Notice how she’s gone for the smallest amount of truth. • sex for only one minute – because she can’t deny it happened • doesn’t remember anything – so you can’t blame her for cheating and she can blame intoxication • wasn’t assault (so you won’t tell her to press charges) • the other friend just left 30 minutes before (why didn’t the bff leave with him???)- so you won’t think anything happened overnight • coherent enough you at 8 to check when you’re coming home but not enough to not cheat???
You definitely need to contact the guy and the best friend. Find out if this was really the first and only time and if the bff was there at all, when he left and why his bff didn’t leave with him. Check her phone (show up unannounced and ask to check it. Maybe even text the bff from her phone
You shouldn’t go back. The red flags are much ???
Notice how she’s gone for the smallest amount of truth. • sex for only one minute – because she can’t deny it happened • doesn’t remember anything – so you can’t blame her for cheating and she can blame intoxication • wasn’t assault (so you won’t tell her to press charges) • the other friend just left 30 minutes before (why didn’t the bff leave with him???)- so you won’t think anything happened overnight • coherent enough you at 8 to check when you’re coming home but not enough to not cheat???
You definitely need to contact the guy and the best friend. Find out if this was really the first and only time and if the bff was there at all, when he left and why his bff didn’t leave with him. Check her phone (show up unannounced and ask to check it. Maybe even text the bff from her phone
I don't necessarily think is was a direct comparison, more like a passing comment to justify her past experience.