Your boyfriend is trying to be a relationship guru. I don't think it is about you. Basically, it sounds like he trying to be a relationship “influencer” without going through all that pesky education to become a relationship counselor. Your boyfriend isn't trying to send you subliminal hints about your relationship, he's trying to do something that he's not qualified to do.
Rejoice! He's still a dumbass, he just not being a dumbass about you.
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Your boyfriend is trying to be a relationship guru. I don't think it is about you. Basically, it sounds like he trying to be a relationship “influencer” without going through all that pesky education to become a relationship counselor. Your boyfriend isn't trying to send you subliminal hints about your relationship, he's trying to do something that he's not qualified to do.
Rejoice! He's still a dumbass, he just not being a dumbass about you.