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He's made the first step towards professional help before I suggested it, so he does wanna get better for himself, but the first step is only getting on the waiting list for an intake. I also can't be sure if he'll follow through
You definitely cut to the brass tacks here. I can't argue with anything you said, all makes sense, and I honestly would like to be friends with her because we get along well and I don't think she's a bad person, just frustrated with her situation.
We're not meant to be together. Hoping that doesn't mean we can't stay in touch.
Wowwwwww what a scumbag. Sorry OP, that really sucks. And what the hell is his wife doing? This is why we tell everyone that comes here asking if they should forgive their cheating spouse to leave. These fuckers never change.
I feel like I could’ve written this when I first moved out/went to college. I’m 28 now and the situation has vastly improved.
I tried the “have a straight on conversation that I can’t talk to her all the time” approach but she just cried until I took it back. I don’t know if your mom is like that but I don’t recommend that approach, personally.
This is what worked for me: she would call and I wouldn’t answer but I’d send a text like “in class/at work/etc.” and then I would just not follow up until I was ready. Eventually that gap widened and widened until she didn’t really notice anymore.
I’ve also taken this advice from the Captain Awkward blog: set a recurring date and time to chat on the phone with her. Something like “work is crazy lately but I want to make time to talk to you. How about we make a phone date for Wednesday at 7?” And then if she calls before then say “sorry I can’t talk right now but I’m looking forward to our chat on Wednesday!!!” Basically keep deflecting to your chosen date and time.
Unfortunately, the think that works best for me is just honestly not informing her too much about my life. It is hard at first. It feels like you’re hiding stuff from your mom. But I promise you that your mental and emotional health will greatly improve when she’s not checking in on your every move.
I said its wrong. But she is still upset because I debated I said it was bad but not cheating. I said we can use her definition if she wants. I feel she is trying to find reasons to be mad, and we can't find a way to move forward.
I did ask, and the answer was for religious reasons. She says that it doesn’t matter if you have had sex before, what matters is that’s it’s a sin to continue to do it
He's made the first step towards professional help before I suggested it, so he does wanna get better for himself, but the first step is only getting on the waiting list for an intake. I also can't be sure if he'll follow through
Baby girl if you do not leave this man I will scream until I throw up. What the hell is wrong with him, absolutely vile
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You definitely cut to the brass tacks here. I can't argue with anything you said, all makes sense, and I honestly would like to be friends with her because we get along well and I don't think she's a bad person, just frustrated with her situation.
We're not meant to be together. Hoping that doesn't mean we can't stay in touch.
Wowwwwww what a scumbag. Sorry OP, that really sucks. And what the hell is his wife doing? This is why we tell everyone that comes here asking if they should forgive their cheating spouse to leave. These fuckers never change.
I feel like I could’ve written this when I first moved out/went to college. I’m 28 now and the situation has vastly improved.
I tried the “have a straight on conversation that I can’t talk to her all the time” approach but she just cried until I took it back. I don’t know if your mom is like that but I don’t recommend that approach, personally.
This is what worked for me: she would call and I wouldn’t answer but I’d send a text like “in class/at work/etc.” and then I would just not follow up until I was ready. Eventually that gap widened and widened until she didn’t really notice anymore.
I’ve also taken this advice from the Captain Awkward blog: set a recurring date and time to chat on the phone with her. Something like “work is crazy lately but I want to make time to talk to you. How about we make a phone date for Wednesday at 7?” And then if she calls before then say “sorry I can’t talk right now but I’m looking forward to our chat on Wednesday!!!” Basically keep deflecting to your chosen date and time.
Unfortunately, the think that works best for me is just honestly not informing her too much about my life. It is hard at first. It feels like you’re hiding stuff from your mom. But I promise you that your mental and emotional health will greatly improve when she’s not checking in on your every move.
They’re fucking, how much more personal can she get?
So his last ex was struggling what is his excuse for cheating on the other girls? You are going to get hurt
Why?
In my experience the venn diagram of people who defend drunk driving and people who drive drunk is a circle
I said its wrong. But she is still upset because I debated I said it was bad but not cheating. I said we can use her definition if she wants. I feel she is trying to find reasons to be mad, and we can't find a way to move forward.
So. Yeah. Don't buy a house with this dude. As a matter of fact, buy one for yourself and move, without him & his mom.
I did ask, and the answer was for religious reasons. She says that it doesn’t matter if you have had sex before, what matters is that’s it’s a sin to continue to do it