping’ and ‘directing’ him to make an honest effort to make it up to you, especially if it’s that important to you. If you can’t accept that, then I think you need to do some deeper thinking about your future with him, ya know?
I mean in this moment, it might not feel great that you have to ‘hold his hand’ as he tries to fix this, but I’d like to think in 2, 3, 4+ years, you’ll look back on all of this and chuckle. It’ll be a unique and funny story to tell others.
When my mom and me started to live! with my stepdad, there was definitely adjustments we had to make, but we never had a conversation about it (maybe my mom once told me before moving that we shouldn't walk around in just the towels, I can't remember). I would feel uncomfortable if my stepdad walked around in his boxers of without a t-shirt, I would also feel uncomfortable if my mom was walking around in just a bra. It's your house, sure, but relationship requires cooperation, compromises and common sense
Frozen vibes ?
Read your post back. Of course you're a fool for talking to him. Stop.
Don’t push this. She gave an answer, accept that answer.
For future reference, the way you phrased it isn’t great. It sounded like you weren’t giving her a choice in the matter.
OP should have just told us. honestly, it's probably pretty bad if they wouldn't say and deleted a throwaway account shortly after posting.
Gonna be honest I read “fish in bed” and thought of someone flailing their whole body, not someone laying still. I'd like to give the dude the benefit of the doubt since we don't know the exact context of the conversation. They could have been just finished, in which case he's an ass, or they could be joking around way later.
No, it doesn’t, but him not being willing to meet ANYWHERE in the middle does. Someone who is not willing to compromise or not let their partner have any kind of say is pretty negative to me. You might be able to live! like that, but I wouldn’t.
maybe? 50/50 even if it doesn't i could see your reason for why it didn't ?♂️
I know, I never give a shit about this stuff and right it seems so innocuous, but I have a gut feeling the other way
Stop cultivating what you know is an inappropriate relationship with a coworker. Stop doing the one on one. Stop texting or emailing. Stop carpooling if she is the only pool in the car. Keep topics to a professional level. If she asks, just say that you realized things were getting too personal for a work friend and you want to reset appropriate boundaries.
No. He is who he is. Everyone deserves love, no one is entitled to a relationship. You cannot save him, you will not make him good. Get out, now before he does irreparable damage to you.
Depending on how long they’ve been talking or if they’ve met up outside of work. You never know, she could be cheating on the clock too.
Agreed. Has a 9 month old, but is currently 14 weeks pregnant ?
“I'll take immature men for 500 Bob.”
“A really long-winded way to say I care about my friends more than my fiance?”
“What is OPs post?”
“That is correct! You win today's game of Jeperdy!”
Would you like her to schedule times in her calendar to initiate when she doesn't want to on the off chance he does? What happens when she initiates and he says no, should she just deal with it and take the rejection on top of feeling pressured to initiate? You guys are gross and I cannot imagine wanting to have sex with my partner if they weren't really doing it because they wanted to, only because they thought I wanted to. That's absolutely despicable
SO LITERALLY, EXACTLY WHAT THE HUSBAND IS GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW.
Holy fucking hypocrite.
Yup,
I don’t know why he’s reading my messages. Instead of just ignoring the entire thing all together it just blocking me so that cuts communication off all together.
Anxious/avoidant is untreated trauma, seeing a “therapist” that is in no way qualified to help him work through those issues is like going to a faith healer for cancer treatment.
Who diagnosed your partner?
Other ppl are saying that what she's doing is borderline abuse. Do you agree? If you do could you help me understand how it might be abusive ?
Ok first of all, it's often the case that the early part of relationships is filled with frequent sex which then slowly decreases until hitting an equilibrium. So don't read too much into that. Secondly, try to think about all of her past experiences as shaping who she is. And if you love her more than anything, then you almost have to love that she experienced everything she did to turn out this way.
My boyfriend and I are in our 40s and have many sexual experiences each prior to meeting each other (that happens when you get this old). I'm grateful for every single person he f*cked. I'm grateful he was married to someone else for 20 years. He's grateful I've dated many men, including a few high profile ones. The little flicker of jealousy comes out now and again, but we feel so lucky to have found each other that we feel almost indebted to all those who have helped shape who we are as people and lovers.
It's a big twist on how you're feeling now, I understand that. But if you can make the mental leap from jealous/insecure to grateful/lucky when it comes to her past, your relationship will be so much closer. Insecurities don't disappear but they become tiny little bugs you can swat away.
Run as fast as you can, red flags everywhere
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
I bought some new laundry baskets for me and my boyfriend of 8 years (both 28). Laundry is my least favorite chore, it’s overwhelming with my other house responsibilities (cooking, dishes, pet maintenance, etc.), and he doesn’t like the way I fold his clothes. I thought this would be a good solution. We split laundry as a chore as much as we can.
I messed up, because I didn’t talk about buying these baskets, or doing laundry separately. I wanted to try it out, thought it was a good idea and set it up. The separate baskets seemed to be fine this week, we had been placing our separate clothes in separate bins.
Today was my first day off, I did chores around the house, walked the dog, did my laundry and got it put away feeling good. My partner comes home from work and asked if any of his clothes were cleaned, I said no but that there were clean items left over from the laundry I did last week. He asks if we are doing it separately now, I said yes, and he expresses that he would like to have talked about it first. I apologize and he goes silent, I can hear him huffing a bit.
A few minutes pass, he comes back to me let me know that he is upset I didn’t talk to him about it first and that having a shared chore for the past 5 years now be changed is unfair. I said I was sorry and a surprised at his reaction. I let him know that the laundry overwhelms me and I was trying to find a better solution, I didn’t mean to make a negative statement or impact him negatively. He got more upset saying I don’t actually sound sorry and not listening to him about the issue, which was consulting with him first on the baskets.
We go back and forth, him getting more disappointed/angry and me getting more anxious about saying something wrong. He says “this isn’t getting better” referring to our arguing and then says he can’t do this anymore, “not threatening the relationship” but that by doing our laundry separately we are getting closer and closer to live! in roommates that fuck and he is tired of not getting respect in his life and is about to rage. He storms away, yells “STOP MOVIGN MY SHIT” after ruffling some things around, goes out and punches his car and screams at the top of his lungs in his car and then drives away to some plans he had.
I am feeling emotionally wrecked after these confrontations, I’m feeling like a complete dumbass and asshole, but also scared to say anything wrong the next time in fear of this reaction. He refuses therapy of any kind. I’m feeling really stuck in how to navigate this situation without feeling like a fuck up.
TLDR: I bought laundry baskets without asking. My boyfriend is extremely mad and I’m unsure how to navigate after apologizing.
I'm just happy you deleted this disgusting post
Then enforce your boundaries when they're crossed. You're 28 years old, being controlling like you're in a high school relationship. Don't you see how unhealthy being controlling is?
I must ask: do you even know what a “boundary” is?
Wow first find a backbone, she is gaslighting and walking all over you. Of course they are working up to it have been having sec for years.
I'm betting in the LDR that neither of you are actually monogamous….. Odds are you are each getting your needs met locally already…soooo….pull the trigger and just breakup
Oh I'm not saying that you shouldn't want to try to make that happen again, because why wouldn't you, especially within a relationship? As it relates to sex, we want to orgasm and we want our partner to orgasm.
To back up and provide context, I'm a guy and I'm happily married. My wife and I have an amazing sex life. Can I say I've gotten her to orgasm in this way? No. Has she gotten me to orgasm this way? No. Would it be cool? Absolutely. Neck kisses absolutely get us both fired up, but I can't sit here and say it's led to orgasm on its own.
I'm just not sure why you're this excited about it. Not that you're excited that it happened; that I get. It's awesome. But you're sort of saying “hands free” almost like having to use your hands (or penis) requires exhaustive effort. It's once again an anecdote, but I like touching my wife. I like feeling her get excited. Even if she orgasmed from just being kissed, I'd still want to touch her.
Separately, I honestly love that you speak so highly of your partner, but if we're going to call this a superpower, give yourself the credit for being the one who has it for being able to give her an orgasm that way. Don't sell yourself short my guy.
I see your point, but in fairness he did communicate with you about him having to take the gig.
Girl, I think you should just leave this situation and find someone else that isn't super glued to his mommy. He's never cutting the umbilical cord off, so if that's the life you want, go ahead and stay with him. But if you already know this isn't what you want, then you should walk away from all this and never look back. You're still young, I'm sure you can find someone else who's more mature and independent.
You're right he overreacted.
As I said it’s not an option for her. I have either option A: I go with her in a month. Or option B: we break up and I don’t. Not the most appealing choices.
Alternatively, you can date people with integrity and self control! And be a person with integrity and self control!
Then you can be friends with anybody!
Alternatively, you can date people who don't have self control, and view other people primarily as sex dispensers.
I think if your grab a bottle of wine, finish it and get funky, it might re create a new spark and maybe time to explore what common interests are sexually because it sounds like there’s a lot I’m missing out but if the sexual part isn’t there definitely try and fix that connection
Yeah, guy is displaying American Psycho levels of empathy. He truly does not give 2 shits about Op.
Well, since you've found the driver that was used that night, you can always re-tip him to see if he HEARD but not hear anything during the drive to and from their house, just an option.