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Yes, it’s a control thing. The problem isn’t that they’re broken, the problem is that she wants to be in control of EVERY possible aspect in this relationship and him breaking up with her takes that control away.
Emotional safety and emotional support are the foundation of a successful relationship. If you don’t have that, you’re just roommates that have sex, and that gets old if not depressing. I’m sorry he said such a thoughtless thing to you. If you want to save the marriage, couples counseling stat. Or if you want to save your sanity, individual counseling stat to help you figure out your best path forward, if it’s with or with out him.
Tell your girlfriend. What she'll do with you, I don't know, but needs to know her best friend is a snake.
Thinking of me as a survivor has helped me a lot for the last months… I made the same mistakes… But I hope that today is the end of all of that.
Later this week, I have an appointment to file a report, and the police has kicked him out this morning.
A homeless man gives you $100
A millionaire gives you $100
Which ones of the two holds more weight behind it?
She is the homeless man in this situation.
She needs to walk, before she can run. And he is at his wits end because she is not running with him.
You want to help people overcome their struggles? You encourage and praise their progress. You do not make it more challenging for them to achieve their goal.
If he valued those dynamics of a reletionship, then do not sign up for a reletionship with a person who told you they struggle with it. It is that simple.
As per your advice for 'he deserves better if you don't step up right now'… real nice. Kick it into overdrive and see how long she can keep that up without her foundation first. She puts up a front for a few months, too much for her to handle, connection broke, reletionship end. Now she's thinking, okay maybe I won't ever be good enough for anyone, my flaw is too great. Right back where she started.
And this is where you and I are different.
Trying isn't enough… trying is enough for me.
Given someone's circumstances and what they are capable of offering, as long as I see progress, I can work with that. I could care less about the volume of delivery, its the attempt that I want. Going from point A to point B, I don't care how long it takes, as long as I see that they're on the path to it. I'll be there every step of the way.
You and I are just different people. I been through hell and back. I accept people in full. You got a flaw? Fuck yeah, I accept that and will work with you until we fix it. I won't give up on you. I could give two shits about having my hand held or a little kissy on the cheek. I want to make sure you're secure in your own world, that's where I place my value.
We're just different people and won't see eye to eye on this topic. I prefer not to argue on this subreddit.
Have yourself a good night. I will not be responding.
Kinda seems like you asked him if he wanted to just have casual sex with you, and he agreed. Now you want to just be friends? You can ask, although it may bruise his ego a bit. But no harm in asking
I did go to culinary school and was a professional chef for over a decade. I cook and bake a lot around the holidays. I love when people enjoy my food. When you are a foodie, it’s like a language and you want to share that language with the people you care about.
Does your bf play video games with his friends? I bet he does. He’s selfish and only seeking dopamine when he plays because he enjoys it and isn’t just doing it for his friends. See how utterly fucking stupid that sounds?
You aren’t selfish nor are you seeking validation for this or any time you cook. When you cook with love and passion the food tastes better. And you can always stop cooking for your bf since he seems to have an issue with it. The other people you have in your life can reap the benefits of your talents and passions.
Keep being you ❤️
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She has told you very clearly that she doesn't want to escalate your friendship:
She hit me with a “I don’t want people to get the wrong idea”
she told me that she just couldn’t see herself dating a coworker especially one “beneath” her (another knife to the back) because of the power dynamic.
she asked me if I have feelings for her. …… I told her that I don’t have feelings and the gift I gave her was simply because she asked for it at the party. “Then we are on the same page” (another knife) and she mentioned how she doesn’t want to lose me as a friend, etc… the usual speech that comes after rejection.
These are all clear “i'm not into a romantic relationship with you” words. They are, as you clearly see, words of rejection.
I am very conflicted and cannot decide whether she wanted me to confess something there or let me down easy.
There is no reason to think her words mean anything other than what they mean on the surface. She's been very straight forward about how she doesn't want a romantic relationship with you. Any idea that she had a secret desire for something else is probably wishful thinking on your part.
And even if she has a secret desire or attraction to you she told you NO so you need to respect her NO and drop this.
leave this as a friendship and work relationship and move on.
Yeah I guess having a stick up your ass to fun is a boundary
He wants to cheat on you but just hasn't found a woman to do it with yet.
….. and this is a perfect way to create a controlling husband.
Good idea to humiliate and emasculate Troy in front of his friends because he wants to let his wife handle shit like this. This isn’t the 1950s where she needs her husband to fight her battles for her.
Guaranteed Troy will jump down the throat of any other guy who gets too close to OP to make sure she never calls him out like that again.
I know it's not. I do have the energy to help her at the moment but I can't see myself wanting to do this for much longer. She's aware of that too.
28 going on 14. Ouch. Run my friend.
Not quite. Sex work usually involves multiple men, this doesn't. Also, sugar babies sometimes do not sleep with their partners at all, because one party might not be interested. You're still your own Person, you're maybe not loved for who you are but respected and if the relationship is not like that, it's recommended to leave, because a sugarbaby relationship should Look like I said. Respect is key, and if you're not respected, that's a reason to leave.
Ask him for a dildo isn’t he shape of him
Fake.
Only a little and probably not anymore for a while at least
Only a little and probably not anymore for a while at least
I’d like to have sex before marriage lol
Your boyfriend is awful. What if you got assaulted? Would he say you cheated on him?? He is not a supportive partner. He's acting like he owns you
Divorce lawyers are open 24/7, just like the courts.
I’ve also been trying to find a term used for an equivalent man in this situation and I can’t think of anything worse than “cheater” “asshole” or “douche bag”. Nothing even close to as derogatory.
Apologies, you're correct in the fact that it doesn't make it better but at least you have balls. A relationship requires sacrifices. I smoke weed, daily, never in the house tho, it's a choice I make and stick to it and everyone is happy. It's not hard to do that. At the end of the day it seems like you are choosing to purposefully go against her and smoke in the house rather than just listen.
Why not go outside and do it there?
With such a casual reason for the breakup you can't be mad he casually had sex after the breakup.
Everything you say sounds like you are too young and experienced to understand why the age gap is a problem and so an older man found a young woman to manipulate and has moved into emotionally abusing.
You are constantly try to fix things. You are constantly trying to figure out why you aren't good enough. Every discussion ends up with him being more distant. You ask for help and he makes you feel bad. He tells you that you are too emotional and you believe him.
Does this man have empathy? Because you have it. You care about how tired he is and how stressed and overworked he is. Every time you have a discussing about you (the pregnant one) needing help…..he has zero empathy and just complains that he is tired and overworked.
You ask us how you can make him understand or how to approach him differently so he would actually care about you.
Please get a therapist. You don't see what you have described. He is selfish and no amount of explaining or seducing is going to make him have empathy.
Thank you. I stood my ground tonight and he’s went to bed after making a big deal that I wasn’t going with him. The same old “you’ve been weird since I went to work. Did anything happen while I was gone?” ugh. my heart breaks. You give me hope though. ?
Why in the fuck is a 44 year old dating a 23 year old? Run to the nearest exit.
The thing is, you apologized that it made them uncomfortable. Not sorry that you did it. That isn't actually an apology. It's bullshit. An apology is “I see that what I did was wrong and I am so sorry for doing it. I am sorry that I disrespected you and hurt you. I know you are under no obligation to forgive but I promise I will do better”.
Stop making excuses or trying to get out of it or trying to explain why it isn't so bad. Truly apologize and move on and do better. Accept the fact that you probably lost 2 friends. Actions have consequences, even if they were unintentional.
It's worth nothing.
Turns out he wasn't there. She told OP he said those things. Still sus
Yeah he’s emotionally abusive
It's not private if BF is repeating it to her. And just because you have an opinion of someone doesn't mean you need to say it. Especially a rude one. Especially to a friend about their partner. It's disrespectful. You are not my friend if you are disrespecting my partner.
Someday you'll grow up and realize how and what it is to be a friend and a partner.
Brother you need to start growing a spine and respect yourself. Dump the bitch ASAP and figure out what more you need to do to start having self respect.
I think he sounds like a narcissist himself ?
“Comparison is the thief of joy” as they say, and it’s so easy to see other relationships and wonder why yours isn’t like theirs. It can ruin a truly wonderful and unique relationship. I’d have a conversation with your partner and apologize – if they’re someone you love and they respect you, it’s worth apologizing for. I’ve definitely learnt to fall on my sword when I’ve made a mistake – even if I felt a bit too proud at first.
As a practical tip, scroll right by those dumb TikToks and they’ll eventually stop popping up.
He said it was stupid and he was sorry. After it happened he was remorseful and he took some steps towards transparency. But i guess he couldn't understand my overwhelming need of attention afterwards.
Literally holding him and having headphones in is the best thing to do. Mom off her meds with the needless additional intense stress that a baby crying induces is far more dangerous for the baby than taking measures to keep herself calm. I swear every day on this page with fathers calling their partners shitty moms when they clearly haven't cracked a parenting book or done a 5 second Google search themselves, the audacity of this man.
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