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  1. My dreams won't come true because I can't afford them

    I try and help him but he just complains constantly

    I mean im just a stranger on the internet, and I have no clue what I'm talking about but this sounds like learned helplessness. Maybe have more conversations with him, and what he can do in his situation to get better. And how he's wrongfully making you feel guilty about finally doing well financially. If you're not flaunting it and telling him that you're richer than he is, he has no right to try and make you feel guilty as to where you are. It's not like money magically came to you and you have no sense it's value, you worked hot for it and deserve what you've earned.

  2. Trans person here! First of all, what a kind and loving person you are. I know the difference between being generous and gullible is a fine line at times, but in my opinion money (to some extent) can usually be earned back. But it’s good that you put your foot down and cancelled the credit card. You’re not responsible for her finances and especially not when you’re not swimming in money at the moment.

    Transitioning can be really difficult and taxing. But that doesn’t mean she gets to opt out of decent human being responsibilities. It was clear to her that this was a loan. It’s within your rights to expect her to pay it back within a reasonable time.

    If she doesn’t have the money, she should be able to sit down with you and set down a plan for how and when she’ll be able to pay you back. The fact that she’s turning down work when she owes you money seems really shitty to me. What she could have done was work full time until she paid you back and then taken time off to work on herself. Hell, with a full time job she could also have afforded to see a therapist, buy gender affirming stuff and anything else she wants. To me this all sounds like she’s not really prioritizing you and your financial well-being.

  3. I’ve been in the same situation as your husband. I took care of my ex as she went through mental health issues. I worked multiple jobs while going to school so I could pay a majority of our bills. She worked part time and I drove her too and from work every day. I started working where she did so I could do this. I did almost all our chores and household stuff. Before she dropped out of school, I did her homework when she was having episodes. I wrote a couple 10 page paper for her after I wrote my own because we had the same class. I would wash her in the shower and physically put the clothes on her to get her dressed. It was exhausting.

    She didn’t put in the work to get better. It just kept going on and on and on of me doing everything for her. It gets so exhausting. When she was doing better, she still didn’t help out. It broke me, ruined my attraction for her, and was so damaging to my mental health.

    This is about so much more than you think it is. It isn’t about the chores. It’s about the longterm. You think he didn’t say anything, but he probably did. In my situation, I said something. I was either made to be the bad guy and/or she made the choice to ignore it. When I broke up with her, she thought it came out of nowhere. It didn’t. I said something and I was disregarded and eventually stopped. But there was signs she would’ve seen if she cared to pay attention. But she didn’t.

    Your husband has been pushed too far. We all have our limits. If he says he’s done, you’ve gotta believe him. This didn’t come out of nowhere. It isn’t just because of the chores. It’s been building. And he is done.

  4. You need to ask her what will make her feel most comfortable and safe. That's all that matters. Everyone will have different opinions and answers.

  5. Well we've known each other for like 5 months. Just not romantically, and I haven't messaged her since last Summer.

  6. Stop! This is emotional abuse. Start glancing at your male friends asses and openly ask your boyfriend how big he thinks his friend's dick is

    When your boyfriend inevitably snaps get straight to the point. Why does he get to pretend to cheat on you when you can't.

    If you want to really scar your boyfriend to life randomly ask him if you were thinking of other men during sex with him would he want you to tell him?

    That ego will come crumbling down.

  7. I agree wholeheartedly in principle.

    In practice, a man refusing his partner becomes his problem again.

    Sure, it’s not fair, but that’s the kind of unfairness that we have to deal with all the time.

  8. this isn't one thing though. Its him not caring about your wellbeing, your health and not respecting you.

    Those are HUGE things.

    r/mypartneristrans may be helpful.

    Finding a gender affirming therapist to see together would go a long way. This is only the tip of the …erm…. ice berg with a transition.

    I divorced my ex. She came out as a woman but also as a selfish asshole.

  9. If I'd dating him for 3 years and he's given me no reason to think he's not attracted to me, I'm going to trust his word. If he watches gay porn, whatever. So long as the relationship is solid.

    You said you've had countless talks with him and he hasn't changed his answer. That should be enough for you. If you don't believe him, don't date him. Because clearly you don't trust him to be honest with you and that's not a sign of a healthy relationship.

  10. Yes I’m considering to change the ticket. But he says that the ticket that he booked for me cannot be refund or else he have to pay a lot of money to do that.

    I guess at the same time I don’t want to put a burden on him. But after the email incident I’m starting to doubting again..

  11. If he weren’t driving drunk and overdoing it most times he went out, I’d say that you’re being controlling to ask him not to go ever. But he’s not being responsible.

    And that’s a bigger deal than just a personal preference or boundary. It’s a risk to him. It’s a risk to all the other people on the road. And if he gets caught or causes an accident, he would lose his ability to drive and possibly his job and possibly his freedom altogether. That would have huge impacts on you/future child.

    You shouldn’t need to set this particular rule or boundary as he’s an adult. But here we are as he doesn’t seem capable of using moderation.

    Seems to me maybe a talk with his doc to get on naltrexone or something might be wise.

  12. Okay, so there's 5 motherfuckers with dicks in that house. And you immediately want to jump and blame the one who doesn't have one?

  13. Is your sister on the sleep meds too? Do you really need them or did your parents insist you need them? Sorry, I always think the worst!

  14. Well 10 out of 10 I'm making it a big deal. I won't be quite and I would say exsactly what I would do is it happens agin. “If this happens agin I will go to the cops with the evidence and pictures one of you is gross”

    The fact that mom is trying to downplay it makes me think 2 things. She's protecting someone or she can't believe it happened.

  15. Well 10 out of 10 I'm making it a big deal. I won't be quite and I would say exsactly what I would do is it happens agin. “If this happens agin I will go to the cops with the evidence and pictures one of you is gross”

    The fact that mom is trying to downplay it makes me think 2 things. She's protecting someone or she can't believe it happened.

  16. Move on, she’s lost respect for you because she thinks you’re less masculine than you are. It’s toxic bullshit you can do without. And get yourself some nice stilettos.

  17. I’d say be a friend and encourage her to leave for HER. (Don’t engage in any cheating though you know?)

  18. Honestly. After that husband of the female cop who fucked half the department said he was sticking by her side. I don’t underestimate anyone anymore

  19. I've seen MRM groups going against legislation against domestic violence and sexual violence (that would also help men that are victims), against the equal pay and better maternity leave and most other things that the feminist movement is in favor because in their conception feminism is at fault for men's issues

  20. Why don't I see anyone mentioning the difference in age? The other way around it gets mentioned immediately.

    Weird.

  21. There was a similar post to this many years ago where it turned out the OP had a bad reaction to bed bugs. OP, check your boyfriends bed for bed bugs

  22. Why did you entertain the idea to contact her again? A break gave you the right to live your life as you wish and not a holiday! Forget her asap and never speak again!

  23. Tell her that if she is afraid you will have sex, you can have sex at noon… LOL my mom had this crazy idea that if I went out with my bf late at night I would have sex, i informed her that if I wanted to have sex it could be really earlybin the morning or at noon with no issues, it was hilarious to see her face, that was more than 20 years ago, I have my own family now, while we want to protect our kids we cannot do this shit, this is not the right way.

  24. Yea she’s playing you. It might be unconsciously disguised by her insecurities or whatever, which might be why you’re hesitating (?), but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s playing you.

  25. I’m getting a second bf and idc how he feels about it. I’m done being nice and getting hurt over and over.

    Being controlling and constantly monitoring him is not being nice. 99% of guys watch porn. There is nothing wrong with your partner masterbatung and looking at images to help him masterbate. If he still desires you, loves you and has sex with you then it isn't a problem. You would be hot pressed to find a guy who doesn't watch porn. You monitoring him and snooping is way more damaging then him watching porn. What you are doing is wrong. He deserves his privacy and he should be free to masterbate when ever he wants. It's his body!!

    The fact that you think actual cheating is a solution shows how messed your thinking is. You are self sabotaging. He shouldn't be lieing but you shouldn't be this controlling. You are the problem imo.

  26. You go and let him deal with his feelings about it.

    Let me guess: he doesn’t want to watch his own children alone?

  27. The only way to change perception is through action. They will have to see how you interact with customers, over and over, in order to understand your value as an employee. Focus on your work and how you accomplish it and less about what your manager thinks. That is all you can control.

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