Did she give you a specific date to come, and confirm those dates worked for her? Or was it more of a casual, “You should come visit me sometime!”. It sounds like she may be having second thoughts, or maybe she is attached.
Best thing to do is probably call her on the phone. If she doesn't answer, then just leave her a voicemail saying, “Look, I can see you may be having second thoughts about meeting again. That's ok. Just please let me know and I can cancel my trip. It's no big deal.”
Otherwise, if you can't cancel, see if you can get a buddy to go too and then just tour around.
Did she give you a specific date to come, and confirm those dates worked for her? Or was it more of a casual, “You should come visit me sometime!”. It sounds like she may be having second thoughts, or maybe she is attached.
Best thing to do is probably call her on the phone. If she doesn't answer, then just leave her a voicemail saying, “Look, I can see you may be having second thoughts about meeting again. That's ok. Just please let me know and I can cancel my trip. It's no big deal.”
Otherwise, if you can't cancel, see if you can get a buddy to go too and then just tour around.
The irony of that commenter trying to paint OP as a problem… only helps OP…
Dm me if you want to talk l more. I think everyone on here is wrong, I've had these insecure thoughts. I know how it feels
Oh, my bad. Sorry, English is not my first language ?
Maybe file a restraining order against her. This is odd behavior