The Ex (32M) messaged myself (29F) and now my boyfriend (32M) of 7 years wants to break up with me
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My boyfriend (32M) and am (29F) have been together for 7 years. He' ersus always had an insecurity regarding my ex (32M) due to the fact my ex and I were together for 6 years and he lives 5 minutes from our parent' s house.
My ex called me personally on private around five years ago when my present boyfriend was next to me personally, and I answered the phone. Whenever my ex told me that he was, I was about to hang up, but my partner told me to stay on the line plus speak with him. Probably as they wanted to hear how we interacted. I asked my ex lover what he wanted and he said he just wished to know how I was. I stated fine, and to please not call me again.
My boyfriend was extremely upset with me because he thinks I made myself " accessible" to him nevertheless after we broke up. I needed to make sure it would never happen again so I changed our number.
I never noticed from my ex once again until 3 days back when he messaged me on Facebook messenger asking, " Just curious, the reason why the unusual unblock out of the blue? ". My heart sank because I knew our boyfriend would be very annoyed about this and it wouldn' capital t feel right to keep this from him. I immediately clogged him on messenger, after that went to my Facebook application to double check my clogged contacts. He wasn' capital t listed there. I visited block him but it gave me an error message saying We are unable to block someone that My spouse and i unblocked less than 48 hours ago. This was strange because I did not unblock your pet!
I asked my partner if he had logged directly into on my Facebook, thinking maybe he was snooping around, but he mentioned no . Then I told him about the message I obtained from my ex. He or she lost it. He inquired why I unblocked your pet. If I still wanted some thing with him. If I have been speaking to him this entire time. Obviously I hadn' t. He does not believe that I did not unblock him and honestly I don' t blame him since how can this happen by itself? Now my boyfriend feels he cannot trust me and he is considering breaking up.
Only today I was in a position to block my ex after the 48 hours had handed.
Can anyone help explain this? Has this happened to anyone before? I really want to prove to my boyfriend that will I' m not creating this up but I don' t know how.
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I honestly think your boyfriend is right about most things.
also why the heck are you buying a 200,000 car….
you should sell the car, and buy something sensible… something that supports your life. you should not buy expensive brand clothing ever. expensive brand clothing is not worth it. you'll regret throwing away your money.
it's fine to buy something 'nice' but dont just throw away money needlessly on shit that is not actually valuable.
for example………
you can buy a cheap piece of crap couch for 500 USD. You can buy a very nice and well constructed couch for 3,000 USD. You can buy a designer couch that is massively upmarked for 15000 USD.
If you make good money. the 3000 USD couch is the best purchase. the designer couch adds almost nothing to your life for the dollars you're soendibg.
the same is true for nearly all products. you can get a very nice car brand new for 50,000 which is comfortably budgeted and has all the bells and whistles without saddling you with debt.
anyway about the instagram scammer…. if you've been careful with your photos then the guy probably has no good proof and is just trying to scare you. blocking the scammer and trying to not let this kill your career is a good move.