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Not having access to money is a big red flag to me.
The cooking part – I could chalk that up as being petty or passive aggressive, but not having access to money is no siree bob sitch IMO.
With the only problem being that I know about it and thus am betraying her by not telling her.
I get that
Because, experience? He might have wanted a baby 12 years back but now he doesn't because he knows what it takes to raise a child?
Guys they’re in the UK not the US.
In the UK the laws are different and you don’t have to be married to get similar rights to married people. With no contract between the two of them in advance of the purchase, everything would probably be split 50/50 if they split. But they could draft up something between them that outlines exactly who’s entitled to what in the event of a split (definitely so this if you don’t go into things 50/50!)
That said, I’d advise very strongly AGAINST buying a house with someone you’ve barely experienced living with and someone that is lying to you about critical financial information which could put you in a position where you’re committing fraud. ???
I'm truly sorry that happened to you. I'd be out. She knew exactly what she was doing.
doesnt seem temporary if he says its been going on for multiple years
See my post above buddy. Please consider my suggestion. What do you have to lose?
Idk how much this is suggested, but hemorrhoids from wiping might mean he needs more fiber. Been there. Also, less alcohol.
Do not allow your boyfriend to drink and drive. I have personally known multiple people who died either as or at the hands of a drunk driver. Figure something else out. Literally anything else.
You were 18 and he was 25. What the fuck.
In my opinion- since nothing has really changed Maybe reiterate how important it is to you? If nothing changes AGAIN- then you may have your answer.
Have been to many. Lived in New Orleans so I'm quite familiar with getting drunk off my ass.
You don't get surprised you're behaving strangely if you had 8 drinks in a short period.
You don't pretend you don't have a problem if you're drinking just to feel normal. That's being an alcoholic.
Going to raves doesn't make you not am alcoholic.
from what you wrote in the post and in the replies I started to feel really sorry for you, your boyfriend sounds like an asshole, he doesn't care about your answer and keeps pressing on you, it has no chance to end good. say NO one last time and if it doesn't get to his little brain this time, you have to start thinking about the meaning of this relationship. Don't fall for the “just once, it's every guy's fantasy” bullshit
Okay so if you never told her it was a gift that may be different! I would genuinely talk to a lawyer in your jurisdiction though before deciding it's not a gift. It being an animal is, in most places in the US, not a factor. (Animals are treated as property in much law to the extent that it is a shame, honestly).
But if you didn't tell her it was a gift that IS a valid factor and may help a ton ?
He gets very volatile and mean when there's any conflict between us. He says things like I'm being childish and I should say screw my family and be with him.
Why do you want to stay with someone who gets mean when you have conflicts? This will just be one of many more. You probably could compromise on this – maybe every other year you sleep over at your family – but overall his reaction is unacceptable.
There's a difference between certain men experiencing victimhood and “men are victims.” Men most often experience victimhood at the hands of other men. They are privileged in employment and government in almost the entire world. To say “men are victims” is to make a generalization that just isn't correct.
There are ways to point out how the system works against men, such as in the difficulty in establishing paternity for men who want to be in their child's lives. But to consistently point out that men as a whole are victims, particularly of women, is inaccurate and harmful. That's what I'm seeing over and over again on this sub.
What? I know people who treat friends like that. Just because your not as loving to your friends doesn't mean everyone has to conform to your standards.
i’m sure it’ll be fun being married to a man who can flip the script like nothing
is that it? like is that all he's doing? other things might be an issue here that isn't just food. is he a good student? does he have friends in school? I realize you said he doesn't play sports, does he do anything? at that age I was sexually active so keeping fit was just a way for me to stay active. scholarships we starting to form, it was getting serious I can safely say I was eating more than I should have been…also having more sex than I should have but it was how I dealt with stress. guys don't normally deal with depression in the same way as women do…maybe he's a little depressed.
The fact that he still sees nothing wrong with his behavior and wants you mom to apologize to HIM means this is who he is. It just took a while for him to feel comfortable to show you.
It's so nice when the trash takes itself out
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How do you know when you have? I love him a lot. How will someone else be different l? Maybe because we have been together so long this is normal?
Yup, as clear as sewer water.
Not necessarily misogynistic. There was a time when republican and douchebag were synonymous. The American political spectrum isn't always so polarized. My dad is a right leaning democrat while my mother is a left leaning republican. My grandfather would complain about immigration yet supported pro choice legislation.
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More importantly: what do you think of his hairy, saggy ball sack? Please send him a picture of his scrotum and joke about cutting them off.
Abusers don't come straight out being abusive. They start by being sweet and kind and caring, to get their chosen target for the abuse emotionally invested.
If abusers were always mean and cruel and hateful, nobody would ever get close enough for them to abuse.
Now he's turning the abuse up gradually to see how far he can go before he runs the risk of you leaving. When he finds the breaking point, he'll dial it back – and worth on eroding your self-confidence and sense of self-worth, your support network, until he can get away with more. It will not stop.
This, I've had extreme insomnia and would never keep my SO from getting sleep. I would jist get up and play video games, watch TV or read a book. She needs to get medical help for her sleep issues and NOT torture you.
It's only 4 months in and she is already being abusive, it doesn't matter her intent. I would leave if it were me.
Same guy?
You are being lied too. Do what you want.
Wow this is EXACTLY what my girlfriend says ALL THE TIME that drives me nuts: “You want to sit home alone and waste your life doing nothing instead of going out running with me”. And what am I ACTUALLY doing when I'm home alone? I read a fuckton of books, I paint, I journal. And for some reason that's all “doing nothing” and a “a waste of life” to her…. The only activities that are “worth it” are ALWAYS outside home…
Thank you for your advice!
NTA I would say that there are no genitals above the waist so drop it permanently or move out. Controlling how you exist at your home isn't valid.
Why did he feel comfortable spending 1000 dollars on his friend and not you. Have you been supporting him in ways where he might feel driven to do tthings for you or has it been an every man for himself type of relationship?
Has he paid for your bills in the past? Your food? Rent? Repairs?
What did you get your BF for Christmas?
My auntie and uncle have a 13 yr age gap. She was 25 and he was 38. 25 years later and 2 kids later they are still together. Age isn't necessarily the issue. It's if you both are on the same page.
Trolling, trolling, trolling….
Jeez Louise, he sounds exhausting! Is there something amazing about him that you haven't mentioned?? Why are you bothering with this man? Do you just love the concept of being part of a couple (even when the reality is killing you)?
From what you've written I can see absolutely no reason why you should stay with him, and absolutely no reason why he should continue to benefit from your generosity. If your sister wants him let her take him in. There is no need for you to feel any kind of guilt. You don't owe him free accommodation, sex or intimacy on demand, an allowance, a cooking and cleaning service, a job coaching service, a pet care service etc just because you had some good dates a year ago. My god, would you expect all this from anyone else??
It would be douchey if roles were reversed. Alot of women would tell her to leave her man. It's the same thing in my eyes with your story. You deserve someone that genuinely like you for you
Yeah… At least the mountains are pretty and there's low pollution. Makes up for the nepotism and dead end jobs.
That’s still statutory rape at 17 and 23. My guy, this is just so sad to read. I was wondering why you were so weirdly dependent on him.
Just ended things. I want to come and respond to y’all. Thank you for all the input and support
You’ve been married since you were 17? I want to believe this is a troll post. If not, I’ve got nothing. It’s not a situation I have any capacity to understand.
If you just want to have the experience of pregnancy and birth and genetics aren't that important, and he's the type to consider any life as a life, maybe something like embryo adoption would be an option for y'all that would be considered a middle ground. You can adopt the leftover embryos of a couple that are finished with their IVF journey.
I also would hardcore put my foot down about international adoptions, regardless of the suspicious race shopping he wants to do. They're expensive, sometimes sketchy, and there's no reason to do so when there are so many babies and children in the country that need parents.
You’re not stuck. You need to give her an ultimatum: explain these number one more time and tell her she needs to start contributing equally or else you need to leave. You are not her sugar daddy. You are going to be financially ruined if you keep letting her take advantage of you like this. Do you even have any savings? This is awful. She sounds like a terrible partner.
“She’s always been this way, very disturbing and jealous”. OP, you just told us all why you should dump her and never talk to her again. Why do you need us to convince you that she’s bad news and not stable when you already know? My dude, expect better out of your life. Don’t settle for crazy at 18.
not exactly since vasectomies actually stop production unlike tubal ligation
Follow up question should I just cave and let her do whatever she wants?
Thanks, I’ve tried to talk to him. He just gets defensive, says “oh my god” or “I can’t believe this is my life”. We’ve tried therapy and he thinks the therapist just blames him and sides with me. It’s all so toxic.
Her main hobby is overwatch she loves it and can play it for hours. She's discovered her inner gamer thanks to the pandemic. And as for chores I have to make her sit when I'm doing things cause I don't do it her way lol trust me I try to. She's also an introvert like you wouldn't believe. See my dilemma?
I've used a variety of different apps to store videos and pics that I don't want taking up storage, they always keep the original date the video/pic was taken.
Even if her story is legit, I'm honest enough with myself to know I'd never be able to get those images out of my head and I'd end it.
I have identical boys and this post just unlocked a new nightmare for me
So what does he contribute to the relationship (non financially)?
The fuck you talking about? Addiction is a disease. Doing coke will in many cases will not turn you into an addict and won’t lead to more potent drugs. You’d be surprised w how normal doing coke actually is. Sheesh, you must live in a box
You already felt harmed. He doesn’t decide that for you both.
I completely agree
She's either the most naive inconsiderate person ever or she's sprinkling some truth. Also, it sounds like she's already emotionally cheating on you with him. Those type of talks are deep and intimate and should be had with a partner, not some drunk she met at a bar. Tf she doesn't sound like a keeper. Needs validation from strangers, doesn't see the deal with having dudes sleep over her house and is an alcoholic. Next
Listen to yourself on this, even if it ultimately fails, it will teach you valuable life lessons and will give you experience.
Quite the opposite. My position is that even if she had no medical diagnosis, the problem, and what you need to do, would not change. Her claims, and attitude alone are enough to leave her. Dare I say more, the fact she was making you miserable was enough.
My problem with your attitude is that, it seems, without having proof she is a narcissist, you would still stay with her. This approach is why you are in such mess for the second time in your life.