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You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't think you're important and who doesn't compromise.
I think communication is key. She may be going through something and secluding herself and it doesn't have to do with you directly. On the other hand you have needs. You two need to have THE talk. Maybe she needs help and you can do something, maybe she doesn't want this relationship anymore, maybe she just didn't realize what she was doing. Only talking you can find out. Good luck!
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I would feel fucked up and freaked out. I would absolutely hate that.
Why are you throwing energy at him?
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Are you telling her this in an effort to convince her to give you sexual favors?
My husband and I both have blue eyes. Our son is hazel green, almost grey/brown.
You should really focus on the conversations. He’s using explanation marks and texting you at this time when he could be sleeping and seems interested. I wouldn’t text someone I wasn’t interested in that late and showed I cared
A retest to both is crucial. But I'd at least be suspicious of both outcomes.
It might be better across the board to just give them the idea that your family isn’t at the level of wealth they have been led to believe and that you don’t and can’t have access to the kind of money they think you do.
I don't think we'll be able to lie our way out of it. Although I think we can give them the reality check that we aren't going to be splurging on anyone, not them, not us, and only maybe our child.
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This is your ex. Don't invest too much time thinking about this. If you don't want him following you, ignore the request and move on. If that doesn't do the trick of him doing this every 5 months, block him.
This is playing on your emotions because you are letting it. You broke up for a reason, move on, and don't let him take up this much space in your head two years later.
One take on this is that you can offer to pay half of the costs of living there, except the mortgage since your name isn’t on the deed.
The simply answer is to tell your sister NOT to confide in you, because it makes you uncomfortable and you hate knowing who she deceives her bfs. You needed to put a boundary, that’s it. Instead… You decided to meddle out of what? Self righteousness? Your whole thing comes across as jealousy of her current boyfriend and how well this is going for her.
Some people are just terrible at responding. I'm one of those people. Sometimes, I'll answer right away, sometimes hours or days later. Anxiety has a lot to do with it. Could be the same for her.
It’s not nice that she put you in a position where, unless you could read her mind, you literally can’t say anything that won’t get you in trouble.
I had a woman at a bar ask me to guess her age. I told her that I would sooner punch myself in the figs than take that bait. Same applies here.
Doormat lol
Or professional athletes. Basically anyone who's away often and has fame & money. Or have an open relationship with them. Otherwise it just doesn't seem to work. Even Shakira ended up being cheated on.
Of course there could always be reasons but sometimes it’s just as simple as “eww that’s my brother”
I'd go to more strip clubs, they saved you.
Mostly serious.
Take a step back and try to look at this from the perspective of an outsider. You're very wrapped up in getting him to forgive you for something you didn't do. That's disordered thinking. You don't have to “regain his trust”, he should be the one trying to regain your trust. You've done nothing wrong. He's unfairly accusing you of something and therefore he's the one who should apologize. If he won't do that and own up to being overly paranoid about this you need to strongly reconsider this relationship. 'Cause it won't stop just over this. People this suspicious always escalate. Unless you handle this now, including being willing to break up over it, you're going to find yourself monitored, surveilled, accused and threatened at every turn with this guy. This is the first sign that he's controlling. Don't ignore it.
“I don’t know what to tell you” is definitely an “I don’t give a fuck” response. All he had to do was say “I’m groggy rn, let’s talk about this later.” So you’re still overcomplicating it.
Holy shit, just break up already. Stop replying to people. This is clearly over.
Why did you look through her phone? I normally don’t judge this behaviour as it’s often the only way to discover the truth, but what was your reasoning so early in the relationship?
As for your gf, her past is her past, however her ex is a part of your life and she lied about their history. That’s a massive breach of trust, so you now both have to deal with being in a damaged relationship (from both sides).
Lol I can sorta sympathise with the guy, especially if it’s a friend he constantly meets up with and looking at said friend’s face conjures up an imagination of you and the friend having sex. Now the problem is he is letting his intrusive thoughts win which ain’t your problem to solve.
I feel like he doesn’t want to be near you for a reason. Did you two have a fight prior ?? Did he find something about you ???
You’re right, the conversation shouldn’t be about my ex it should be about how I want to be loved. I’m just worried it won’t work because it’s a conversation we have had many times about him loving me but I just don’t feel it, love languages etc, he does better for a week then goes back…
You seem to think we only known each other 10 months due to dating and we got engaged 10 seconds into dating lol all that from “10 months” Dam.
We’ve known each other around 2-3 years as we used to work together so we gathered a lot about each other before dating
Of course!! I hope it goes well!!
Im so sorry you're experiencing this but you're not alone.
You need to go to HR and you need to have a detailed document of all the times hes made you uncomfortable. If you make them scared enough they might actually just fire him. I wouldn't put too much pressure on yourself to de escalate these situations. This is your works responsibility to do that, he is their employee and their responsibility to keep you safe and comfortable.
The lady might just think you’re a good dude and care about these women and is trying to play matchmaker.
You don’t know that she’s accurate, and “admirer” could just indicate they said you’re handsome or something.
If you’re not interested, just ignore it
Ideally you want to continue to see him in a non-exclusive way. That may mean putting a pause on just the intimacy, perhaps, and you also don't get intimate with any other men as you try dating around a little.
It's really up to the two of you to negotiate something that gives you a little freedom to explore while also not hurting you or him.
Again, if everything's in green-flag land, he'll understand, support, and may even have some ideas of his own about how you can get what you need.
So the short answer yes pack up and go, like ghost! The long answer is you get your money lined up and look for a new place that you dreamed of living (since you’re remote), then find a lawyer and file for divorce and spousal support. Now those 2 steps should be done at the same time because they take a month or so to organize or more depending on your finances. Once you have your new place lined up and your paperwork filled out you leave when he leaves for one of his little weekends. You will have a few days to move out your favorite housewares etc, while he’s gone. On your way out make sure to leave a print out of the phone bill for him with Laura’s number highlight every call and text. On top of the bill a note that says “I wish I could see the look on your stupid face right now.” If you want to add insult to injury, ask your lawyer to time it out and have hubby served his copy of divorce papers like minutes after he walks in the door. Change your number shortly after he leaves and say oh my phone is acting so weird and dropping calls and not sending or receiving messages. Did you get my text about saying hi to Barry for me? No? Ok well I’m going have it looked at hopefully no big problem arise. So when your phone is off he won’t notice anything and assume it’s acting weird and he can totally use your phone issues as an excuse for him to not call. When you get to your new place block him on everything. You will have a new address and new number (don’t forget to give the new number to the lawyer) and a new life. In some states your lawyer just shows up to all of your hearings and as long as ex signs the paperwork, spousal support is calculated by the court and the judge stamps it and then you get a copy and never have to see him again. Of course you get 50% of the house etc but your lawyer will put it in writing and argue that in court for you. Act like the grinch and when you solve world hunger TELL NO ONE! At least don’t tell anyone until you are in your new house with your new number. Then all of your trusted people will know to blow off all his phone calls! I know this sounds like a lot but it’s a million times easier than staying in the relationship with a cheater like him. He’s been awfully careful about deleting messages and phone logs and probably has pictures of them together hidden on some app for math. He’s even careful about his location and timing. He’s actively working on his affair, to make it work. You walked right into his justification to change the code and have 2 phones (one is for “work”). So now if you push it or react he can label you crazy and justify leaving or taking a break or whatever. Honestly he sounds crazy, he’s playing a game of double life and don’t get caught and enjoying it. What kind of person likes doing this to his wife? Stop the madness and start over. Get therapy because your self esteem is going to take a hit and you’ll feel like why were you not good enough. YOU ARE ENOUGH! You need to process the grief and get angry and find peace, then let it go. Good luck.
I hope everything is going okay, we are thinking about you!
i feel like that first comment wasn’t necessary but i appreciate the perspective
Mental health issues/therapy etc are very stigmatised in the Philipines where his gf is from.
Find someone more financially stable and that is more compatible. You were with him for a year and you found out he’s not the one for you. You’ve already broken it off. Just move on.