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Dude… You are ATTACKING your wife, she screams in fear and you can't remember. Don't give us all who tell you to do the right thing some soap opera answer about your goody goodness of your heart and how great of a person you are otherwise 85% of the day. We don't care where you come from. I earn minimum wage myself, but never in my life will the safety of my child or my family be worth more than money.
Don't come here in a few months telling us how devastated you are because she left since those “episodes” moved further into the day and oh, sheeeet, there's also a little baby involved. You're not a great daddy, you're looking for excuses and money isn't one at this point. Yeah, it sucks to lose some but you telling us all that money is more important than the safety of your family… Sure sure.
Edit: oh, before I forget, the next present instead of perfume and cinema is a doctor's visit. Sure… I see you're absolutely running on the last straw.
I feel like there's a real issue with the way some people talk about/weaponize boundaries, though the commenter isn't expressing it super well. Some people seem to expect everyone to acquiesce to any demand they make just because they call it a “boundary,” and calling something a “boundary” doesn't prevent it from being an unreasonable and toxic demand.
Also true that the only way you can enforce a boundary is with your own actions, but as you point out that is kind of a distinction without a difference because if you make a boundary like “if you cheat I will leave” known then you're basically telling someone how to act, at least if they want to keep you.
Maybe a better distinction is that boundaries in a romantic relationship should be agreed upon. Most people have a moment where they agree to be exclusive or mention what they are looking for in a relationship, which the other person can take or leave. I think that's different from suddenly saying to someone you're already with, “by the way I consider even talking to another man cheating so cut it out” or “I'm telling you to stop wearing shorts.” Even if the only threat you make it walking away, that's still trying to have an inappropriate degree of control over someone's life and it can still be a jerk move. Restricting your partner's movements like OP is trying to do is pretty much always going to fall into “controlling jerk” territory and either means you're terrible or your partner is so untrustworthy that you feel the only way you can respond is being terrible. Either way you should break up.
Normally, I would say the age gap is a problem, but in your case, I think an exception is appropriate.
NTA. Report this to the RA and whatever other Dean or supervisor is in charge of student life. Also, you should tell them about how you are stuck cleaning up after this person and ask if you can move out.
*Disclaimer* I am not victim blaming at all. I fully support people who have been SA'd
Not to play the bad cop but I will… a couple of weeks ago a guy posted on here about his gf, massage therapist, something happened, etc.
A lot of people called b.s. because it just didn't add up. Turns out, it was a lie. Is your gf prone to 'testing' you to see how you'll react? Catfishing you? Getting upset that every moment in life does not equal 24/7 drama?
Just asking so we can get these questions out of the way.