She will never take an out because her fantasy will end. She can tolerate her life as it is, as long as you are there to provide the emotional and quasi physical support that she wants/needs. Perhaps you could consider having sex with her and see what happens. Just a thought. Your decision. Be happy, dude. You deserve a partner that is real. A ghost will never fulfill your aspirations.
You can’t control how he behaves. There’s no way for you to articulate what you want without him getting mad unless you’re articulating what he wants. He’s shown you time and time again he is way is the only way. And you backing down when he gets angry just solidifies that if he gets angry he’ll get what he wants.
I think the OP's husband is being a bit of a drunken dolt here. I think he has no inkling whatsoever that the other couple might be testing the waters, he's just enjoying having a flirtation with young wife.
she didn't stop tho. she didn't let the joke go even when you told her how upset you would be. and part of the “prank” is to get made at the prankee and start drama.
should i consider him still as one of my dearest friend or as a part of my family ?
Why not both?
I had a dear friend in high school whose father dated my mother briefly, and I was happy that my friend might wind up my step-sister (we daughters were both about 17 at the time). That relationship (between our mutual parents) didn't work out, unfortunately, but I would have been happy if it had.
*slaps forehead*
I missed this!
THAT makes sense! Thank you!
She will never take an out because her fantasy will end. She can tolerate her life as it is, as long as you are there to provide the emotional and quasi physical support that she wants/needs. Perhaps you could consider having sex with her and see what happens. Just a thought. Your decision. Be happy, dude. You deserve a partner that is real. A ghost will never fulfill your aspirations.
This is the best advice. I hope OP sees it.
Holy projecting, batman
You can’t control how he behaves. There’s no way for you to articulate what you want without him getting mad unless you’re articulating what he wants. He’s shown you time and time again he is way is the only way. And you backing down when he gets angry just solidifies that if he gets angry he’ll get what he wants.
Definitely could use a conversation
That's a huge lie. You have the right to be judgemental.
Why do people try to make it work with awful partners?
Just move on babe. And raise the bar a bit….
I think the OP's husband is being a bit of a drunken dolt here. I think he has no inkling whatsoever that the other couple might be testing the waters, he's just enjoying having a flirtation with young wife.
she didn't stop tho. she didn't let the joke go even when you told her how upset you would be. and part of the “prank” is to get made at the prankee and start drama.
this isn't a prank. she likes drama.
forget that.
should i consider him still as one of my dearest friend or as a part of my family ?
Why not both?
I had a dear friend in high school whose father dated my mother briefly, and I was happy that my friend might wind up my step-sister (we daughters were both about 17 at the time). That relationship (between our mutual parents) didn't work out, unfortunately, but I would have been happy if it had.
You really can’t
Just focus on the person you like
It’s a dick move if he knew your feelings first and disregarded them.
And I wouldn’t trust him or really count him as a friend
But unless you’re in a monogamous relationship you can’t object
Don’t buy a house with someone you’re not married to.
Why do you two live! with her?
You're missing the main point of my comment.
Please find a mental health professional ASAP.
I would like to keep one of his hoodies
What do you mean you don't understand? You made a good point and he tooooom your advice. If you want to move on talk to yourself about it.
Sorry, but your fights doesn’t sound like you are both married or 28
You sound like you are both in your teenage years…
🙁 ? my third day of crying. It gets worse everyday
OMG wow, thanks guys. And girls and especially Alien_Crystal.
Good luck, hope the game is great.
It very much sounds like she’s either cheating or working towards cheating.
I’ll talk to her about it tomorrow. I’m nervous about it but I’ll never know if I don’t ask, I suppose