Neither of them is really interested in listening to the other's honestly valid points
He wants the full security of knowing, she sees that as immediately disavowing the trust in the relationship.
On the flip side, she sees this as a farce that won't happen, he sees that as denying him security in the relationship.
While I don't disagree that if the relationship is already built on trust and security a paternity test isn't needed, I also can't fault someone for wanting that security. Especially if they've either known someone personally or have been cheated on/in toxic relationships.
Neither is necessarily wrong, it's just a very charged topic to disagree on
Neither of them is really interested in listening to the other's honestly valid points
He wants the full security of knowing, she sees that as immediately disavowing the trust in the relationship.
On the flip side, she sees this as a farce that won't happen, he sees that as denying him security in the relationship.
While I don't disagree that if the relationship is already built on trust and security a paternity test isn't needed, I also can't fault someone for wanting that security. Especially if they've either known someone personally or have been cheated on/in toxic relationships.
Neither is necessarily wrong, it's just a very charged topic to disagree on