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  1. It doesn’t matter whether other people think it’s okay or not. If YOU don’t like the behavior then that’s what matters.

    It seems like your boyfriend cares more about following these girls than your feelings. You shouldn’t have to beg a man to respect your boundaries. So I would rethink the relationship!

  2. Therapy is the answer my dude. The fact that you are aware of this and want to fix it means you’ve already taken the first step, but you’ll need therapy and actual work in order to change. And if the first therapist doesn’t work out, don’t be scared off; you may have to try a few before you find one that works well for you, but I promise you it’s worth it.

  3. Maybe you can make cleaning into an activity you do together? Like set aside 2 hours each weekend and have that be what you're doing. One person cleans the bathrooms while the other vacuums, do laundry, and clean the kitchen.

    It seems to me that if she can hold down a higher paying job, she should be capable of cleaning. It's not fun, so maybe she has just never forced herself to do it and people in her life have enabled it. By making it a shared activity that you do at the same time, maybe it can force her to take some responsibility, and also encourage small behaviors throughout the week as she gets more used to it?

  4. I mean look at the bright side.

    You can channelise your energy to plan a new life, without her .

    Won't that be better than planning one with a traitor?

  5. I mean i guess youre right, i just geniunely dont see how im being controlling in this situation. We have a very free relationship and 90% of her friends are male and that doesnt bother me, my only rule is once they cross the line theyre out, no more friend. I dont feel that thats being controlling

  6. Everyone says call the police but I’ve been in a similar situation and tbh I would not have followed that advice because it’s incredibly difficult to do.

    I would make plans to leave

  7. This is such a good response!!! I 100% agree that contempt is the relationship killer; there was a study on emotional dynamics in arguments as a predictor for divorce and far and away, couples who felt and displayed contempt for each other while arguing were the most likely to get divorced.

  8. Thank you, I will.

    I plan to call on Monday since something triggered me yesterday and my meds haven't been helping.

  9. Picture your life without your boyfriend in it. Ignore the other 2 guys for a minute – does your life look better or worse? Picture him dating someone else – would it leave you crushed or would you not care?

    EVERYONE finds other people attractive now and again, irrespective of how strong their relationship is. What matters is whether you act on it.

    If above, you realised that you're indifferent about losing your relationship with your boyfriend – then maybe that relationship has just run its course. If you realise that you would be upset if he wasnt in your life or if he moved on, then this is just a natural thing. You don't need to act upon any of these other feelings.

    What I will say is that even if the relationship has run it's course and you want to pursue either of the other two guys, it isn't an automatic win for you;

    The guy who started snapping you doesn't care about your relationship boundary. He's going behind his friends back and pursuing his longterm gf. That's pretty murky and the reality is that he probably still won't care about those boundaries if you started dating him – so it would probably be a matter of time before he was going behind your back.

    And with the other guy; it's going to be difficult for you to start something if you're part of the same friend group as your current bf. It's probably going to take some time before you're going to be able to get together.

  10. No, he didn’t. Sorry if it sounded like that. We met each other about 6mo before dating. He broke off the relationship about 2 months after we met. Their relationship wasn’t the greatest. She didn’t want anyone to know she was dating a “black man”, so the relationship was going to end.

  11. Girl run! This is a classic case of a grown ass asshole of a man child preying on a very young inexperienced girl so he can use her and manipulate her.

  12. Any 30 year old woman who acts like that has much deeper issues than a little insecurity. Trust your gut, OP. It's telling you to run for the hills and so am I!

  13. Yes that’s the connotation behind skinny dipping, aptly named as risqué. Again, hard beach, everyone is hard, no connotation. Sauna, everyone is naked, no connotation. Community shower at a festival – it’s a shower.

    Skinny dipping was a bad example to pick.

  14. Openly talking about someone you work with is entirely normal. What you need to watch for is if she a) stops talking about him or b) hides talking / meeting with him (If it happens it will do so in that order). Those are the inflexion points in a relationship.

  15. Thank you – you've summed up exactly how I feel about the situation.

    I think you can “go with the flow” when it comes to things like booking vacations etc…..but major life decisions like having a child together needs to be a deliberate choice, and not based on a whim or a feeling at the time. I also think he's far too old to be this casual about the direction of his life.

  16. I don't know why I JUST got a notification on my phone for your comment—I can see you posted it 12 hours ago. Anyways, this cat definitely has a million safe places (cat tree, hammock on the window, on the counters, top of the fridge, etc.). He has constant access to food and water and multiple litter boxes. He also has access to all of the upstairs; my dog is not allowed upstairs in this apartment.

    It's a year old and fixed. I don't think he's sick, but I think he might be bipolar.

  17. Dating is a time to decide if you are compatible. It's okay to decide you are not. At ant time, for any reason. Be kind but end it and move on.

  18. If you are financially dependent on your parents, can't get a job to advance your own future, and aren't smart enough to get a scholarship, then what makes you think you are a big enough prize that you will find a “better” match? What even makes you think you will be able to pass your courses to be a doctor?

    I don't necessarily believe in arranged marriages or forcing someone into a relationship they don't want to be in, but you are judging a woman based purely on her appearance and stories/gossip from other people. Weight can be lost…it's pretty difficult to fix a shitty and judgmental personality.

  19. So complimenting them, listening to them, asking them how their day was, and responding that they look pretty when they send you a Snapchat of their face, all of these things are red flags and creep girls out??? Because these are the things that I am doing and all of them lead to me getting ghosted.

  20. Dude why is this fucking rocket science?! Split the difference. It's one occasion for crying out loud.

  21. The fact that you’ve been divorced twice at 27 and are already leaning heavily on a new boyfriend is a little alarming. How long have you been seeing this guy? Do you on-line together?

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