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It’s an electric bike. Poster was sharing experience with op’s identical bike type.
How old were the cats when you took them home? Sometimes cats that were separated from their mother too soon will do this
Look mate – you can say that baby was early all you want but I really doubt a baby born at four months gestation is going to be that viable. You need a paternity test.
Or the op aint telling the full story. For all we know this could of been an everyday thing and he just got tired of it
Also, I never EVER said that my comment came from the fact that this is a woman doing it to a man. Both are disgusting and wrong, but yes even with men interacting with women there is a reason why these problems happen and it’s exactly what I said in my first comment. Again discussing the root of these problems is what helps us make sure our kids don’t have the same societal pressures.
Info: you say that your ex- is/was a lazy, unhelpful person but who maintained the household and who raised the child if you work 12 hours a day? Also, how do you know this new woman is the love of your life so quickly after meeting her? And what's your child support and alimony? Are you in the US? Because that definitely impacts the house. I'm gonna be honest, this reads as a fake woman-hating writing experiment.
It's a blessing in disguise. A person like that doesn't deserve someone like you in their life.
You got this! And we're all here for you!
OK but you weren't mistreating someone.
Dude you sound like my old man giving me advice. Anyways I agree with you.
Youre correct. Op dogded a half eaten pasta plate
Get back in the mines and GET ME THOSE DIAMONDS!
Either call cops now, or wait till he is asleep. If you feel there is a threat of him getting violent for you calling the cops then wait. Definitely call the cops as soon as you can.
I think it’s weird that he even told you. Like is he trying to make you jealous? Or was he truly uncomfortable and considered it sexual assault and wanted to share with you?
Either way, if he’s getting that drunk regularly, that seems a little problematic.
^ yup. Exactly all of this.
As someone who's lived through this scenario but from the girlfriends end of it. OP is an a-hole. So is the coworker girl. Both are being selfish and putting their solo interests first regardless of what the humans around them and that they are involved with want.
@OP finds a girl to love and that loves him back from a very early stage of life, build a long term relationship with said girl, but the second another girl shows you attention, the girl whos Loves you for YEARS suddenly isn't enough and you want more attention? Get over yourself. If you think being in a long term relationship with someone is going to be all sunshine and roses, you need a reality check.
Break up with the poor girl, you don't deserve her.
coworker girl is toxic and frankly op and she deserve each other. He deserves to see that once he gives in to this girl, she will lose interest. OR she will contact the girlfriend telling her what OP has done. He deserves to get rekt. Going to have a (potentially) long life full of failed relationships.
Bet he thinks strippers like him because he's just a sweet guy, and like, so easy to talk to, too. ?
TL;DR OP doesn't deserve his long term girlfriend. He and coworker are both selfish sociopaths.
That's what the trash bin is for. No, despite being (mostly) metal+plastic and containing literal trash, his car does not count.
Oh shoot that’s not my intention I’m so sorry. I will provide as much additional information as possible
Maybe he didnt want to ruin the gift for her so he talked to op about it instead? Communication is the only thing that has happened in this story, yall are acting like he accosted op.
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He’s literally telling her what he’s gonna do next time….
Some people are detached for one reason or another. But being rude and insulting makes you just as bad.
Idk I may seem like I'm just being narcissistic or something but it just seems like something changed after trying to make things work now she's using it as an excuse to seperate but still wants me to stay there
Oh I read it wrong, my bad
If you feel you’re done, well then there is your answer. If she comes at you with, “let’s hang out/grab a beer/whatever”, just say you appreciate the offer, but aren’t interested. Wish her the best and say goodbye. Leave it, don’t continue to engage. If necessary, after you’ve made yourself clear, block her.
You want more, she’s not willing or able to give it. Why risk her continuing to flit in and out of contact because you are convenient and giving her attention?
Best of luck.
His title says 21M and 29F but anything is possible.
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you didn't say it back so no wonder he denies it(?). he probably thinks you're not there yet.
I was wondering what was wrong.
I read this post to my partner and he said it sounded like the kind of argument he'd have with his ex all the time. All. The. Time. This sounds like a one off for you and you're allowed to be human with moods. You're allowed to have misunderstandings in relationships.
This sounds more like an alcohol induced miscommunication that you have resolved. Hopefully it can become something you chuckle about later and it doesn't deter you from becoming more assertive, because expressing yourself and your boundaries makes for a healthy relationship. As a fellow people pleaser, I encourage you to keep working on assertiveness and communication.
Go to the Dollar store and buy a pill box with days of the week. Fill it with one pill for every day yourself and insist that she only use this in the bedroom. Also, ask her to talk to her physician about her sleep problem. As a long-term insomniac (family problem), Benadryl is NOT in my arsenal of sleep supports.
That's because you are using relationships as a bandaid solution for your unprocessed trauma and emotion. You will never be happy as long as you avoid that, and being slightly less miserable in an abusive relationship than alone is…not really an improvement in all honesty.
You need therapy.
Ngl I was financially irresponsible so he gave me the ultimatum that if I wanted to be with him, he has to help me manage it.
we have been having a rough few months, yadda yadda yadda, she took off her ring and left.
A crumb of context please?
Why are you getting married so young even if things were good?
Parental alienation is a real thing. It doesn't help that her mother spoils her either. She'll come around when she gets older. Hopefully she won't have daddy issues.
This. The only possible reason she told him about her crush was because she thought he might dump OP for her.
Not ok.
My husband was 26 when we met. He had a similar sentiment. He was finding that everyone online was either divorced with kids(which he wasn't interested in), looking to have an affair/poly/other type situation(which he wasn't interested in), or much younger. He was starting to have a really very hot time with people his own age. He started being open to the idea of dating younger and we met when I was 22. He had had a couple of bad experiences with younger girls as some people that age are just in a very different place in life, but I was always pretty mature for my age so it worked out! At 26, you might have a slightly harder time if you are more absolutely dead set on only dating your own age, but it sounds like you are open a little bit and even if you aren't you will find someone eventually that is in the same boat you are.
Agreed
It’s not overkill. I like the idea of a scavenger hunt as long as it doesn’t take all day and the clues are too very hot. Keep it fun.
I am having feelings about a promise ring though for a couple of reasons. 1. They’re for young teenagers, not grown adults. 2. You’ve only been together for seven months. Are you really prepared to make the promise that you’re eventually going to propose to spend the rest of your life (possibly up to the next 60 years or more) with her?
I’m sure she’ll enjoy your valentines date.
If I were in your position, I’d be done with him.
Hugeee red flag, I would gtfo honestly
This is non consensual sexual contact. That he thought he could do this without your consent is astounding. You have every right to feel uneasy. You're SO is a rapist.
She’s 22 not 12. How can she possibly think this is that bad? Don’t get me wrong it’s far from an ideal situation and I myself would never agree to it but your GF is kinda sick in the head.
You cite “friends” but then say you have no one but him. So it might help you to try to value your friendships a little more. These people are clearly willing to listen to you and talk to you about this, and that's not nothing. It takes a real friend to be willing to hear someone out when they're going through a breakup. You have move people in your life than you're willing to recognize. Re: this guy, great communication isn't always the hallmark of the typical M21 and while he should have told you earlier that you were demanding too much of him, he didn't. He allowed things to fester to where he couldn't stand it anymore. So the worst thing you could do now is put more pressure on him by contacting him. He needs to work through his feelings on this. Maybe at some point he'll reach out to see if you two can reconcile and try it again. But for the moment you should give him some space.
These comments are unhinged. Sorry to hear this is happening OP absolutely not your fault. I hope some time away gives your mom some perspective, what she asked from you was absolutely unfair and inappropriate.
Call the police. It is against the law to knowingly infect someone with a sti.
It’s what her father would have wanted
first time I've ever seen that abbreviation
Idk if I would trust OP to not try and mess with the kids opinion of the dad or use the kid as a bargaining tool or try to Fran’s the das in a bad light so he couldn’t see the kid when he wants. It’s not uncommon for women to do that and with OP being a cheater we can already say she is not the most moral person. With how courts treat fathers if this man really does want full access to his kid and that is his #1 priority then staying in the marriage is his best bet.
Ow neither of us have a crystal ball like you said. But if his only goal in life is to be there full time for his daughter staying married is the best bet. But I don’t see the two of them sticking this out. One of them will eventually file for divorce.
depends if you want to be with a liar
Stop talking to her on video chat. If you’ve told her before that you find it disrespectful and she still does it, that means she doesn’t respect you enough to give a shit.
He was playing the field , he was allowed too. I think you gave him the impression , this is best it’s going to get. Fwb nothing else , guys read what woman says. We are like robots , so he had that in his mind.
Good night
I think sadly you have pinpointed the classic problem with friends with benefits. You might think of him as a friend, but your boyfriend will always look at him as your former lover.
In addition he is a very close friend where you clearly have close emotional ties.
As having been in this situation as a former FWB I can only suggest to start cooling your relationship with your friend. Stop communicating with him on social media and texting and meeting up on your own. You can though meet him on a very irregular basis on a one or one but in a public setting or with your bf. This is manageable to keep the relationship sort of alive without impacting your relationship with your bf. Be though clear – if there are problems – and there always are one time or another – keep away from your friend. This will only add to the issues.
Ex bf and former FWB have one thing in common – they had a sexual relationship with one of the partners. That means the other partner will in the waste majority of cases feel unhappy about it. The more you demand that you should keep the relationship going – especially if it is close – the bigger threat it is toward your relationship – unless the partner is clearly VERY relaxed anout the setup.
It’s inappropriate for her to feel that way but not for you to go through her messages from OCTOBER??? Like listen to yourself. “I don’t buy it” like?? Do you trust and love her? If yes, then you have no reason to doubt her very reasonable feelings (that MANY people will agree are normal feelings)
She sent them for fun! She photoshopped your man into the pictures. It’s a hobby she does and she just wants to ruin your life for no reason!
/s
This is stupid. It’s mods for a game. You are too insecure. Are you the type that has a problem of him watching porn too?
It is considered common courtesy to thank people.for birthday gifts, it probably just slipped your friends mind but I understand your frustration. That being said? You can't realistically expect somebody mourning the loss of their child to drop everything and reach out. You are the Last thing on that person's mind, generosity notwithstanding.
Talk about coddling. Should she rub his feet and insist on talking about it once a week, too? Maybe schedule a vacation for the three of them so they could spend more time having therapy together?
Nah. I say just reassure him that he's the stud and move on. Any more would feel like “she doth protest too much”.
You're not being “reasonable”: you're ignoring her very clearly stated plans – she's not leaving Ohio – and trying to pressure her to change them because it's what you want.
Break up. In the future, stop trying to change people to fit your desires. Accept them as they are or avoid them.
Is she willing to do the same? Women are frequently abusers too. Clearly she needs some therapy after all this.
Best wishes on this very hot situation.
Well, seems to me like you just didn't want to acknowledge to yourself the fact that you don't want to be with her and after she turned down your proposal of a break (which is probably a way you were trying to see other people guilt free), you had no choice but to acknowledge it consciously.
So, seeing as you asked and this sounds like more than anything you just want to be free to do whatever you want – odds are you already fell out of love with her.
Do the decent thing, then, and just break up.
I think this is going to be one of those things: what's more important to you, your morals or your friend? Only you know this.
Most likely your friend is going to stop talking to you for interfering, so make sure you're prepared for this outcome if you go ahead and spill the beans.
Even if you went back the foundation is destroyed just be breaking up a bit later
I think you should do it when YOU want to and are ready. Not just because you feel he really wants to.
Fair enough, TIL!
Man people that try to control your sleeping habits irk me so much. I typically tend to sleep between 12-15hrs (on a day that I don’t work) and my brother was bothered by it. I had spoken to him about it and he seemed to understand but still did that thing of trying everything to wake you up. Well he learned a very hot lesson when once he tried to wake up me up and I got extremely violent in my sleep state and ended up punching him really very hot in the balls, never got bothered after that ever again. Thankfully I moved out so now I can sleep for however long I’d like ?
OP I’m with u/gordonf23 here. Set your boundaries and maintain them, it’s not worth losing sleep (figuratively and literally) over something like this. If he can’t respect who you are and how you operate then he is free to find someone who is on his level or wavelength and you need to find someone that’ll respect you too and who is on your level and wavelength. Good luck!
Yup
She’s left you.
You should have ended it as soon as she started smoking (or sooner)
You had firm boundaries, but you let her cross them because you liked her, and then she did stepped too far and got herself too drunk or too high and then you reacted badly.
Probably the only real answer to your specific question.
I agree with others that your solution is probably not the best one though. Open relationships/polyamory does usually happen only go if both parties are sort of involved or accepting of it both.
Like with doctors – the first rule should be “Do no harm”. Lot of communications – and lot of trust. Beware about emotional relationships –
Always – if you are good with her now – you will have to be DOUBLE that in the future otherwise you will just harm her!!!
In that case it is better to split up then the relationship – and she – will just die of thousands of small cuts.
I would try to better understand his kink and use this as an opportunity to grow closer. I know it is unorthodox. Que sera sera.
You can be as upset as you want. You have a right to expect your sex life to be private. Friends will frequently over share, but there should be limits. I'd think she's old enough to understand the difference between girl talk and “this doesn't need to be shared” talk.
I reminded her several times of the marriage vow and she went ballistic in particular in that I would need to take our child since she may bring strange men to her house
You can't make him not want to treat you like garbage. If you're choosing to stay with someone who's going to treat you like garbage, that's the choice you're making.
Once you have broken her trust the relationship will never be the same either with her, her family or your friends . You will always be the bad guy trying to make it right, digging yourself deeper in the hole.
Basically
Would see an attorney to make sure his rights to his son aren’t threatened and absolutely recommend family counseling for the two of them, perhaps you as well.
That kid needs to know if he doesn’t. Your husband needs to be able to be there for him when he learns the truth so getting over this enormous hurt will be an important step in being there for his son.
I just want to throw this out here: my mother was unfaithful (one affair, I don’t know a lot of details because it gives me the shivers) and I’m the result of those decisions. My dad knew the whole time that I wasn’t his biological child and if he hadn’t made his love for me so undeniably clear throughout my life, finding out my ancestry would have been even harder. All this to say: family counseling could be a very healthy way for your husband to make his love for his son very clear. It could help them both get over the hump that is the trauma of a DNA surprise and come through it even stronger.
I’m so sorry he’s hurting. Again, please encourage legal and therapeutic intervention. I hope this is relieved quickly.
Exactly. Don’t burn bridges, no need to insult.
But don’t be a doormat either
Dump him.
Tbh I wouldn’t want to go with these peolle
It sounds like you are a place holder. The breakup for a year didn't work out like he hoped so he came running back to you.
well that’s sad to hear. would you be able to explain why this is manipulative? not doubting you just want to understand
Yes it is, what kind of nasty crap is that?
Okay, so you admit your father wasn’t the best father. Your brother is a different person to you and is of course going to experience things differently from you even if you’re in a similar situation. It’s great that you’ve been able to move past the past, but your brother not having forgiven your father and having left over resentment doesn’t make him an asshole.
Parent child relationships are complicated and can be really difficult.
Personally if I were you I’d try to talk to and try to understand your brother a bit more. You’re coming at this whole thing only taking your own perspective in mind and disregarding his.
I will say that not providing medicine and food your dad needed is absolutely an ah move, and he shouldn’t have taken him in if he wasn’t prepared for that. I fully understand being angry at your brother for that.
She's your ex, not your girlfriend. Quit stalking her.
Having a flirty personality doesn’t excuse his behavior
His mum said that he was trying to have a serious conversation and I was putting stupid videos in the chat , that was her exact words
It sounds like you have developed feelings for this guy, and it's understandable given the level of intimacy and connection you've described. However, it's important to recognize that he has been clear with you from the beginning that he only wants a FWB relationship.
Before you bring up the possibility of a relationship with him, it might be helpful to take some time to reflect on your own needs and boundaries. Are you okay with continuing a FWB relationship if it never progresses beyond that? Or do you feel like you need a commitment in order to be happy and fulfilled in a romantic relationship?
Once you have a better understanding of your own needs and boundaries, you can have a conversation with him about where you both stand. It's important to approach the conversation with openness and honesty, and to be clear about what you're looking for in a relationship. You can express that you're starting to develop feelings for him, and ask if he feels the same way. If he doesn't, it might be time to reevaluate whether the current situation is meeting your needs.
Ultimately, the decision to continue or end the relationship is yours. If you feel like you need a commitment in order to be happy, it's okay to end the relationship and look for someone who shares your values and goals. If you're comfortable continuing the FWB relationship, make sure you're clear about your boundaries and that they're being respected.
First, this is 100% about HIS insecurities and i hang ups, and not about you. I hope that with therapy and a supportive partner you’ll be able to internalize that.
Second, I think that it’s unlikely that he’ll come to a real nuanced understanding of where you’re at. so it may be better to fall back on simply expecting and exacting better behavior from him.
I would tell BOTH your parents—your mother because she seems to have some understanding of the harm he’s doing—that while you understand that his intent is to be encouraging, the effect of his constant stream of comments about your body is hurtful, devalues your other accomplishments, and triggers depressive episodes. So from now on,if he wants to have a relationship with you, it cannot include any comments about your body or your health. And if he breaches that boundary, you explain that he breached it and you back it up by cutting off communication for some explicitly designated period of time—one week, two weeks, a month, etc. Your time and attention is the only leverage you have here, because he is clearly not going to respond to appeals to empathy or understanding. You have to be really rigid about maintaining these boundaries early on or he will trample all over them in the name of concern for your health.
There will be some kind of extinction burst. He’s going to be completely bewildered that you “never told him this was a problem before”. You are unlikely to get him to really internalize how badly he’s behaved. But it WILL make him stop. It’s totally okay to say things like “I know you have a different perspective on this, but I’m telling you what I need from you as my father”.
Dude's almost 30 & isn't doing foreplay. I'd cut my losses. There's better lovers out there and you've only been together a couple weeks.
If you want, ask. But I would imagine he might do it then let it fizzle out.
Men his age that are good lovers are good from the beginning. They know perfectly well about foreplay. Why else would he want his dick sucked?
He just doesn't care.
Let it fly for a day or two and then ask how she’s doing.
I don’t know if this helps at all, but I want to share this with you.
I had a best friend who was gay. I told him from the beginning that I was straight and nothing romantic would ever happen between us, and he said that was fine. But as we became closer, his feelings for me grew and he started to do stuff to me like Amanda did to Hannah. I just brushed it off and didn’t take it seriously. Our friendship meant the world to me and I deluded myself into thinking that it meant the world to him too. Really, he wanted more. Eventually I had to cut contact when it became clear that there was no way he’d ever be happy just being friends.
Just pointing this out to say that I think Hannah is similar to me. She saw and felt all the warning signs, but deluded herself because the friendship was so important to her. Involve alcohol, a “friend” who starts pressuring for more, and a possible latent desire to explore her sexuality, and, well…
Aside from this incident, your relationship sounds very beautiful, and it would be such a shame to throw it all away. She clearly loves you very much, and you her. I do feel like she is genuinely ashamed and guilty, which aren’t qualities that a “willing cheater” would have. She even told you in detail what happened, which must have been extremely difficult for her to do. AND she’s even willing to cut Amanda off if it’ll fix things (which she should IMO). This is everything you could ask for now that this terrible thing has happened.
I know this must hurt a lot, but my gut says that you two can move on from this. I’d recommend couple’s counseling and individual counseling moving forward.
Good luck to both of you. I hope you can grow old together, look back, and smile when you think about this “speed bump” you had when you were young. ❤️
serious question: how? how can you make fun of those things? show me a joke about rape or pedophilia that is funny, but doesn't imply those topics are. this seems to be the issue here, and the same defense you used for “not being racist” but sharing a racist meme. this is the crux of the whole thing; the answer to this question will help you a lot. if you respond here or DM i'd be more than willing to have a supportive, nonjudgmental conversation about the issue
This is the first sensible comment i've seen from you in this comment section.
Dudes cry from frustration. The best thing you can do is be resolute and not take him back if he's there because he regrets the decision.
He's also a dumb dude so if you wanna care for him tell him to shut up and take your affection for the time being.
That’s true 🙁
Yes you are
We set our mutual boundaries well over 20, the better part of 30 years ago. I don't understand people who have boundaries about checking each other's phones, search histories, friends of the opposite sex etc because they aren't something that concerns me – I find facial hair and tattoos deeply unattractive, my husband would be doing something to purposefully cross a boundary, it would be an act of betrayal and it would be the end of the relationship. One of his was that I didn't dye my hair a certain colour, I've respected that.
I sometimes do get worried because we online alone and have no kids, so if we are only having sex 1-2 times a week now, what will it be like when kids come along and our schedules get even more hectic?
Sex life getting worse with kids is all but inevitable. Children destroy your sleep quality and free time, and between hormonal swings and being touched out good luck getting into the mood.
As far as the rest, you more than likely need to face the reality that his sex drive now is his normal, so if 1-2 times a week for the next 20 years isn’t enough, you have a choice to make.
As far as stereotypes go, men on average have higher sex drives but as individuals there’s a ton of variation and there’s nothing inherently wrong about a woman having a higher drive.
You're completely right on that, financially we aren't equal right now. We own a house together and we both always put 50/50. But at the end of the month I have nothing, whereas he has the money to buy luxury things. The past two years I have gone back to education and now i'm not starting my own buisness. Do you think he resents that I took a paycut a little? Throughout our relationship we have both had different careers and different pay levels on both of our sides.
My parents technically met my material needs at a bare minimum as well. I moved out at 19, failed, moved back in at 20, joined the military at 21 and never moved back. Turning 32 this year. I didn't have a kid in tow though. It will be very hot, but there are several tax benefits and social programs for single mothers, so, I suggest you look into those to supplement your income.
Thank you, I do have some great friends who have been there for me for the last week. I know I deserve better, i just am tired of the wasted effort on my part, especially since it not reciprocated.
If it were me, I would block him and move on. He is not “sure” he is over his issues.
But we all have to learn the very hot way, and who knows you and he could be the very rare exception. So you need to do some thinking, and figure out how you need him to behave towards you , what are your communication expectations, what you expect from him on initiating communication, planning, gifts, etc. write it down and talk about it with your ex before you decide one way or the other.
If it were me, I would block him and move on. He is not “sure” he is over his issues.
But we all have to learn the very hot way, and who knows you and he could be the very rare exception. So you need to do some thinking, and figure out how you need him to behave towards you , what are your communication expectations, what you expect from him on initiating communication, planning, gifts, etc. write it down and talk about it with your ex before you decide one way or the other.
It's been five months my dude. I'd be surprised if this didn't make HER rethink ya'll. This whole thing sounds really controlling and you'll say 'oh it can't be controlling cause I'm not going to order her to not do it.” no, you're just going to be both passive aggressive and aggressive and basically issue an ultimatum to her. Go out with work friends and have fun but lose your relationship or get to feel cowed by your partner who is treating you like an infant cause he only cares about what he likes and what he wants you to do…
I'd dodge the bullet tbh. Get therapy about your feelings surrounding your ex.
Okay then, you acknowledged it and There is nothing wrong with needing that validation. So I suggest you say it clearly.
“I love you, you are the light in my mornings and without you I cant find that excitement in my day. My love life has not felt this good before but when I don't have you beside me, i feel lonely and I need to know you care.
I didn't just ask you to do this on a whim, you know I have already said I want just “a message in the mornings” and I felt that I need to be clear this means a lot to me. I want your validation, maybe it isn't ideal and I am willing try to work on myself and become a stronger person but for right now I just need you and your love and support. Okay ?”
Man I'm so sorry for everything that happened
UpdateMe!
Wait…you said you had already bought that ring.
I predict that you’ll take down this post.
You and M sound annoying.
Any chance life happens? I have been playing DnD with a group of 4-10 for the better part of 3 years. Every single week, and sometimes more. And guess what? Not everyone can make it every week. Work is running late, stuck in traffic, long day, personal item. Whatever. It happens. No one is expected to apologize, especially when THEY GAVE NOTICE that they couldn’t make it.
It’s he different if she no showed and didn’t let you know
Wow, that’s honestly rude OP. It’s really none of your business why he didn’t have sex for 7 years. Maybe he values building relationships and emotional intimacy before getting into bed with someone? Not everyone sleeps around. Some people are only interested in sex while they’re in committed relationships. Hope you haven’t been needling him with that.
You didn’t do anything. He is the one with issues and I suggest you tell him to work on them or it’s over.
It is sometimes difficult to get out of trauma vicious circle, but he has to do it. You are not there to fix him.
Lack of respect is a red flag.
wtf girl…
The following I feel is the only fair way to manage joint household expenses.
Set up a joint account that is to only be used for joint household expenses Each of you pay a set % of your salary each month to go into that joint account. In our house it’s about 40%. Percentage terms makes it equitable If the joint account cannot meet shared expenditure each party either bumps up the percentage or agree to cut down expenses.
As an aside your partner sounds like a bit of a tight ass with money. It also sounds to me( but I could be wrong) that you guys are over stretching yourselves financially speaking. If you were my friend or my sister telling me this I would be worried that this whole situation isn’t very fair on you and I’d probably be worried about you marrying this guy down the road.
When he got his wisdom teeth removed, he was in so much pain that we was literally slamming doors, banging his fists against the wall, and screaming and cursing for hours (not at me directly). I had never seen him like that before. I tried to help him, but he just started yelling at me so I left the house and let him deal with it on his own. After the pain subsided and he was “normal” again, I told him that the way he was acting wasn’t acceptable and he agreed. He’s never done it again. With that said, I think most of these comments are being overly dramatic. She’s shown you this side once in over 2 years together. Just talk to her.