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He’s married. He doesn’t respect you. Never has. If you still like him, you don’t even respect yourself. Think about that. Maybe it will help
You ask for advice, you are going to get stuff you don't like, too bad. The issue isn't just him, its both of you.
If you are UNWILLING to support him, Then find a bf that can drink. , Putting him in situations he can not handle is a selfish cruelty
Yeah I completely agree. Using chatGPT is kind of like hiring a poet or buying a hallmark card. But laughing? Oh hell no.
So you guys go shopping everyday? That sounds exhausting. Onto the main point, he's deflecting. He's being lazy (it's his day to go) and is calling you out for what he's doing. From your post you mention that he isn't paying for anything (rent or utilities) but needs you to compensate him because he bought a thing or 2 from the shops.
I'm all for being even in a relationship, but the fact that he's unwilling to even let slide “some small things” from his weekly spending and needs reimbursement is crazy. Add in the fact he's living with you for free, it just takes this to a whole nother level. If this was me, I'd be paying for everything to do with the home and take out to make up for the fact that you're essentially saving him hundreds every week by housing him. Even if you're not the one paying the rent, he is still benefiting from it.
So you guys go shopping everyday? That sounds exhausting. Onto the main point, he's deflecting. He's being lazy (it's his day to go) and is calling you out for what he's doing. From your post you mention that he isn't paying for anything (rent or utilities) but needs you to compensate him because he bought a thing or 2 from the shops.
I'm all for being even in a relationship, but the fact that he's unwilling to even let slide “some small things” from his weekly spending and needs reimbursement is crazy. Add in the fact he's living with you for free, it just takes this to a whole nother level. If this was me, I'd be paying for everything to do with the home and take out to make up for the fact that you're essentially saving him hundreds every week by housing him. Even if you're not the one paying the rent, he is still benefiting from it.
thank you! i think i might reach out to her. i do feel a little awkward about it, because i hardly know her. in the few times we have interacted, i got the vibe she didn’t like me much though.
Yes, it is always a good idea to present your wife to your friends in arguments only
Healthy.
Are you sure you're not in a throuple with your besties and your wife being the side chick, given how much they are invested on a regular basis in your marriage?
My boyfriend is the exact opposite, he moved in and promptly installed a shower enema. He’s an adult and we have an adult relationship, it’s so freaking weird.
I can tell you it's not. You're hunting for reasons to call him out on. You need to let this go. You're overreacting and jumping to conclusions.
I think you ought to consider talking to your boyfriend and seeing what he makes of the crush. After all, part of the reason that X was able to sit there and chat with your BF is because you allowed it, and at the time you appear to have hoped to escalate something with him. It reflects just as poorly on you even though he was the one doing the bad thing.
I think if you try and hold it in you'll just get more and more frustrated though. Secrets like that are nude to hide and if nothing else it will forever be something that forces you to lie to your partner.
i get that. it’s just upsetting that his idea of making himself feel better is to be so terrible to me
Because he couldn’t afford to keep seeing the psychiatrist he was seeing (insurance didn’t cover it). No psychiatrist = no meds, unfortunately. Now that he’s been off the meds for a while, he thinks he’s fine without them and doesn’t want to try and find a new doctor, which isn’t uncommon in people with BPD and/or bipolar.
She either cheated on you, or thinks you have.
So accept that the relationship is over, kick her out and move on with your life.
Well then OP shouldn't be posting on Reddit and should be discussing this with a therapist – if she doesn't want BS diagnosis.
People are going to speak from their experiance, interpretations and worldview and give their perception of the dynamics – that's what Reddit is all about. OP doesn't have to take these opinions and assumptions on board.
Ultimately, in my experience, therapy will explore the potential trauma bond that draws her to this relationship. In (potential) DV, power and control dynamics its all about safety and urgency. Safety is paramount!