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Sounds like you have a terrific plan! It's okay that there isn't more wiggle room in your timeline.
Knowing about it doesn't have to “ruin” it. Let him know how excited you are – the moment the ring that he chose for you slips on your finger matters because it's the moment you officially commit to spending the rest of your lives together. It doesn't have to be this big event or surprise. It could be a simple conversation at a pub. What matters is your love for each other, spending your lives together, and a commitment to having a healthy relationship and family.
I really hope the disappointment and blame you are feeling now can dissipate. There is a bright side to knowing; This way, you are no longer anxious about it and there is time to build some excited anticipation.
There's no need to fake anything when the ring comes out. What makes the moment special is sharing your love for one another and being vulnerable about your true feelings of joy. A genuine moment sharing love is a memory to last a lifetime.
Seems he doesn‘t love or respect you as a person but is just interested in one thing in that relationship and butthurt if he doesn‘t get it. Saying you „owe“ him anything is a huge red flag already, I wouldn‘t think twice about leaving.
Wait, so you didn’t say anything to those actually wronged, but suddenly it’s your duty to tell this guy, whom she hasn’t cheated on?
It’s one thing to bring it up with her and judge on the outside looking in, but it’s quite another to place yourself in the middle of their relationship, when nothing has happened.
I’m missing the part where this became your business. If you don’t like your sister, don’t talk to her, but it sounds like you were looking to cause drama for her, and yourself. The fact that you are shocked she isn’t talking to you is baffling.
What did you hope to gain from this? Were you trying to break them up and look like the hero? You’re not, you’re a meddler, but oddly enough not a meddler when it might have been justified. You tried to set off a bomb, then run like a coward when faced with your actions.
Honestly to me this sounds like you were bored and needed some drama in your life. You’re a pot stirrer, and you think people should still maintain relationships while you do so. Heaven help if you have kids and they get into relationships. Nightmare MIL in the making.
ut of course you value your business more than you value her emotional well being.
In what world is it normal to put your ex wife's emotional well being ahead of your career? Particularly when you have a child on the way you need to pay for? Is this some new rule we made up? This will, regrettably, probably suck for her, but she's an adult woman. If she wants out she's free to leave at any time.
18, pregnant AND married to a selfish asshole. I wouldn't be surprised if he's still sleeping with her because how does he even know that she'd agree to such a thing? You may need a divorce before it's too late Hun.
Please leave op. This will get worse before it gets better. My niece Is with a guy who slapped her. It started with a slap. She has a daughter with him and he kicked her in the stomach 3 weeks after she gave birth. I have saw bruises on her arms, her neck, her stomach (he left the outline of his shoe on her), and her legs.
He picked her up by the throat until she passed out. He shot a loaded gun over her head. He held a loaded gun to her head. She had a restraining order on him but dropped it. She has lost custody of her 3 kids. She is an alcoholic but still refuses to leave him.
This is so weird OP I’m sorry that you ran into a person like this. Personally, I understand being anxious about meeting someone but I do not understand this complete failure to communicate like an adult. I’m the same age as you both. If she’s this age & can’t communicate any better than this, I’m just not sure it’s really worth your time. What arguments & emotional energy sinks are in your future if all this transpired over a simple coffee date?
What advice are you looking for here? You say you’re constantly fighting but then provide positive attributes that are essentially irrelevant. You talking everyday and having laughing moments doesn’t fix the issue that’s causing you to fight. What is that?
Next, we’re obviously not going to ignore the fact that you’re a 24 year old dating a 19 year old. You’re legally consenting adults but you’re logically in vastly different life stages so please explain to us how this happened to begin with?
Literally everything else you wrote amounts to fluff. What exactly is going on here?
Sounds like you have a terrific plan! It's okay that there isn't more wiggle room in your timeline.
Knowing about it doesn't have to “ruin” it. Let him know how excited you are – the moment the ring that he chose for you slips on your finger matters because it's the moment you officially commit to spending the rest of your lives together. It doesn't have to be this big event or surprise. It could be a simple conversation at a pub. What matters is your love for each other, spending your lives together, and a commitment to having a healthy relationship and family.
I really hope the disappointment and blame you are feeling now can dissipate. There is a bright side to knowing; This way, you are no longer anxious about it and there is time to build some excited anticipation.
There's no need to fake anything when the ring comes out. What makes the moment special is sharing your love for one another and being vulnerable about your true feelings of joy. A genuine moment sharing love is a memory to last a lifetime.
Your parents are old fashioned. You are 21, and do not need their “talks”. Time to tell dad, you are an adult.
Don’t do it.
Can you explain the joke to me? Because i don’t get it what is so funny about insulting another girl?
Seems he doesn‘t love or respect you as a person but is just interested in one thing in that relationship and butthurt if he doesn‘t get it. Saying you „owe“ him anything is a huge red flag already, I wouldn‘t think twice about leaving.
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Wow. Thinking about my wife’s reactions to these “pranks.” Ugh
You never owe anyone your love or friendship.
Wait, so you didn’t say anything to those actually wronged, but suddenly it’s your duty to tell this guy, whom she hasn’t cheated on?
It’s one thing to bring it up with her and judge on the outside looking in, but it’s quite another to place yourself in the middle of their relationship, when nothing has happened.
I’m missing the part where this became your business. If you don’t like your sister, don’t talk to her, but it sounds like you were looking to cause drama for her, and yourself. The fact that you are shocked she isn’t talking to you is baffling.
What did you hope to gain from this? Were you trying to break them up and look like the hero? You’re not, you’re a meddler, but oddly enough not a meddler when it might have been justified. You tried to set off a bomb, then run like a coward when faced with your actions.
Honestly to me this sounds like you were bored and needed some drama in your life. You’re a pot stirrer, and you think people should still maintain relationships while you do so. Heaven help if you have kids and they get into relationships. Nightmare MIL in the making.
ut of course you value your business more than you value her emotional well being.
In what world is it normal to put your ex wife's emotional well being ahead of your career? Particularly when you have a child on the way you need to pay for? Is this some new rule we made up? This will, regrettably, probably suck for her, but she's an adult woman. If she wants out she's free to leave at any time.
18, pregnant AND married to a selfish asshole. I wouldn't be surprised if he's still sleeping with her because how does he even know that she'd agree to such a thing? You may need a divorce before it's too late Hun.
Not all men are like this. The men in my life would never behave like this or associate themselves with people who behave this way.
Please leave op. This will get worse before it gets better. My niece Is with a guy who slapped her. It started with a slap. She has a daughter with him and he kicked her in the stomach 3 weeks after she gave birth. I have saw bruises on her arms, her neck, her stomach (he left the outline of his shoe on her), and her legs.
He picked her up by the throat until she passed out. He shot a loaded gun over her head. He held a loaded gun to her head. She had a restraining order on him but dropped it. She has lost custody of her 3 kids. She is an alcoholic but still refuses to leave him.
This is so weird OP I’m sorry that you ran into a person like this. Personally, I understand being anxious about meeting someone but I do not understand this complete failure to communicate like an adult. I’m the same age as you both. If she’s this age & can’t communicate any better than this, I’m just not sure it’s really worth your time. What arguments & emotional energy sinks are in your future if all this transpired over a simple coffee date?
Maybe and I’m open to new ideas about that and everything else. Unlike most of this comments section unfortunately
IUI with a donor is a possibility, as well.
Ex-girlfriend.
what a manipulative piece of crap! call his bluff baby!
really not a big deal at all. I promise you.
What advice are you looking for here? You say you’re constantly fighting but then provide positive attributes that are essentially irrelevant. You talking everyday and having laughing moments doesn’t fix the issue that’s causing you to fight. What is that?
Next, we’re obviously not going to ignore the fact that you’re a 24 year old dating a 19 year old. You’re legally consenting adults but you’re logically in vastly different life stages so please explain to us how this happened to begin with?
Literally everything else you wrote amounts to fluff. What exactly is going on here?
It’s hardly a surprise that OPs wife doesn’t feel safe expressing her actual feelings and backtracks, given what happened
Seriously my guy, it's not a fetish, it's a kink. And if a kink doesn't involve any non consensual activities, it's not disgusting at all.
If you want to tell your gf, go ahead. You don't have to, but you can. And who knows, maybe she might try it.