You need to be yourself first before jumping back in immediately. Use 2023 to find yourself and your own freedom and then look what comes out of that. Maybe therapy won't hurt.
Leave. There’s no other option. That’s some seriously screwed up fetish he’s got going on and you’re an unwilling participant. He’s forcing you. Physically. This is disgusting.
She could surprise him with the sandwich READY over her naked body if she wanted to offer sex. She didn’t have the gift that HE SAID HE WANTED and presented something else. I wouldn’t want sex either.
And yet you aren´t able to disclose to me his reasons for keeping it a secret. You can only speculate. I didn´t come here to ask people to speculate about whether this celebrity wants to keep me a secret because they wanna fuck or not (although of course some people love to speculate!)
I came here to gain some fresh perspective on the psychological dynamics of the situation, which will help me reach a consensus on how I´d like to proceed, a lot more than weary discussions about how in some people´s opinions it´s a lot more probable that “he just wants to fuck” than not. And my decision is definitely not going to be based on or depend on other´s speculation.
stab him with a fork ffs. I hate him. I'm sorry. Nothing constructive to add besides I'd be pissed if my partner did that bullshit with me. Bad enough he doesn't care about your relationship with anyone in the group.
I mean, it looks like your girlfriend has a girlfriend. I don’t know if she’s a serial cheater but she’s a serial liar for sure. Might want to check the paternity on the kids. It’s obvious she can cheat on you and like you. So I would get that checked out.
This is not what love looks like and this person is being really mean to you. Childhood sweetheart or not what's the point if they can't even be nice to you!! Have some self respect and leave. Don't let this person treat you this way!!!
I'm in my 40s and use SC with a few people I char with regularly because I can send videos and stupid pics without taking up extra space on my phone. It's normal to chat with the same person on different forms of social media.
Although it is fair no say that there are many areas that don’t have a whole lot in the way of community college offerings nor would they allow you to live! at home while attending a state school.
Good point. Not only did he continue to keep sexy stuff of his ex saved up for safe keeping, but he also forced that video of him getting off from his ex up into her face in order to explain to her she wasn’t good enough and to do it like the video. SMH
To be honest she sounds manipulative and you sound more mature than her, and that's okay to realize as long as you accept that there is a lack of compatibility here until further down the line once she's grown on her own for a bit.
You’re right – I am trying to push the feeling and convince myself it’s something I had to do. I don’t want to hurt him
Ah yes Thats true
Dude tap that!
What about a cosleeping crib so she’s not on your mattress?
You need to be yourself first before jumping back in immediately. Use 2023 to find yourself and your own freedom and then look what comes out of that. Maybe therapy won't hurt.
A lot of people drinking this time of year and especially if they are at a football game. I wouldn’t worry to much be just probably overdid it.
Maybe you all can find active things to do TOGETHER! It'll be a bonding experience and get you hotter for each other.
I love doing work out videos, going on runs, hikes, etc. With my partner. Y'all could go to the gym or take a class TOGETHER.
The endorphins from moving y'all's bodys could make you both more confident.about yourselves and horny for each other ?
So your boyfriend is manipulating you, Hiding your medications, and has raped you. You’re still calling him boyfriend?
Call it quits babe. You need to leave now.
no no they were illegal before. Idk how he got them.
Because of her adultery causing the divorce, I don’t see her making out like a bandit. This is why you need an attorney.
What the actual heck did I just read?
Leave. There’s no other option. That’s some seriously screwed up fetish he’s got going on and you’re an unwilling participant. He’s forcing you. Physically. This is disgusting.
A strong young man only interested in anime and game screen shit is pretty disappointing.
It has to be said. That's no life for a normal young man.
And of course the kids want to box. And that's your thing.
Your wife will get over it. The anime kid doesn't participate much in family life, I'll bet.
She could surprise him with the sandwich READY over her naked body if she wanted to offer sex. She didn’t have the gift that HE SAID HE WANTED and presented something else. I wouldn’t want sex either.
And yet you aren´t able to disclose to me his reasons for keeping it a secret. You can only speculate. I didn´t come here to ask people to speculate about whether this celebrity wants to keep me a secret because they wanna fuck or not (although of course some people love to speculate!)
I came here to gain some fresh perspective on the psychological dynamics of the situation, which will help me reach a consensus on how I´d like to proceed, a lot more than weary discussions about how in some people´s opinions it´s a lot more probable that “he just wants to fuck” than not. And my decision is definitely not going to be based on or depend on other´s speculation.
Well it's clear that I can see she doesn't respect me.
stab him with a fork ffs. I hate him. I'm sorry. Nothing constructive to add besides I'd be pissed if my partner did that bullshit with me. Bad enough he doesn't care about your relationship with anyone in the group.
I asked to see his phone and he handed it to me. I would never snoop through a partners phone secretly.
I mean, it looks like your girlfriend has a girlfriend. I don’t know if she’s a serial cheater but she’s a serial liar for sure. Might want to check the paternity on the kids. It’s obvious she can cheat on you and like you. So I would get that checked out.
This is not what love looks like and this person is being really mean to you. Childhood sweetheart or not what's the point if they can't even be nice to you!! Have some self respect and leave. Don't let this person treat you this way!!!
I'm in my 40s and use SC with a few people I char with regularly because I can send videos and stupid pics without taking up extra space on my phone. It's normal to chat with the same person on different forms of social media.
sorry for the confusion! thanks for the advice 🙂
Although it is fair no say that there are many areas that don’t have a whole lot in the way of community college offerings nor would they allow you to live! at home while attending a state school.
Let them. Make new friends or be alone. It’s better than this.
Jesus Christ, no. Don’t do this. Wtf.
All living together, recipe for disaster if you ask me ….
Let me guess, your wife was drunk.
Good point. Not only did he continue to keep sexy stuff of his ex saved up for safe keeping, but he also forced that video of him getting off from his ex up into her face in order to explain to her she wasn’t good enough and to do it like the video. SMH
It's not… But you don't want her accusing you of that shit.
It’s ok if someone kisses him so long as he doesn’t like it?
To be honest she sounds manipulative and you sound more mature than her, and that's okay to realize as long as you accept that there is a lack of compatibility here until further down the line once she's grown on her own for a bit.
With your voice
That seems wise, but you may just end up with him staying over with Steve a lot, with no rent to pay and no chores to do