I would be the friend to let him know that if his gf can't trust him, then he shouldn't be with her. Getting cheated on sucks, but she shouldn't be in a relationship if she's not ready to trust her new partner. Only 4 months? I hope she realizes the problem is her and your friend as well for not putting a stop to it
Wow, that’s a lot of ASSuming you’re doing there. You have absolutely no context into what sort of creepy comments the guy was making before she fired him. Sounds to me like she’s a good boss who wants to make sure her employees feel safe at work. Coddling sexual harassers is not what a good boss does. You’ve got a lot of shitty opinions for someone who admittedly hasn’t been in the workplace for FIFTEEN YEARS. Guess what, sugar tits, a lot of us don’t have to put up with harassment in the workplace anymore. You might want to talk to a professional about all that internalized misogyny you’ve got going on there. See how dumb it sounds to make ridiculous assumptions like that?
You’re not the only one acting unhealthy in this relationship, blowing you off to hang out with friends last minute while acting like he’s above you? Yeah fuck that lol I wouldn’t do that to my girl and she wouldn’t do that to me
As someone who travels a lot: no. Know your self worth. You deserve better than to pine for someone living their best life on the other side of the planet.
It's probably also the long distance relationship with the least chance of success.
There is no real “take it to the grave” with this shit. Not that ends well anyway. If you try, either you will get ratted out then feel and look like a scumbag, and he will hate you for lying by omission, or you’ll just let it eat you until your relationship suffers enough that he notices and shit falls apart. Please trust me, I did that shit at your age too. Honestly you should leave, you’re not happy and probably won’t be in the future. If you won’t leave, then tell him. He cheated too, and everything since has been part of the fallout. If he wants to work it out, he’ll forgive you and maybe you’ll finally be able to forgive him too. You certainly haven’t yet.
why don’t you go research it yourself. it makes sense psychologically and that’s literally what happens. you think abt another person and that’s why you mistakenly call out that persons name
This is so sick, a father must not dream anything sexual in regards the daughter, I suggest you to ask him to visit a doctor, he may develop a disease at the brain…
My advice is that I’m the same age as your daughter and wife and that sentence is disturbing. Please don’t bother your daughter and let her marry her 21 year old in peace, she clearly doesn’t want to speak to you and I don’t blame her I’d cut my dad off for this too
You might not have been giving what the company needed you to give, even if you thought you did. Or your mental breakdown may have impacted your work more than you realized.
It's not lack of trust. It's sheer disinterest. I don't care what's on his phone and he doesn't care what's on mine. We each have a phone, so we just don't bother with each other's.
Although you do make a good point about emergencies. If something happened to either of us, we'd need access.
I would be the friend to let him know that if his gf can't trust him, then he shouldn't be with her. Getting cheated on sucks, but she shouldn't be in a relationship if she's not ready to trust her new partner. Only 4 months? I hope she realizes the problem is her and your friend as well for not putting a stop to it
I guess I'll have to ask, yeah. I'm just so disappointed that it's my birthday and it doesn't feel special at all.
Wow, that’s a lot of ASSuming you’re doing there. You have absolutely no context into what sort of creepy comments the guy was making before she fired him. Sounds to me like she’s a good boss who wants to make sure her employees feel safe at work. Coddling sexual harassers is not what a good boss does. You’ve got a lot of shitty opinions for someone who admittedly hasn’t been in the workplace for FIFTEEN YEARS. Guess what, sugar tits, a lot of us don’t have to put up with harassment in the workplace anymore. You might want to talk to a professional about all that internalized misogyny you’ve got going on there. See how dumb it sounds to make ridiculous assumptions like that?
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I know, honey.
You’re not the only one acting unhealthy in this relationship, blowing you off to hang out with friends last minute while acting like he’s above you? Yeah fuck that lol I wouldn’t do that to my girl and she wouldn’t do that to me
As someone who travels a lot: no. Know your self worth. You deserve better than to pine for someone living their best life on the other side of the planet.
It's probably also the long distance relationship with the least chance of success.
There is no real “take it to the grave” with this shit. Not that ends well anyway. If you try, either you will get ratted out then feel and look like a scumbag, and he will hate you for lying by omission, or you’ll just let it eat you until your relationship suffers enough that he notices and shit falls apart. Please trust me, I did that shit at your age too. Honestly you should leave, you’re not happy and probably won’t be in the future. If you won’t leave, then tell him. He cheated too, and everything since has been part of the fallout. If he wants to work it out, he’ll forgive you and maybe you’ll finally be able to forgive him too. You certainly haven’t yet.
why don’t you go research it yourself. it makes sense psychologically and that’s literally what happens. you think abt another person and that’s why you mistakenly call out that persons name
Same, no second chances ever. I will never understand why people put themselves through that!
This is so sick, a father must not dream anything sexual in regards the daughter, I suggest you to ask him to visit a doctor, he may develop a disease at the brain…
My advice is that I’m the same age as your daughter and wife and that sentence is disturbing. Please don’t bother your daughter and let her marry her 21 year old in peace, she clearly doesn’t want to speak to you and I don’t blame her I’d cut my dad off for this too
Tell him his ideals aren't ideal.
Brown eyes are lovely. ALL eye colours are!
You might not have been giving what the company needed you to give, even if you thought you did. Or your mental breakdown may have impacted your work more than you realized.
My advice still stands.
I would have considered pulling over and dumping her if she’s that callous. Definitely would have dumper her that night.
You called?
It's not lack of trust. It's sheer disinterest. I don't care what's on his phone and he doesn't care what's on mine. We each have a phone, so we just don't bother with each other's.
Although you do make a good point about emergencies. If something happened to either of us, we'd need access.