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Your mom is a predator, she’s 40 years old having “feelings” for an 18yr old boy… gross
You cheated you didn't give a dam about those kids when you did and how it would affect them in life. Now you seem to care? To late you cheated you don't love your gf if you did you wouldn't have cheated. So man up and come clean. There is no healthy way at all
I tried reporting him to the police this last time but he left the house and wouldn't tell me his location and they said they couldn't do anything without that.
My family has been helping me financially but I don't want to keep borrowing and taking money from them. I'm already working so I'm trying and hoping that things will slowly start to get better.
As for leaving, that's the hard part. The apartment we're at now is mine and has been for the last two and a half years. We met while I was doing travel nursing so when I left the last place, he came with me. So if I break up with him, he has literally nowhere to go nearby, and no money to go back to his family.
Some days things are better and I have a little hope for the future.
I will try to maybe gift her one for Christmas, thanks for the advice on the towel
At the end of the day, men are dumb.
But also, you’ve given a lazy answer instead of “no” in the past and obviously that’s backfired here. ??♂️
In what way, exactly? Sure men in average can be smarter than women in some way… while vice versa also applies. I'm a smart man, because I totally know there are many women who are much smarter than myself…
My marriage is my priority.
subconscience keeps bringning them up,
These two sentences don't go together. Either your marriage is your priority and you respect your wife's boundaries and forget about reconnecting, or you disrespect your wife's feelings and wishes and risk losing your wife over some girl you knew back in uni.
Thank you for your thoughtful response. I can tell you have been through a similar set of circumstances. As you say, it is so true that you don’t see the possibilities in life when you feel like you’re drowning, and that is the exact sentiment he’s experiencing that I’m trying to be sensitive of.
Interesting point about his personality not being changed more via medication vs alcohol. That’s a helpful way of framing it that I will use.
Unhappiness is not only the normal state of affairs for him, but for his entire family as almost every close family member is/has been handcuffed by mental illness for decades. They refuse to recognize agency in their situations and instead lament “the universe” and other intangibles for bringing them hard times. Somehow, I hadn’t really thought about that wider acceptance being the reason for his own inaction, but it absolutely is.
That's 1000% on her not you. If she wants to destroy her relationship with you I'm sorry but don't let her destroy your relationship with your father
Surgery is extremely daunting and scary. Just give her the time she needs.
I dont see OP being with his gf longterm. He is going to up and leave sooner or later.
I'm not a good person. Won't even try to defend myself.
Try to put aside how his comment made you feel for long enough to really listen to his explanation. I know that's a hard thing to do, but I think it'll help you get enough information to make a good decision about how to move forward.
This is the right answer. Invalidating his feelings is just going to end the relationship. He can want to be with you and still be cautious and scared based on his experiences. Look at the posts reddit gets about poc who have dates whites for a while and then suddenly at wedding planning the racist comes out. Or suddenly a family member says something wild and their partner does nothing to help. These are real experiences poc have. You taking it so personally is just showing your privilege even if you don't mean to.
It depends on whether or not you want to get involved in the drama. While I would normally say to tell the gf…in this situation because of your relationship with the BF and the girl he cheated with…it could get really messy and cause problems for you. So, if you're willing to deal with the blowback then def reach out and give the GF the facts and nothing more. Otherwise just let karma deal with it
Hey OP, a few things. First in general good job doing you! My wife and I both grew a lot in our early 20s, but we’ve grown together (early 30s now) growing apart is also totally possible.
The reason I’m replying to this in particular is your “memory” issues don’t sound like memory issues, they sound like underdeveloped executive functioning. Please see a mental health professional, in addition to the general benefits of therapy (my wife and I do individual therapy, couples therapy might help you and your husbands relationship) talking to one might help you with strategies or even medication to help with those issues. I’ve spent a long time developing a hodgepodge system (phone reminders being some of mine too) to get me through those.
How long ago did your daughter’s mother die? Is she getting counseling? And not to pry, but you should know how she died, because that could make a huge difference in your daughter’s mental health.
He doesn't act like baby infront if them. He only does it in with OP
I don’t think she was slighting you at all, probably she was agreeing with you saying that you work hard and deserve more…
Omg, how great if they were all there, him too