Explain to her that her getting an IUD was her decision and wearing a condom is YOURS. Also, she should be happy that you’re wanting to be even MORE protected when you two have sex. Two is better than one when it comes to protection and at the end of the day, it’s ultimately your choice to wear one or not.
Then divorce is the only kind option here. If you're legitimately considering the option of devastating her emotionally and possibly tainting her trust in romantic partners forever SHE deserves better and you deserve a partner who can match your drive. Cheating should never be an option for someone you profess to love. Open communication is the answer. Which you've already done to no avail. So leaving is the answer now. For both your sakes.
Has he ever gotten you off?
Explain to her that her getting an IUD was her decision and wearing a condom is YOURS. Also, she should be happy that you’re wanting to be even MORE protected when you two have sex. Two is better than one when it comes to protection and at the end of the day, it’s ultimately your choice to wear one or not.
Then divorce is the only kind option here. If you're legitimately considering the option of devastating her emotionally and possibly tainting her trust in romantic partners forever SHE deserves better and you deserve a partner who can match your drive. Cheating should never be an option for someone you profess to love. Open communication is the answer. Which you've already done to no avail. So leaving is the answer now. For both your sakes.