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I don't want to put this on your kids in any way, this is your MILs problem and you and your husband need to present as a united front against this treatment. But with the damage already done and the kids already scared, I think having a conversation with them to explain why grandma might be feeling this way would help them understand that while it wasn't right, it wasn't coming from no where, and that it's not their fault.
They are probably really confused and anxious right now and turning inward to find fault in themselves. Don't let that fester; let them know that grandma was in the wrong while also leaving space for them to empathize with why grandma lashed out – grandma was feeling very anxious and handled it badly. Being a kid who grew up with mentally unwell family members myself, just knowing why someone was doing what they were doing would ease a lot of panic for me if I was ever in that situation again. And having those quirks of other people explained to me when I was young also helped me stop and think about how others might feel outside of my family. It allowed me to be a more empathetic person when I was exposed to the struggles of what others were going through with myself out of the equation for blame – especially adults, who kids see as the ultimate authority who have it all together all the time.
Come up with a plan with them to make sure everyone feels safe and where to go if they need to get out. It's really good that they let you know right away. Wish cellphones were a thing when I was a kid. While I'm grateful that my mom did everything she could to instill empathy in me, it was still really harmful to be around?