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First and foremost, thank you so much for sharing your own personal experiences and perspective. It was truly invaluable to hear from someone so willing to express what they’ve gone through/are still going through… on the other end. Thank you.
The evening when we got into that “fight” … I can’t even call it that, because it was all just so overwhelming for the both of us, but ultimately I did the best I could to create space for him to say the things I knew he’d been feeling for weeks out loud.
Throughout this entire experience – from the first time we ever saw a doctor, up until this morning when I was putting his socks on and tying his dress shoes (he’s been able to go back to work a few times a week) – I’ve adamantly expressed to him that I not only love him like no other man I’ve ever met, or will ever meet, in this world, but that it absolutely kills me when he says those negative things about himself. I can’t speak to how you might feel about this, but at times I’ve taken his head in my hands, looked him dead in the eyes, and simply told him he was wrong. That he is none of those things, and that I can’t imagine the pain he’s going through… and kept his same old lovely, kind, appreciative, considerate and calm demeanor.
I’ve done my best to incorporate support items as well, but in a “fun” way… if that makes any sense? He has several support pillows we got on Amazon, and we both got laughing when we wound up in the maternity section… I just call them his “snuggle pillows”! I’m also eternally grateful to his longggg time friend, who’s girlfriend also suffers from Hypermobile Type Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. He comes by our apartment several times a week these days, just to spend time with my fiancé… it has always lifted his spirits and I think has helped to create a sense of normalcy for him. As in, he’s not trapped in his own home because of what he’s dealing with, and can still have fun with his buddies the same way he would if he weren’t dealing with all of this. His friend has made a lot of more… assertive suggestions and my fiancé has been a lot more receptive to them at times. Honestly, he’s been a godsend.
I’ve also got the Cadillac of heating pads, a wonderful cooling pad that his mother ordered from her surgeon (it circulates cool water from a cooler with ice packs in it!), and a foot and calf massager that has been fantastic for his circulation… again, another “fun” purchase… sometimes I’ll use it and when he asks to set it up for him I’ll jokingly say “hell no, this baby’s mine for the night!” Lol 🙂
Im also building him a desk right now… it’s an adjustable standing/sitting desk, and I think that having input on the home improvement project has again… sort of switched his perspective/focus on it being something he needs because he’s struggling with his health, to something we’re doing together that will make working from home easier… and make our apartment look great 🙂
I really appreciate you mentioning the caretaker aspect of our relationship as well… during the first two weeks I definitely let myself go. I wasn’t showering, I was running around trying to make sure everything was comfortable for him, I completely stopped working (I’m self-employed so very lucky on that front…etc…), and I’ve made a point of taking time to walk downtown, do my own errands, and to speak with my therapist more frequently. I’m doing my best, but it’s still ultimately a struggle.
Thank you again for sharing the way you did. Just hearing from the opposite perspective is extremely insightful.
P.S. one of my very best friends is a chef. I know how extremely physically taxing his work is, so I applaud you to the greatest extent for all the work you’ve put in, and challenges I can only imagine you’ve faced, in order to pursue your passion.
Ask him why you can’t just pick a date. What date does he need?