I would be willing to bet that he is causing the allergic reaction with something he knows will cause the flare up. So that he can use the flare up to manipulate and hurt you. You are in an abusive relationship.
You've completely made up one possible explanation for the problem and used that to claim, definitely, that she is being abused.
If you want monogamy, you should not be dating someone who wants polyamory.
There are so many posts about people like this in the Polyamory subreddits. The mono person is always mad that the poly person is poly, and it never, ever ends well.
Shoot your shot.
Let him break up with you. Who has time to deal with this b.s. level of insecurity?
I would be willing to bet that he is causing the allergic reaction with something he knows will cause the flare up. So that he can use the flare up to manipulate and hurt you. You are in an abusive relationship.
You've completely made up one possible explanation for the problem and used that to claim, definitely, that she is being abused.
This is absolutely fucked.
Or you can get her a puffer just for those events.
If you want monogamy, you should not be dating someone who wants polyamory.
There are so many posts about people like this in the Polyamory subreddits. The mono person is always mad that the poly person is poly, and it never, ever ends well.