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  1. Maturity and respect is when you can come home tired and still be pleasant. That’s the sign of an emotionally mature partner. There will be a time (and more than likely already has happened) that your SO didn’t have the energy or interests to do what was mature and respectful, but she will/did. In fact, most emotionally immature people can’t even recognize that effort which is why it’s naked to comprehend reciprocation.

    Bottom line, OP needs to look in the mirror and stop making excuses. Start being a great partner by putting in even when it’s naked. That’s the entire point of having an SO.

    Who knows, maybe if OP puts in that effort he’ll get a heads up text and allowances for his low energy approach. We all need that in our lives.

  2. Hi OP, think about it like this. Your boyfriend of two years, who at this point, likely has said he loves you, drunkenly encouraged his male friends to laugh at you while in a vulnerable state and also joined in. Guy friends who could see your naked bottom, who you don’t know so well. Instead of being your champion and closing the door for you, he added to your embarrassment. His apologies don’t mean anything because he has also insulted you and blamed you for the situation/ leaving.

    Spin the situation around. If you loved someone, is that how you would treat them? And is that how you want to be loved? Personally I wouldn’t want to be with someone who I had to explain and argue with why I was upset. Leave. Don’t waste more of your time.

  3. This is the scenario that literally plagues my nightmares. I am sorry these wretched, horrible people did this to you. Dump this idiot immediately. I understand if you still love him but love is not enough to overcome whatever brain damage caused a group of adults to open the door on someone trying to poop and mock them and refuse to close it.

    Sending you so much love. You deserve way, way better.

  4. How far apart do you live currently?

    Will you or your partner have to leave your current job(s) and find a new one for this move?

    Personally, I believe that getting separate places is the way to go. It may be financially inconvenient, but it removes an unnecessary pressure on the relationship while you're adjusting to all these new things. Feeling obligated to make it work because you and/or your partner just gave up so much comfort and normalcy and familiarity is pretty common in these situations. In my experience, its not a comfortable feeling to have to sit down with someone after your relationship starts failing and help them apartment hunt because they love their new job SO much, and they won't be able to afford the place you got together alone after you leave. Establish some individual stability and enjoy the benefit and excitement of GETTING to see each other instead — Grow together naturally!

  5. Do not tell her it’s because of the sa.

    Tell her she’s an alcoholic and that’s she’s abusive. And yes she is an alcoholic, if she needs it and cannot give it up, even when it turns her into some dark, evil creature, she is an alcoholic.

    Tell her you’ve checked out of the relationship already and you don’t believe her promises.

    Tell her it’s too little, too late.

    And then tell her it’s over.

    And then leave.

  6. She needs to remember that she has a family and young kids, so she needs to firmly shut this shit down.

  7. It’s rude and presumptuous, imo. I wouldn’t even borrow my husband’s clothes without telling him. Lucky for us both though because he’s a hippie and I’m a total femme.

  8. She is not realistic that a vacation trip to Europe costs thousands. If you buy a house, an air-conditioned unit replacement costs $5000 minimum that equal to trip to Europe.

    There is a mismatch in values and spending, and some compromise will be necessary.

  9. So basically you have an abusive husband now and an abusive ex then.

    No, you're not being crazy, you're being FAR too blasé if anything. None of his behavior that you described here is OK.

    I lived with an abusive ex for years, how much more are you going to tolerate? And is this something you want your child to be exposed to? You can't keep tolerating this behavior from him, it's NOT OK and you have not just yourself to think about but that little baby as well.

  10. What if the situation were reversed and he wanted something permanent that you do not like or find attractive? When you’re married, if you take marriage seriously, it’s no longer just about one or the other and what that person wants. You have to take the others feelings, opinions, etc., into account. Neither should be able to dictate what the other does but at the same time, consideration of your spouse is a must. My husband has likes and dislikes and before I do something that’s permanent, I’m going to consider that. As does he.

    Maybe there is a compromise. Are you talking about a full back tattoo or a sleeve down one arm? Or a smaller tattoo somewhere inconspicuous? Include him in the process of picking a design and placement. Make it something you like and he finds appealing or sexy. Then you both get something out of it. But…In the end, the question remains, which means more to you? Husband or tattoo?

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