sweet_couple777 the hard on-line sex chat with hottest babes with a Live HD
4K Share
sweet_couple777, 23 y.o.
Location: World
Room subject: Cum on face in public, PVT OPEN [0 tokens remaining]
To Start online video press there
On-line Live Sex Chat rooms sweet_couple777
">
So transphobic jokes are okay as long as it's not around your friends? Yikes!
Closure in the sense of emotionally understanding what happened and accepting it is never going to happen, because he is terrible at communicating feelings and any question he does explain will just give you two more questions. Also, this is a traumatizing way to leave a relationship so it is normal to ruminate on it for a very long time.
What has worked for me in the past is focusing on your own feelings. Don’t focus on why he broke up because you will never be certain of that, and it will always pain you. Instead, focus on how his actions made you feel. Look back at the relationship and how things affected you, try your best to disregard his motives as it’s pure speculation and you’ll drive yourself mad. This is all stuff you can answer without him, so focus on that.
And don’t worry about moving on, it’s a process not a destination. People try and get over this kind of pain far too fast instead of sitting with it and processing everything, and end up repeating these situations. So allow yourself to be hurt and not move on, ruminate on this as long as you need so you don’t find yourself in this situation again or if you do, you’re better prepared to deal with it. The pain will never fully heal, but one day it won’t really bother you.
Also, your mother’s advice is terrible. You’re craving answers, good relationships thrive on open and honest communication and if he had been a good partner he’d offer you some explanation or be honest with himself about what he’s feeling.