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Set a price limit for gifting!
I have been with my partner for almost 7 years now and we always set a price limit for holidays/birthdays/anniversary to avoid possible conflicts of the other feeling guilty not spending as much for the others gist.
If he is gonna spend as much on your gift as the necklace than go for it if not find another gift for him.
Maybe that's all there is too it, he sees no value in the idea of marriage so he doesn't want to do it. Sometimes the answer to a question really is the simplest one.
She was an alcoholic. I was blind to her being drunk at all times. We actually bought a house and I moved out two weeks after because I felt I was in danger. We got into a usual blowout, since moving in it just escalated more and more so everything was coming to a head. I had to separate myself from her and go to a different room and lock the door. She broke down the door to get to me, broke the door jam and everything. Literally in that moment, any love I had for her was gone. It was like the real me came back and was like “wait, what’s going on here?”. My friends moved me out of the house in the middle of the night
“the phenomenon whereby a person is reluctant to abandon a strategy or course of action because they have invested heavily in it, even when it is clear that abandonment would be more beneficial.”
My understanding is that she has a real tough time making friends with her personality, before I knew she and my BF were friends I did want to get to know her (I think she’s pretty cool) and she does have a fiancé, which they got engaged back in October. When I offered to hang out with me and my best friend she canceled and told me to go hang out with my BF cause the other night me and him canceled plans for them to hang out, with a valid reason.
Uhhh babes it doesn’t matter if he’s doing stuff with a man, woman, non-binary person….he’s going behind your back and isn’t committed to you. He’s fucking around on you and that’s all that matters.
Yeah this. I don't care about my wife's weight. I care about her blood sugar, I care about her blood pressure, I care about her heart health, and I care about her happiness.
When globally the biggest killer of humans is heart disease, being proactive is important.
Unless you want a boob job for you don't do it. Don't ever have a procedure done because a guy wants yiu to. Even if they offer to pay. Also if you have a boob job yiu may not be able to breastfeed and implants font last forever and can cause problems. Also big boobs cause back pain so depending on how big he wants them yiu may not like that either. He doesn't love you no matter what. If you don't get it doen he will likely not liek it at all. If you were perfect he'd never have brought it up. For the records I mean perfect in his eyes because the size of boobs has nothign to do with whether or not your body is perfect or not. And liek someone else said will it stop after a boob job or will he want you to do botox etc. What happens after yiu get pregnant and your body changes? I'd dump him and fins a man who actually appreciates yiu for the person you are and the body you have. This guy cares about physical appearance too much..
I have never walked around in LA and saw topless women walking around all over. What is he talking about? Where is he getting this idea? Has he confused LA with a nude beach in France
Honestly she SCREAMS drama, you dodged a bullet this early in the game. You got lunch with an old friend who's also in a relationship herself, that's so tame I can't imagine any reasonable person getting upset with that. You did nothing wrong
Okay, but what about MY KID? And how she feels? Is it wrong to ask for them to rotate when they’re both children instead of just choosing one to bounce around? That’s my problem.
That my brain is sabotaging me in the sense of „hey dude, you’re not allowed to lead a happy life. Remember, you’re a piece of trash. So you better leave her.“ then feeding me with ideas on how to make my wife mad at me so she leaves so that my brain can live! in it’s puddle of misery. Hope that makes sense. He said that I should keep talking about it to make it quieter and also to motivate me to see my own worth and that my own voice can fight this terrorist inside my brain.
Sometimes people fall out of love with each other but the cheating (emotionally/physically) isn’t ok. I find it odd that she immediately decided to move in together with her affair partner… isn’t it more logical for her to just find a place by herself until she can figure things out? They won’t last.
Anyway. I’m sory OP. She’ll lose friends. You’ll lose friends. People will pick sides. Things get messy.
You’ve quite suddenly lost your partner and this sucks. She turned out to be the wrong person for you (with values like that!) What you are gaining is a future with the right person. I don’t believe there is only one mr Right or Mrs Right. I believe there are several. And you will get to meet several of them.
But take some time to heal from this heartbreak. I sense a lot of anger in your post still. Understandably. Take care.
Yeah. Stop worrying about the what ifs of the future. What experience do you value more… seeing your gf in her bf’s wedding party and enjoying that together. Or seeing a good friend get married who you value in your life?
The answer to that question alone will tell you who you should go to, it comes down to how important said friend is really, not what girlfriend wants you to do. If he’s important, go to his wedding. Let gf go to hers.
It’s completely understandable for you to feel that way. Why would he even want to be around people like that if he doesn’t approve of cheating? “You are the company you keep” comes to mind here… honestly I wouldn’t trust him on that trip, but that’s just me.
Set a price limit for gifting!
I have been with my partner for almost 7 years now and we always set a price limit for holidays/birthdays/anniversary to avoid possible conflicts of the other feeling guilty not spending as much for the others gist.
If he is gonna spend as much on your gift as the necklace than go for it if not find another gift for him.
Thanks for your feedback.
You’re probably right tbh but that’s what life for huh
Maybe that's all there is too it, he sees no value in the idea of marriage so he doesn't want to do it. Sometimes the answer to a question really is the simplest one.
She was an alcoholic. I was blind to her being drunk at all times. We actually bought a house and I moved out two weeks after because I felt I was in danger. We got into a usual blowout, since moving in it just escalated more and more so everything was coming to a head. I had to separate myself from her and go to a different room and lock the door. She broke down the door to get to me, broke the door jam and everything. Literally in that moment, any love I had for her was gone. It was like the real me came back and was like “wait, what’s going on here?”. My friends moved me out of the house in the middle of the night
pull that bandaid off nice and fast. slow is smooth, smooth is fast. be smooth my guy
The Sunk Cost Fallacy:
“the phenomenon whereby a person is reluctant to abandon a strategy or course of action because they have invested heavily in it, even when it is clear that abandonment would be more beneficial.”
My rule of thumb is “lie if you have to, but don’t physically insult someone”.
My understanding is that she has a real tough time making friends with her personality, before I knew she and my BF were friends I did want to get to know her (I think she’s pretty cool) and she does have a fiancé, which they got engaged back in October. When I offered to hang out with me and my best friend she canceled and told me to go hang out with my BF cause the other night me and him canceled plans for them to hang out, with a valid reason.
At best
Uhhh babes it doesn’t matter if he’s doing stuff with a man, woman, non-binary person….he’s going behind your back and isn’t committed to you. He’s fucking around on you and that’s all that matters.
Yeah this. I don't care about my wife's weight. I care about her blood sugar, I care about her blood pressure, I care about her heart health, and I care about her happiness.
When globally the biggest killer of humans is heart disease, being proactive is important.
Run. Do not look back. Block her everything.
Unless you want a boob job for you don't do it. Don't ever have a procedure done because a guy wants yiu to. Even if they offer to pay. Also if you have a boob job yiu may not be able to breastfeed and implants font last forever and can cause problems. Also big boobs cause back pain so depending on how big he wants them yiu may not like that either. He doesn't love you no matter what. If you don't get it doen he will likely not liek it at all. If you were perfect he'd never have brought it up. For the records I mean perfect in his eyes because the size of boobs has nothign to do with whether or not your body is perfect or not. And liek someone else said will it stop after a boob job or will he want you to do botox etc. What happens after yiu get pregnant and your body changes? I'd dump him and fins a man who actually appreciates yiu for the person you are and the body you have. This guy cares about physical appearance too much..
I have never walked around in LA and saw topless women walking around all over. What is he talking about? Where is he getting this idea? Has he confused LA with a nude beach in France
Oh she dumped you bro
Honestly she SCREAMS drama, you dodged a bullet this early in the game. You got lunch with an old friend who's also in a relationship herself, that's so tame I can't imagine any reasonable person getting upset with that. You did nothing wrong
Yeah. Go SILENT. This isn’t your drama.
Where and how are you traveling such that he needs your passport photo to make the arrangements?
Okay, but what about MY KID? And how she feels? Is it wrong to ask for them to rotate when they’re both children instead of just choosing one to bounce around? That’s my problem.
Would the kids not be in school during the week?
I just wanna clarify here and say that I’m a size 30 waist so I’m not a grotesque monster but this mom pouch be mommin’
Read my edit, im not going to break up with him
Sorry mate but as we'd say around here…..your an odd cunt.
You should be the first to reach out because you asked for space.
She is a user and is taking advantage of you. Wonder how many other guys she has on the hook paying her bills…
That my brain is sabotaging me in the sense of „hey dude, you’re not allowed to lead a happy life. Remember, you’re a piece of trash. So you better leave her.“ then feeding me with ideas on how to make my wife mad at me so she leaves so that my brain can live! in it’s puddle of misery. Hope that makes sense. He said that I should keep talking about it to make it quieter and also to motivate me to see my own worth and that my own voice can fight this terrorist inside my brain.
Girl, drop 180lbs of his BS and you'll be feeling even better!
and yet someone downvoted me. People on Reddit love a messy break-up
Sometimes people fall out of love with each other but the cheating (emotionally/physically) isn’t ok. I find it odd that she immediately decided to move in together with her affair partner… isn’t it more logical for her to just find a place by herself until she can figure things out? They won’t last.
Anyway. I’m sory OP. She’ll lose friends. You’ll lose friends. People will pick sides. Things get messy.
You’ve quite suddenly lost your partner and this sucks. She turned out to be the wrong person for you (with values like that!) What you are gaining is a future with the right person. I don’t believe there is only one mr Right or Mrs Right. I believe there are several. And you will get to meet several of them.
But take some time to heal from this heartbreak. I sense a lot of anger in your post still. Understandably. Take care.
Yeah. Stop worrying about the what ifs of the future. What experience do you value more… seeing your gf in her bf’s wedding party and enjoying that together. Or seeing a good friend get married who you value in your life?
The answer to that question alone will tell you who you should go to, it comes down to how important said friend is really, not what girlfriend wants you to do. If he’s important, go to his wedding. Let gf go to hers.
It’s completely understandable for you to feel that way. Why would he even want to be around people like that if he doesn’t approve of cheating? “You are the company you keep” comes to mind here… honestly I wouldn’t trust him on that trip, but that’s just me.
He has a baby to look after. That is his responsibility now. I’m not ruining his life he’s happy with me.