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“I’m going to tell my wife” is only just barely standing up for himself…and I’m being kind. He is in danger of wife losing respect for him, and that’s a bad road.
Thank you, I appreciate your words! Yeah, I have avoided another relationship, as I don't feel like I'm in the right place to have a healthy relationship with someone else at the moment. It wouldn't be fair on them, or helpful for me in the long term starting something when I'm not over my last relationship. Hopefully one day I'll get there though.
I'm really sorry you had to go through that too, glad that you have many more good days than bad though now!
I have been apologizing non-stop. Believe me. I can't stop crying. We've been in couple's counseling, the therapists were all saying the same – that he needed to step it up and stop being so cruel to me. They knew all of his medical history too. The hardest part is there was no sudden change, or even change. He was like this when I met him. It's just undoubtedly gotten worse over time. In the beginning, I thought it was trauma and not having experience in a healthy relationship. He has always owned up to needing to act and do better, but has just never seemed to be able to do it. He obviously had the tumor when we began dating, and the hemangiomas/malformations. And probably the epilepsy. He is a wonderful person when he isn't in that shitty space, so I always believed him when he said that that wasn't who he is and that he was going to change and get better. It sucks knowing that it's not going to change, but it's also a relief because I know I can do better at not taking things so personally anymore.
Your chat bot still doesn't make sense. Could you please stop changing accounts?
Major hiccups!!
Make the bed?
No
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i posted this sub reddit too get advice
Yeah and you're being advised to take a shower
He needs support like you’re not the one pushing out a baby. ???♀️
Are you sure this is who you want a baby with ?
Have a talk with him. Tell him that you don't want to get before x months, years, decades.
As soon as he finishes, get sex toys out for yourself clearly indicating that you need to take care yourself because he's not going to do it.
Also, stop giving him blow jobs.
I don't know if your situation would allow this, but could you stay with family/friends for several days? Maybe if he had to deal with the daily cleanup he would understand more.
I'm not sure why you put an ultimatum on your relationship like this. But you did, and you have avoided the ultimatum and that is great. If you use rules as written it's clear that you worked it out. Good for you, losing weight is a very difficult process.
I would feel suffocated if my weight could jeopardize my relationship one way or the other. I can't even imagine my partner sixmzing me up daily to see if I made any progress or not.
I also push my wife to exercise, I just want tmher to live! a healthy-ish lifestyle, and motivating her has been an impossible challenge I am still working through. I would never threaten to leave her over it unless it degenerated to the point where she needed help standing and sitting, or needed mobility assistance. And only if I could track that down to exclusively poor choices. And only of she refused to at least acknowledge the problem.
I wish you luck regardless of what happens, I understand that you have been and likely still are in a dark place.
I’m sorry you have to deal with this person. I had a similar issue at work and the only way it ended was to fully severe the relationship and move to a different office.
Please recognize that this child will be his #1 priority until the kid is off to college. Children can't take care of themselves and this kid will be so much better adjusted coming from a split home if the parents work together.
It sucks it ruined cuddle time, but the kid needed to go to the hospital – calls 24/7 should be not only accepted, but expected.
If you can't handle that, it's time to leave. It's OK if you aren't ready for that, too. Starting a relationship with someone with children means a LOT of compromise.
With all that said, you need to leave her alone and not cause drama with regards to the kid. I've seen at least 2 situations in my friend group where custody was lost because of a meddling or dramatic new partner. He will not, and should not, ignore his child just because he's in a new relationship.
So my recommendation:
1) Apologize and explain the WHY. Validate that he sees you as being a problem with his kid
2) Decide if you're ready to accept that the child will be his #1 until college. If not, you need to end it now because it's not fair to either of you to have misaligned expectations. You will continue to feel jealous (let's call it what it is) and he will continue to believe you're getting in the way. Get on the same page or end it.
Your bf is a wuss. He should have stepped out right away, telling his brother to return the gift, and that's inappropriate. Now he's taking it on you.
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She hasn't wanted physical affection since lockdown (years) and expects this guy to stay without working on herself at all.
She's not a bad person for being a rape victim, she's a bad person for not being a partner in her relationship and making this guy out to be a bad guy for wanting intimacy. She should let this guy go and work on herself or find an asexual.
Military standards for weight and tape are some of the dumbest things on earth. The way they measure it is by measuring your neck and your waist, and the ratio is what decides your fate. Doesn't matter if you're broad chested and chiseled from granite. If the ratio is off, then you need a uniform waiver.
“Cis” males don't have sex with “cis” males.
One being cisgender is (in the old worda) heterosexual/straight.
Straight men don't sleep with straight men.
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Cool, I'll ask your girl to give me a peck, I promise it won't be the face ?.
I never thought about the consequences it could have on possible kids ty this gave me more insight. He explained why he had to wait 10 years to fight it he’s spoken to a lawyer (showed me proof of that) and explained that he wouldn’t be able to fight it due to him falling under Walsh he can fight to have ur expunged 10 years because it’s required for 15
They will eventually find out. Secrets like this eventually get out.
I think I am just tired of anger. Good luck sorting it out with him. I personally like to watch people in their natural habitat and decide if I can on-line with it. People can change short term, but they will default back to their normal selves in the long run. Spare your nerves, watch and decide if this will work for you.
Makes sense… more daughters are having Daddy issues nowadays.
It's nice she always had you to fall back on after she had her fun. How can you know she won't just leave you again if she will feel like it? Do you really want to invest multiple years only to get ghosted? It's nude to esplain this to your family, because they are more sensible about it than you.
So it’s taken you over a year to “warn” him. You let him get pretty invested in her. Why wait so long? At what point did she usually cheat before? Has she done anything to indicate she is or is about to,cheat?
I’m not convinced your motive is pure. And no,he doesn’t need you giving him details. What purpose would that even serve? You become his spy? His confidant? His girlfriend?
He's just telling you that he's not jumping into a relationship. Goslow
What was the present, a bottle of lube?
Probably hemorrhoids cream ?
Most of them specify who as well.
Nah. That ain’t it. Good try though. Daddy was looking for a fight.
Yeah.. that's a one way ticket to destroying trust in your partner. That's super toxic
I am literally supplying all the substance from your replies to other people's comments. Well, and those comments, naturally.
Though, I got what I needed from your comments.
You are, indeed, here not for any advice.
And, unfortunately, the more you talk the more unlikeable you seem.
I wish we could learn your boyfriend's view on this situation. Would not be surprised that he simply ran away from you.
I’m gonna tell you right now the experience had nothing to do with her orgasm or how it felt physically. It had to do with the heat.
I have been with men who were the best feeling technically. But they were to boring to repeat (not saying YOU are boring)
My best partner had a THIRST for me that was intoxicating. And this experience she had, I bet it was similar.
Don’t worry about “recreating”
You can’t avoid doing some things the same and it’s also impossible to completely recreate something even if you tried.
Just be in your own moments. Some will be slow and sweet and loving. Some will be lusty and dirty and nude. She is with YOU for a reason.
Eh, hanging out in the breakroom off hours to talk about your crush? It definitely made him uncomfortable, so I disagree.
I've managed people. I'd definitely send this to HR.
Actually, masturbation with a condom is called a 'Posh wank' it's a different feeling and reduces cleanup. Quite fun on the odd occasion.
My BF is on a work trip and he doesnt get bacl till tomorrow. I know I need to deal with it in person. I dont know how bringing both my sister and BF would work just because of the situation.
No dick is worth this – ancient Fremen proverb
There’s no “relationship” to hide. He just met this woman. It’s weird as fuck to arrange a coffee date because your wife needs to meet every single person you spend time with in a group activity the second you’ve met them.
People are waaaay to weird about age gaps. They see an older person friends with a younger person and they automatically jump to grooming or some other horrible stuff even when there's no evidence to suggest that.
Noooooope. How much can someone actually love you if they think you shouldn’t get to control YOUR OWN BODY? It may be something, but without respect, it ain’t love. Run away, girl. Your gut is screaming at you for a reason.
He was with this girl before you right? What’s the issue?
As soon as we hooked up for the first time she hasn’t hooked up with anyone. We hooked up a week before becoming exclusive.
Really.dont understand what was his issue..culture?. All his family loves you.
Are you sure it is culture he is afraid of, or maybe he is worried about something else, you're not the one, he is not ready for marriage or he is a closeted gay.
Dump him.
I think they just liked the idea of being supportive, of a fun puppy that they could indulge in… but also not be at all responsible for.
Sort of speaks poorly of their view on relationships. They didn't see this as inevitably a team effort. Is that the kind of dynamic you wanted?
Just message him.. I don't get why you haven't yet? So what of the ball is in his court. Ask of he's okay, ask if his dog is still okay..
You’re right. I really have been bogged down by this. Okay I’m gonna try to be more assertive and thick skinned kinda.
I wonder how long ago she checked out. If you just noticed it it’s probably has been a long while. When was the last time she complained? When was the last time she demanded anything relationship wise? What were her old concerns? That should give you a good time line and an angle of approach. Start doing that one thing she’s asked/complained about and see if she perks up. If not, she’s probably seriously checked out of this relationship.
Hey guys, I'm stockholmed by a sexual predator, should I keep enabling him? /s
He's a surgeon? And he doesn't understand the notion that a pregnant woman can find it difficult to tie her laces? No one's station in life should mean that they can be treated with utter contempt and disrespect by someone who is meant to love them. He is an asshole. Utter asshole.
yeah, he was the one to start this part of the conversation aswell. when we were first starting to date he asked me if ‘he could rate my boobs compared to other girls’ and when i told him no he seemed shocked and disappointed
Step 1 in controlling your girlfriend: tell her what she can and can’t wear.
Watch out for the next steps.
After suffering from chronic UTIs, changing gynos, and seeing a urologist, my current gyno actually listened to me and helped immensely. She told me UTIs can be common for a number of reasons, and prescribed me an antibiotic to take once after sex. I’ve been UTI free for several months now and it’s been so relieving. My suggestion to you is finding a gyno or general practitioner (if that’s feasible, and if you’re suffering frequent UTIs because I’m kinda assuming) that you can lay all your symptoms and frequency of the infections out with, that way you can have someone help you find the root of the issue. Urgent care is good but they can’t do much besides find the bacteria you’ve got and prescribe something. As for your boyfriend, it’s unfortunate he’s choosing to put you down and showing a lack of empathy towards you being ill. This is something very common, possibility caused by his dick, and if he continues acting that way I’d reconsider the relationship.
Either take your job or both take the job and work it out long distance. His job is not reliable and yours earns more. It's important for you to accept this. I get that you want to support him, but it's even more important that you accept your job. You can discuss him accepting his job as well.
Your BF is ignorant and immature. I would not be with someone like that. Go to the doctor.