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  1. Your gf body shaming you is unacceptable. You clearly are being disrespected and you need to find someone that is more compatible and will treat you with respect.

  2. There is nothing left to stay for. You can't even claim to stay for the kids, because he sucks with them as well.

    Moving your kids lives will be difficult, but it's the only way forward. And getting them out of the house of an alcoholic, neglectful cheater can only be a good thing.

  3. You shouldn't do this

    Should I (f) take a pay cut to make it work w/ my bf?

    When you know this

    has strong feelings against a future where we would share finances even though he makes $1m+.

    jobs in FL in my market would pay 50% less for my field and that doesn’t account for my professional growth over the next ~20 years.

    the legal aspects of an unfavorable prenup

    He’s an attorney and I automatically feel like I’m at a disadvantage at the potential loopholes and intricacies and have seen how it works for his clients.

    This guy only wants and expects you to sacrifice. You're too smart to think this is a good idea or remotely reasonable.

  4. Well it's up to you now. Hubby won't stand up for you so you have to. I'd make a point to your man that you are doing what he should be. I'd say this to the FIL “I'm happy to have a better happier future with you so let's work on that. Here are somethings I need in order to move on. An apology for rude/mean comments. Also apologize to my parents. I don't like comments that paint me in a bad light so please avoid those. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything. I'm open to hearing your thoughts on this and let me know what I need to do to go forward.” See how that goes.

  5. Wow I don't get all those people who says you should break up with her.

    Stop overthinking. She said it was a game and she'll get rid of them. You established a boundary and she says she'll respect it. Why the drama?

    Her life before you is not your business, and I had some friends that did similar things when were young and free.

    I really don't see a big deal.

  6. So it’s a bit unclear. Did she follow these guys after this party or was she already following them?

    If it’s the latter than it’s shady as all heck. Especially if she told you she wasn’t meeting up with any dudes before hand.

    If it’s the former than it may be totally innocent. But if you’re uncomfortable just tell her. It’s ok to have boundaries and to tell her what they are. If she thinks they’re unreasonable she can have that conversation with you.

    My main concern would be this outing she went to. Where was she going that it was able to turn from a girls’ night out to a group activity. And once it was no longer a girls’ night out, she didn’t think to call you and invite you down? I don’t understand why people get into relationships and then act single. If she makes a habit of this I’d be moving on.

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  8. This is the textbook definition of gas lighting. She did something wrong and is making you feel bad for being upset.

    She needs to apologize to you. You have every right to be upset.

  9. Couples counseling.

    Neither of you are fun and free wheeling now: you have kids: I’m sorry you made that choice and it’s hurting your relationship:

    A professional could help:

  10. I did this too with my first boyfriend. After a year I had a sudden realization that all my perfect behavior meant that he didn’t really know me. A couple times I tried being myself but he told me that made him uncomfortable.

    I realized the relationship was a waste of my time because he inly liked me because I was accommodating. I broke up with him . The next guy I went out with got the real me- obnoxious sense of humor and all. He LOVED it. He loved the real me. We were married 2 years later and have been happily married for the last 30+ years. Give yourself this opportunity. Let go of this relationship- give yourself the opportunity to find real love.

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  12. You would think the way she treats you like a play thing would affect how you feel for her. She sounds ugly to me

  13. Ok so if there have been conversations focussed on “what is our shared understanding of the issues” and you have not reached a consensus in the many years this has been a problem, then i do not think you are going to at this point.

    I think you have to consider what your steps are, believing that this will literally never change.

  14. It sounds like you are holding yourself back for the sake of your girlfriend who you have fallen out of love with.

    Life is too short to force love on the wrong person. You clearly need some time to explore this other side of you, and you cannot do that in this relationship.

    Face that its not working and break up with her. Do the hard thing so that you can be free to discover yourself and what you truly want

  15. As a fellow Canadian and long time beer league player I'm amazed that you think it's weird for a woman to change with her team.

  16. Do the anger management. I have no idea what Delta 8 is but you are right to take responsibility for this, and be prepared that if anything like this ever happens again she will need to leave you for good.

  17. Mental illness doesn't make someone a bad person, no. However, saying and doing terrible things to your partner, and showing a sustained lack of love and care over a period of years, does in fact make you a bad partner. And it's reasonable that marriages may break up if someone treats their partner that way, even if if there was a mental health issue at the base of it.

  18. Love is not enough for a long-term relationship. You also have to be compatible and have the same general life goals: move/stay put, kids/no kids, travel/cocoon, etc. You two are not compatible. It is a lost cause.

  19. it's not worth it, nor is it a classy thing to do.

    you want to take something that ended on good terms and blow it right the hell up into drama? really bad idea IMO

  20. It's time yo grow up. She had other options but chose to do that. Have an honest conversation about it and let her know exactly how you feel. Then, discuss boundaries. If you can both agree to them without coercion, great. If not, you have to consider that you may be incompatible in the long-term and need to part ways. It does not mean either of you is a bad person; just persons with different moral values.

  21. Everyone tells me I’m so young and that I have my whole life a head of me and that I need to on-line a little. Is that so?

  22. I did talk to him and he says he’s willing to move. I’m worried that it’s unfair to make him do that over a job especially since he’s finally happy at his job. I don’t know if I want to turn it down but I also don’t know if I’d want to make him move

  23. How much did you even spend, it was a thrift store. So like twenty bucks? Of your own money?

    And the term “own money” is weird, it's weird that you two approach your finances so separately given that you are married.

  24. Poor guy. Go get some help from a therapist. Find out why you are so low that you would even consider this.

  25. Is she overweight? I assume so, given that she's 20 odd years old and has gallstones. If so, that unfortunately makes hormonal contraceptives less effective.

  26. Talk to your boyfriend. Explain how you feel, and set some boundaries about how much time you can realistically spend cleaning your shared space. If he feels he can’t step up, do you think you could afford paying someone to come in twice a month to do floors /bathroom / kitchen? That might not be a long term solution, but it might give you the space to sort things out between the two of you

  27. You've only been dating 3 months, she doesn't get an automatic invite to everything. Plus I'm guessing that these friends actually know the bride and groom, while your GF has never met them before.

  28. IMO the theoretical progression of a healthy relationship would have a conversation (at some point) about what each person is looking for… including exclusivity or not and possibly what has gone right or wrong in past relationships. But thats all theoretical.

  29. I realize you're 18, and I mean this is the nicest possible way, but are you stupid? Why the fuck would you think that any of that would happen? And “resorting your rep” is just silly.

  30. You need to have a rational conversation about it. I'm currently pregnant. And it's hard. Both mentally, and physically. As well as babies are expensive. We had no savings due to this baby being unplanned and are struggling and you shouldn't really want to go into that knowing you will Your probably better giving her a time line say, how your not stable financially currently and you'll revisit it in like a year or so. That way your not brushing it under the table but she doesn't need to keep bringing it up As someone with mh issues, she needs to acknowledge they probably will get worse during pregnancy as prenatal depression is common as well as post natal and it's really affected how I feel about both my pregnancies

  31. Why are you making so much effort for someone who is making zero for you. It's not you. It's him. Find someone new. The bar is set low. Good luck

  32. It sounds like you have different outlooks on pornography and you’re thinking it’s about masturbation. Not everyone has the same perspective on it, it sounds like you both just disagree on the subject and she doesn’t really know how to communicate it. She also might not have cared until she saw it happening with her own eyes. Masturbation does not not equal pornography, porn is not required to masturbate. I think you’re approaching it wrong by thinking she’s trying to limit self pleasure and she is as well by not communicating what’s really bothering her. Give her time and try to talk about your differences and come to a compromise.

  33. That sounds way too convenient that it's turned off. Also didn't she have a pin or facial recognition on?

  34. Dude. Leave. Your wishes and feelings arent being considered or respected. LEAVE. RUN. I cannot out it more plainly than this. Honor yourself…

  35. You don't need either of them in your life. It's going to feel like suffering either way, but staying in that situation will make you consistently feel awful, where as just removing yourself from the equation will let you move on over time so you can find your happiness and pride again.

  36. You either look at fixing it or move on. Is your body telling you that you aren’t happy with your partner? Or that you’ve taken too much on? It concerns me that you wouldn’t miss it, it makes me question the quality of the sex you’ve been having. You have to disentangle. Take some time and try and figure it out. Do an honest assessment of your relationship. But if there’s something wrong in the bedroom, you have to ask why.

  37. Not really because I know and talk to his boyfriend and his girlfriend is my girlfriend as well and neither have heard from him?

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