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It is what it is. If he is doing something wrong then the more you don’t give a shit will affect him more than having a go at him… you need to be with someone that wants to do it with you
Your bf really needs to toughen up, a comment like that shouldn't affect you this much. He isn't 5, what your brother said was banter and your bf could of just said something to the same extent , but chose to run away from a comment. If he can't face a simple comment, how will be in the future?
I don't think you leaving hurt the relationship unless you did it in a hurtful way. Coping mechanisms are not excuses, but that's good you are recognizing it.
That makes sense it's harder for you to stay when he is doing his own things if you don't have your things there.
Anxious attachment is for you to work on, not for him to balance out. He can have a secure attachment which can help you, but it can only go so far. You two don't text every day, like a check in or good morning?
Yeah we do, I sleep in the guest room beside our kid’s room because I nursed our kid throughout the night and he didn’t want to be woken up a bunch, and our master bedroom is downstairs.
Yeah there’s a lot of resentment in our relationship sadly. I don’t know how to work on it.
I did mention in another comment the other things he’s done, so I don’t have to type it all out again heh.
It sounds like you both want different things out of the relationship. Firstly, there's nothing wrong with that. Your desires for marriage and family are valid, but so are his desires to not do those things. It's 2023, millions of people have decades long relationships without getting married; likewise millions of people cohabit without having children. Neither of those are wrong; they're just not what you want out of the relationship any more.
Ultimately, that does make things rather difficult for the two of you. You can't force him to have a family with you, or to marry you, and it would be incredibly unfair for you to try and force either of those issues. It may simply be the relationship has run its course, and the best thing you can do, for both of you, is to go your separate ways as amicably as possible.
You should only have a child if you both are 100% certain you want to have a child. Anything less than that is unfair on the kid. Don't have a child just to keep the relationship going.
If you force him to have a child under duress, he is going to resent that child, and probably you as well. Children are not stupid; they will pick up very quickly that they aren't really wanted by their farther, no matter how hot you/he try and hide it.
It's going to be nude, but it sounds like you have reached the point in your relationship where you're fundamentally incompatible. Sit down together and try and have a respectful discussion about what you want from the relationship and whether that is the same as what he wants from the relationship.
I dot hug her and show affection, it's more so the small things of laying on the couch together or holding her at night, random flowers and being in the moment.
I know I still love her, I'm just fucking drained.
I dot hug her and show affection, it's more so the small things of laying on the couch together or holding her at night, random flowers and being in the moment.
I know I still love her, I'm just fucking drained.
You need to do some studying, your emotions are fooling you and you're believing the lies. You're not in love, you're addicted to the highs of the toxic cycles in your relationship. You have a broken concept of love and are mistaking the intensity of emotions in conflict for love. The highs feel sweeter for the lows, the making up feels like passionate romance after fighting.
Read up on the science of toxic relationships. Your fear of not loving anyone or being attracted to anyone but him is a lie you're telling yourself to excuse and validate staying. You're an addict.
It is what it is. If he is doing something wrong then the more you don’t give a shit will affect him more than having a go at him… you need to be with someone that wants to do it with you
Your bf really needs to toughen up, a comment like that shouldn't affect you this much. He isn't 5, what your brother said was banter and your bf could of just said something to the same extent , but chose to run away from a comment. If he can't face a simple comment, how will be in the future?
I don't think you leaving hurt the relationship unless you did it in a hurtful way. Coping mechanisms are not excuses, but that's good you are recognizing it.
That makes sense it's harder for you to stay when he is doing his own things if you don't have your things there.
Anxious attachment is for you to work on, not for him to balance out. He can have a secure attachment which can help you, but it can only go so far. You two don't text every day, like a check in or good morning?
Don't admit to anything bro. Trying to tell you
Yeah we do, I sleep in the guest room beside our kid’s room because I nursed our kid throughout the night and he didn’t want to be woken up a bunch, and our master bedroom is downstairs.
Yeah there’s a lot of resentment in our relationship sadly. I don’t know how to work on it.
I did mention in another comment the other things he’s done, so I don’t have to type it all out again heh.
It sounds like you both want different things out of the relationship. Firstly, there's nothing wrong with that. Your desires for marriage and family are valid, but so are his desires to not do those things. It's 2023, millions of people have decades long relationships without getting married; likewise millions of people cohabit without having children. Neither of those are wrong; they're just not what you want out of the relationship any more.
Ultimately, that does make things rather difficult for the two of you. You can't force him to have a family with you, or to marry you, and it would be incredibly unfair for you to try and force either of those issues. It may simply be the relationship has run its course, and the best thing you can do, for both of you, is to go your separate ways as amicably as possible.
You should only have a child if you both are 100% certain you want to have a child. Anything less than that is unfair on the kid. Don't have a child just to keep the relationship going.
If you force him to have a child under duress, he is going to resent that child, and probably you as well. Children are not stupid; they will pick up very quickly that they aren't really wanted by their farther, no matter how hot you/he try and hide it.
It's going to be nude, but it sounds like you have reached the point in your relationship where you're fundamentally incompatible. Sit down together and try and have a respectful discussion about what you want from the relationship and whether that is the same as what he wants from the relationship.
I dot hug her and show affection, it's more so the small things of laying on the couch together or holding her at night, random flowers and being in the moment.
I know I still love her, I'm just fucking drained.
I dot hug her and show affection, it's more so the small things of laying on the couch together or holding her at night, random flowers and being in the moment.
I know I still love her, I'm just fucking drained.
You need to do some studying, your emotions are fooling you and you're believing the lies. You're not in love, you're addicted to the highs of the toxic cycles in your relationship. You have a broken concept of love and are mistaking the intensity of emotions in conflict for love. The highs feel sweeter for the lows, the making up feels like passionate romance after fighting.
Read up on the science of toxic relationships. Your fear of not loving anyone or being attracted to anyone but him is a lie you're telling yourself to excuse and validate staying. You're an addict.