I’m actually stunned how this is even a post. You routinely disrespect your relationship by talking about past sexual acts with your exes AND you’re still close friends with one of them?? Honestly, I’m surprised he hasn’t broken up within you yet. In the small chance he decides to stay with you, I think you HAVE to do two things: 1) cut off ALL contact with your ex, and 2) stop talking about your past sexual acts.
Better find out fast.
I’m actually stunned how this is even a post. You routinely disrespect your relationship by talking about past sexual acts with your exes AND you’re still close friends with one of them?? Honestly, I’m surprised he hasn’t broken up within you yet. In the small chance he decides to stay with you, I think you HAVE to do two things: 1) cut off ALL contact with your ex, and 2) stop talking about your past sexual acts.
Good luck.
Does she have any position of power at her job?
Because that sounds like she's having an affair at work with a coworker, and someone saw or knows about it.
Does she mention any males from work randomly? Or work closely with a male coworker?
Most affairs are with coworkers, as there is plenty of time/locations for sex (before/after work, bathrooms, in cars, etc.).
On the other side of things, did your wife get a promotion recently over someone else?