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I didn't even think about how getting back at him is just inviting him into her life that a really good point
Love the Dutch, they’re so direct
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Oh, honey, no. If you yourself don't have that kink, nobody is forcing you to engage in it. But that's just completely wrong that loving partners don't engage in BDSM. Like, that's extremely ignorant, and you're being so loud about it too.
She saw me working out always alone and asked me if I wanted some company, I said sure why not. We give each other compliments to hype ourselves up, to give us more motivation. No she doesn’t flirt.
literally give him an ultimatum. get a job within 4 months and if not then you’re out.
You're not going to change who he is! You said he's always been quiet, are you ok with that? I want to pick up on something else you said:
Now though, he knows pretty much everything there is to know about me and I don't have much to talk about like that anymore.
So have you just been talking to yourself? What about asking him questions – how was your day is a good start!
Do you actually like him? What do you like about him? Do you have any common interests?
I’m sorry but, this woman is supposed to have some sort of professionalism. She’s caring for your children why are they even sending gifs or photos?
Also why is this woman not ever questioning where you are? If your child can freely mention to you that your husband is lying. I highly doubt your children have not brought it up to her.
This is what i had said
“i’m really sorry for making you mad it was a really dumb thing for me to say and i didn’t mean to hurt your feelings and i didn’t want you to go to sleep upset that’s why i wanted to keep talking to you your voice is perfect i promise but i’m gonna go to sleep because i work tmr but good night”
Oh, God that have unprotected sex with a woman is hardly a victim
Have you heard this directly from a doctor or is she “going” by herself and telling you after the fact?
If it's the latter, I'd be suspicious. You want out of the marriage but suddenly she's got a major medical issue to make you pause. I'm suspicious like that.
She's on that edge of being inappropriate, but not doing anything “Wrong.” You've told her you're not comfortable with their interactions and she kept doing it. She doesn't respect your relationship or you. Do you want to be with someone who wants attention from a married man while she's married herself?
Hey op, I think I understand. When he called you a pain in the ass, that did not need to be said.
You asked whose fault is that, he could have just said yours. Calling you a pain in the ass did not need to be said.
Now, we all were not in that shower with yall, but I bet his tone in saying it hurt. Tone does and means a lot, which we completely miss out on in stories like this.
Now, my partner and I are similar, we don’t name call, and I have been abused in the past. There are times he makes comments and I am just like wtf was any of that necessary? And you know what? Not usually, but he does not know (want to learn really) how to bring up things that bother him any other way.
Now, when something like this happens, and I think it can be applicable in your situation, is don’t answer for at least three seconds. Don’t respond immediately out of hurt, it will not help. It is naked to hold your tongue, but do it. Don’t say anything, just look at them for a beat and breathe.
Especially in your situation, you were very vulnerable, naked with your partner, not expecting that at all. (And to everyone else, fake pouting vs name calling is not equal.) It was a very emotional situation.
Overall, you are still safe, you are still loved. Voices on here are going to hurt so go to the one that matters, your man. Best of luck love.
There are two main types of conversations, small talk and regular talk. Regular is what you did, answer honestly. But it might be that she felt the conversation should have been small talk, where both sides ideally ask easy questions and both sides give short easy (often non negative) answers so that either side doesn’t have to offer much emotional support or much emotional vulnerability. It’s a way to feel someone out, to know if they’re safe to share more or ask more from, and to avoid making each other feel uncomfortable, before discussing more vulnerable or heavy topics.
Some people hate small talk and don’t bother with it, other people think it’s very important. And to be honest small talk has its pros and cons so it’s up to you if it works for you or not. So I’d argue what you did wasn’t wrong, just different than what your gf would have done. So her having a different take isn’t a problem. But her thinking her way is the right way, is. It would have been better for her to share what she prefers and ask you your thoughts on your approach. But what she did was to criticize you as if her way was right and your way was wrong, when often both ways have pros and cons so it’s up to each person to decide what works best for them.
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He's lying to you
it sounds like she's searching about abusive relationships for good reason dude
Dude, think about this from your girlfriend's perspective. She wants to marry you and she wants to spend her life with you, but you don't. Can you see how awful this is for her? To be in a relationship where the other person doesn't see a future for you when you do? Just let her go and let her find a person who wants a future with her.
This I can absolutely agree with lol
I see, so from your perspective, if I think that’s a normal way to interact with people, that’s crazy. However, OPs girlfriend clearly didn’t see an issue and still doesn’t, but that is simply a perspective for her?
How are the two different? At the end of the day the two individuals that have the interaction get to decide if it’s appropriate or not, the SOs can certainly agree, disagree or or feel however they like. Trying to control the body and actions of one’s partner is what I call……controlling, and get ally comes from a place of jealousy and insecurity.
So to me, it’s all very much one and the same. The nut of it is, if your partner is ok and you aren’t 9/10 you are being jealous and controlling.
Every time you ‘obey’ your husband, you tell your children that, at the end of the day, they do not matter to you.
How your children see you respond to your husband’s demands teaches them what they should expect from their spouses.
Ok so hypothetically rent was 1300 and raised to 1800. We split the rent in half which was 650. With the rent being higher she was saying she wouldn't have as much money and would be broke after paying. When we wrote down all our bills. (Car notes ect that we pay on our own) I noticed that she was paying 200 on a credit card and 600 for a car note. I know that she made the bills higher than what they are because I was there for her getting her car so I know what's the minimum ect. My thing is if you can pay extra on your own bills you can pay the full amount of rent that you owe.
It sounds like you are a supportive parent financially.
You bought her a car, helped with living expenses, trips with her friends, paid for school. BTW a $2000 Christmas gift is very generous. You don’t mention what your relationship was like before you younger kids came along but it seems like she resents no longer being the one and only at home and that she was dethroned or feels replaced. You daughter sounds entitled and immature. The car situation shows this as an example. She chose to not go to work and lose her job instead of taking the bus. She may not appreciate the material things you give her because to her that’s not what matters to her. It sounds like She wants her dad’s attention. To Me it seems like she wants to see you take away from the siblings to give to her. Clearly that’s not going o happen and she shouldn’t have these expectations. Our feelings are what they are and don’t always make sense. To her, Her dad has 2 other kids and she may feel she doesn’t matter to you. Do you tell her you love her? Are proud of her? Do you tell her you Appreciate the young woman she has grown up to be? What’s her relationship with your wife?
Have you thought about going to family counseling? I know you have little ones but try to improve your relationship with her. Do you spend time with her? Or do you feel you spend money on her so you are fulfilling your responsibilities? She’s still finding her way in the world and your relationship with her will affect her forever.
Okay so a few things here: You have her address but you never mailed a letter or anything to her? When I was in Basic, letters were like our only form of communication with our families, we only got 3 phone calls total. It’s kinda weird that you wouldn’t have mailed each other anything at this point.
Did she not take holiday block leave? If she was there over the holidays (which it sounds like she was since you said the earliest she’d be back was the 6th). Military members in training over that period get about two weeks of leave to go home to their families for the holidays. Did you not hear anything from her then?
Do you know her MOS, what base she was supposed to go to for AIT (the school after Basic) or any other details like that? You said she wanted to be a vet, so if she’s at school for something like that, I’m imagining it’s quite a long training. That being said, in AIT soldiers usually at a minimum have their phones on the weekends. I never got mine taken away but my course was 7 months and we had a bit less restrictions than most.
If you are genuinely worried about her safety or we’ll being, especially seeing as you said she has some mental health issues, reach out to her unit. If you have the address, you should have this information and you should be able to find a phone number.
Thank you, your comment is exactly what’s been floating through my head, even if I’m still too.. “upset” to admit it. It sucks, it’s been nearly four years now.
I can’t understand why he won’t leave me.. if he doesn’t want me? It’s like he doesn’t respect me enough to tell me the truth and have the decency to leave me, instead of cheat on me. I understand either way, it’s going to hurt. But I would absolutely rather being dumped, over cheated on.
Sorry he’s locking himself in the bathroom to put the condom on? That’s gonna be a no from me chief.
Drop them both. That is not your best friend as besties don't stab each other in the back.
Regardless of how short or long he lasts he should still being involved in getting you off.
Your family sounds familiar and your boyfriend sounds amazing!
Yeah, yeah OK. So I’m in this relationship with somebody I love right. So I go out clubbing and then I find the first guy as I can and I sit around in a group and talked about how cool things are. My boyfriend with wonder what the heck happened to me and where in the world I had gone. I’m just saying, I don’t believe that was appropriate and I would be upset at that also.
You guys are really young though, so it is a young thing to do because there’s no boundaries yet people don’t have an idea what can happen, so how about it? Have a good time. Good luck to both.
Oh he KNEW it's the worst…he's vindictive because likes to go out dancing. How petty and immature. That Brazilian was ALL about him and his passive aggressive behavior. OP, admit you messed up by moving with this immature boy and move back home. He's gone through your $,you're in a job u don't like that stresses you out because of him and he's snarky asf. There are better fish in the sea. This guy acts like he's 20, wtf. You deserve better. Move past the gaslighting and do what's best for you.
If someone doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you then they aren’t in love with you. They may like you, care about you, be attracted to you etc… but they are not in love with you.
Sadly he mislead her by implying he might agree if it was what she really wanted so I suspect that it is over like you’re saying. Because he has decided on zero compromise.
Regardless of gender she lied, I can't believe your family wants you to go back to someone who lied to you for months. Coming out can be traumatic, but I don't think carrying on a relationship this long while lying about your identity is the way to go.
Just one opinion;
You pay for everything = he’s a loser
Hasn’t posted you = you’re not the only one
Won’t unfollow others = if you’ve asked him to and he won’t, then he doesn’t care about your feelings at all
Brother don’t waste any more mental energy on her it’s unhealthy and a waste of time as this is none of your business anymore.
Not always, this is the first time he's reacted like that to something that has happened between us. Sometimes when he feels sad he'll close himself off and ignore the world for a bit but I've only seen that one other time. (he had some family issues I think)
Is everyone just ignoring that this is also on a weekday on her birthday? That sounds shady and off. What a weird coincidence. What company has a company party on a weekday when there's work the next day?
No, it’s accurate. You’re prioritizing your happiness over your child and your engaging in reckless behavior. You don’t know your bf well enough to move in with him when you’re a single mom. It’s possible to be happy without a relationship. You just don’t know how to do it. You don’t love your son more than you love yourself and unfortunately he’s going to end up being hurt. Even if you’re current SO treats your child well you’re still setting the kid up for potential heartbreak. What if he does become close to the current bf? What happens if you two break up? How are you prepared to help your kid emotionally process such a thing?
But yeah, go be happy with the bf. No chance that your bad life choice won’t come back to bite you in the ass in the future. /s
Really gives the rest of us a shit reputation.
Bruh, people lie all the time just to see shit burn, you naive bugger.
Your exfiancé is currently on life support because he made poor decisions and is trying to manipulate you. You should remove yourself from his medical care and information and let someone else take over. The only contact you need to have with him is about your child. Anything else is irrelevant, and anything he does is on him.