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Bottom line is she is being disrespectful. She knows this. Would you ever comment on anything physical about her in a manner like she is doing with you? She KNOWS you would be insecure about it and yet still said something to (at best) ignore your feelings (but probably) intentionally hurt you. OR worse, this is the beginning of a manipulation tactic to wear you down, but keep you for her own validation.
I would not ever accept behavior like that, its just not respectful. The good thing is, you can choose to leave her because of something she COULD have changed.
Threesomes are a bad idea for the following reasons.
Humans are not robots. If you know the people you already have a connection to them. If you add a physical connection to the scenario then you become more than just “friends' whether you want to or not. There is little in life that is more barrier breaking that being naked and inside of someone. For example, imagine running into him alone at the store and having on some leggings. Do you think he is not going to be thinking about sex every time he sees you? FFM threesomes actually aren't that enjoyable. Porn creates these unrealistic scenarios where one man is going from vagina to vagina and pumping out orgasms like an assembly line. But in real life they usually just result in the guy nutting fast and the women being like “So….do we continue without you?” And the other awkward scenario is if the guy sees the new girl as a new toy and spends the entire time on her leaving his girlfriend feeling neglected. Men sometimes have extremely weak ego's. We love to think we have a golden penis but knowing female anatomy by having a vagina is probably going to result in a stronger orgasm than he can give his girlfriend. And if this happens watch the insecure begin to build up.
Red flag #1 phone down. Red flag #2 weekends only- you guys are in your 30’s and have been together 8 months. If it was a serious relationship, that would be changing. Red flag #3- bad communication Red flag #4- never tried to prevent pregnancy, but wants you to use abortion as birth control Red flag #5- violent tendencies
…I could keep going. Whatever you decide to do with the baby is your choice, but that man needs to be out of your life. You can’t talk out those red flags. You can’t make that better. If you keep the baby, I suggest going no contact with him and getting away from him. Raising a child alone is better than raising a child in fear.
Gosh my husband also made dumb ‚jokes‘
Had a talk with him and he toned it down.
I think he tried to tease you because of how your reacted and be provocative.
You should just confront him and set a clear boundary that you don’t allow these kind of ideas thrown around so carelessly and it impacts your trust.
He normally should apologize if you stay persistent and not deflect your point of view.
You know everything you have said to me just went through my mind. Thank you so much for confirming to me that I'm not crazy!
Cheaters don’t feel sorry for their partner, they feel sorry for the consequences they receive. Cheaters are fundamentally selfish people who couldn’t care less about their partners until they have something to lose.
That isn’t your girlfriend anymore. Take the L, wear it on your chest, and I’ll see you at the gym buddy
Actually your husband sounds like me haha, I am not a materialistic person and I dont like to recieve any gifts and stuff I dont need at all and I hate to pretend otherwise. So over the years I just told my family to only gift me money so I can get something I actually need and so they wont waste any money, time and energy to think about something. And the same goes the other way around, I cant gift anything to people, yesterday I was walking around for 3 hours trying to find something for my bf and 2 friends and couldnt get anything for them, cause everything I see is just unneccssary stuff.. So maybe your husband is similar?
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We have talked about it, and I dont feel like it helped. She only does things like that during the weekends but on rare occations.
No one who is “head over heels” in love with someone would “leave all night for other guys”. Even if she only kissed someone else, she ditched her sisters and friends at her sisters bachelorette to hang around other random men.
I don’t like to go out and get overly drunk without my bf, but in a case of a girls event like this my last concern would be entertaining other guys in any manner. Especially during those first couple years when your really falling in love with them and “head over heels” that’s what will be on your mind, no matter how drunk you are.
I remember girls nights out when I’d probably talk about my bf way too much, text him a lot and constantly be thinking about when I could sneak outside and quickly call and talk to him or maybe to the bathroom to send him a cute selfie.
Even single I actually hate being approached by men when out drinking lol. Drinking isn’t an excuse to immediately want to become physical and hang off every strange guy you see, I just don’t get that sentiment.
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All that will happen is he will agree to what you say to appease you and in a years time you will realise you have wasted another year. You should know how he is. You can’t make someone change who they are.
Not being attractive to two specific guys =/= not being attractive.
Presenting this insecurity early on however might make him disinterested. Let him decide if you’re attractive to him or not and if you’re not, that has everything to do with their personal tastes. It doesn’t define you.
Long-distance doesnt really work.
Contact will just start fading naturally after a yearish.
She probably doesn't want to hang out with you one on one. Try inviting her to do a group activity and see if she wants to go.
Don’t move in with him, he’s unreasonable.
Not tolerating it by leaving is standing up for yourself.
Opposite of love is apathy not revenge. Don't tar yourself with a brush you'll never be able to wash of out of spite, revenge or for a shag.
Don't be that person.
Yelling and swearing at your spouse is not normal. My wife and I have never sworn at each other.
I know. Hopefully he’ll have some understanding but it’s his call. Fingers crossed.
Well, double check. I think if it's the actual procedure and not just the pill, some places will request that you have someone who can make sure you get home okay.
This is what I think. Projects is likely code for “set up a new display” or something.
A see a few possibilities here.
She still finds you attractive even though she doesn’t want to date you.
She changed her mind about dating you and doesn’t know how to approach you about it.
She’s not interested in dating you, but she doesn’t like that you gave up so easily instead of continuing to pursue you, and it hurts her ego.
She actually was interested but planned on playing naked to get and was surprised you gave up.
First of all, you handled things the right way. Period. You asked her, she absolutely gave you a very clear rejection, and you politely accepted that and stopped pursuing her. You did what all guys SHOULD do in this situation.
The ball is in her court now. If she actually IS interested in you, then SHE should come up to you. STARING at you is not a reasonable way to tell you she wants you to ask her out again. Maybe she thinks she’s dropping hints by staring at you, but she’s wrong.
Continue ignoring her until SHE comes up to YOU.
While yes he should look into post partum depression because it can affect men too, support him in that but until that's sorted out you should consider moving your daughter to a safer place . Not only was he recklessly driving but his anger towards her is worrisome. I wouldn't leave him alone with her
Is his friend gonna get an art room?
You're right here.
Sounds like you have never done couple's therapy and just brushed everything under the rug. You need to do therapy together and she should acknowledge what happened.
Just a theory but he left her. She still wants him. Even if it's just the little time she gets with him. He is the father of her child that you will not be. Why put yourself in such a situation. You will always be #2. not after another 10 months does she think it's worth you seeing him for not seeing you two as serious.
That would be super creepy to me too. Good luck getting away from his creepiness.
She will also ruin all three children’s lives. Her existing ones AND the new kid. The older kids will be brutalized at school and in the community because of the dynamic—not right, but true. How will their relationship be with the new child? Complicated as fuck. And new kid will be “rape baby” FOREVER. If they got adopted out anonymously, they would not have to on-line that horrible life.
Take me instead! I got a house in Brasil you are totally welcome! Also got a sailboat in the US I can take you on a tour! ?
Oh cry me a fucken river.
You groomed & abused his best friend then neglected/abandoned your only son. You didn't even feel any remorse for what you did and were GLAD he left for college so that you could continue to abuse Max.
You still lack any awareness or recognize what you did was wrong.
You made your bed now lay in it you pedophile and disgusting groomer.
Stay TF away from your son and his family. He doesn't need to have a pedophile of a mother's around his family.
Leave. Block on all platforms.
Hopefully he gets help
I definitely need to work on this. It is honestly so naked to be calm because it seems as if our arguments are repetitive and repetitive over the same basic thing. But your right, I need to make sure I am more calm moving forward.
how is it more suffering for him to make eye contact, introduce himself and explain he has a headache and is going to bed. thats like 10 seconds of extra work and would have saved him 4 hours of tension w his wife.
Please say his penis is too small and he’s a creep to show sister’s pic.
You could just ask her to meet for coffee, to talk and hang. If she asks why, just tell her you think she is interesting, you enjoy talking with her, and would like to get to know her better. Don’t put a label on it and don’t react defensively if she says no. Just be chill about it. This way if she says no, you can still maintain the friendship.
If this is real, which I hope it isn't, then throw the peels away. That's disgusting and probably stinks.
My grandmother smoked for years in her house. When she moved across state lines in 1992 she gifted me a cabinet with glass doors. We left it in the garage for nearly six months, regularly cleaning it, and I can STILL in 2023 smell her cigarettes when I open the doors. It's faint, but it's there. (Honestly though it's faint enough that it's a nostalgia now and not disgusting, but it's taken forever to get it to that point)
Dad bought her a house when she moved back years later and forbade her from smoking in the house, we could tell she still did it, just not every day. Ticked him right off.
You need to go to see a family therapist with your wife and see if there's a way to move forward. Your story makes no sense. You have a child you met in 2021? So you did not know you had a child? Or you did? Did your wife know you had a child when she married you? Did you discuss the possibility of her having this child move in before he arrived? Did you go to marriage counselling or therapy with your wife before he arrived?
It is easy to say your wife is horrid – but if you sprung a 'surprise' child on her, and 'surprise' that child is moving in? Then really she has a right to say no, this is not what I signed up for. Should she have said he was a scholarship kid? Hell no. You give partial information, it makes your wife sound horrible, but we actually don't know the full situation. Was this move discussed before the kid arrived? Was she really ok with it? It seems not. See a marriage and family therapist. You might have gained a son but in the long run will loose your wife and two young children.
Yes maybe I should ask in a travelling group where people actually know what it’s like. The 4 months I spent in London last summer where actually quite warm and sunny. But I guess some people prefer to focus on the negative. Thank you for your opinion 🙂
It is not an accident. You know you can't handly your alcohol and you still keep drinking.
Tell him you are not his property to give away and you’re not interested, and never will be.
I’d also check the house for hidden cameras in case he’s taking video of you and sharing it.
If my husband offered me up to a friend, that would be the beginning of the end. He doesn’t respect you.
Okay I get that. In my mind, his dental issues are because he rarely brushes his teeth and hadn't gone to the dentist in years until I persuaded him to go. He still doesn't take care of his teeth and I see these issues as preventable, whereas I do what I can about wrinkles but they are inevitable.
Pressure will never lead to success. She needs to want it herself, otherwise, it will never work. If you want this to succeed, you will need a lot of patience. Therapy can take years. If you can't wait until she is truly ready, then you need to break up. Pressure will only worsen the problem and never be the solution.
Sorry but she’s a lying cheating sc*m. Doesn’t even deserve your tears. Move on and worry not… not all girls are like this. You will find the right one.
They sound awful. Ignore them. Walk about with a piece of paper and take notes. Verbal abuse- check. Histrionics- check, emotional manipulation- check! Laugh at them and be thankful you escaped. Buy a book on being assertive- there are loads of great tricks for dealing with people like this, turning questions around, taking them apart, refusing to engage, etc. I would go for the jugular- ‘so is it better to starve your family or dress nicely when doing dirty work?’ ‘Afraid your meal ticket is leaving?’- but I’m a petty bitch. Get away from them. Be happy. On-line your life and tell your partner he’s an absolute star.
The guy sounds unhinged. Dump his controlling, childish ass and go get your bag, sis!!
It doesn't matter who he says it to.
If he was dating you and you found out he was telling people that he wanted to break up with you while still dating you, you'd be pissed.
He's respectful to his ex but not to his current girlfriend? That's fucked up.