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You don't need to refreeze it. It's called leftovers. You put them in the fridge. He could be eating that for the next week. When you live alone, that is the kind of convenient stuff you do rather than cooking all the time.
That was a typo I meant lasagna
You’re just as crazy as her
Sounds like she waited for him to turn 18 to start dating him legally.?
Yeah he is negging you and trying to make you insecure. He is trying to lower your self-esteem ans self worth in order to lower your standards… Nasty tactic
Falling out of love? I would say no. It just sounds to me you have dreams and desires that you are unable to obtain, and because of that, you're looking for somewhere to place the lions share of that blame, which appears to be your partner.
For starters it sounds to me like you're not really cut out to be working all the time, perhaps part time at most, as you seem to want a life where you could simply pursue your hobbies and passions. I think you should have a serious sit down conversation with your partner not just tell him your feelings but also to see if there is a possibility of reevaluating your current lifestyles.
The reason I am mentioning “lifestyle” is because I suspect that even if you got a solid 2 month break, eventually you will be right back to being miserable having to work and stress about your lives all the time. It also sounds to me like you both took on more work and financial stress than you could realistically handle, which isn't making the situation any easier.
The only other thing I will add is to approach this conversation together and keep his wants and needs in the picture. If you both can deal with this together as a team, I can see a better outcome. Otherwise, you may have to make a very tough decision and walk away.
Put it this way, I don't think that approach would solve the problem at hand
Why are you social media friends with an abuser you want no contact with? Do not respond and block him.
“Guys I went on a half year trip after already having serious relationship issues and my abandoned lover found a way to have her needs fulfilled in my absence. What do I do now?!”
Did you leave your brain somewhere along the hike? Why are you even posting here?
Plenty of people out there who are hopelessly drawn to unavailable people, while appearing to be uninterested in actually available people. The thrill of the chase, all that.
Source: me having been through therapy because of being hung up on unavailable women.
Why not give it so someone that you can visit?
If a paternity test is to expensive tell her to pay for a paternity test. If she doesn't the kid is likely not yours anyway.
She cheated. She became pregnant. Its only your problem of she has proof it is yours. Before that you dont have to be in contact with her.
Sorry brother she was never your friend if she can get with a dude who she knows bullied someone she cares for, for 3 years.
Just wirte her a last saying; “I can't Forgive you because you know what a person he is and still choice to get with him and if that makes you happy good for you but I can't be friends with my bully gf by.”
We can only assume she's not being physical but let's be honest, she's toxic clearly and probably not sharing details of what she does to OP because she wants comfort
“She assumes things are aggressive” – maybe you are assuming that things are not agressive?
“when I’m actually calming talking to her” – if it's calm, it doesn't mean it's not agressive! Gaslighting, blame shifting, crazy making, dismissing her feelings is agressive!
“I raised my voice… She thought that was abusive” – I told her that she's crazy for thinking that! Raising voici is not abusive and she should know that! Me talking calmly is not abusive! She's shouldn't feel that! How dare she think something is abusive when it's not!
What I think is he took you for granted. Would need more details to give you a proper opinion. Like when you broke up and he cried was it because he was remorseful. Was it too late or did you not wanna give him another chance since he had already had so many. Lots of details will help me and others.
I think I would point out to GF that the friend is likely going to be in pain and coming off of anesthesia. This is a very vulnerable position for the friend to be in. If she asked you to drive her, it likely means she feels comfortable and safe with you.
You think he'll tell you the truth? I doubt it.
Get jealous, that parts okay and you’ll never help it until you work on it.
You do that by not acting on it. It makes someone feel controlled, and that they have a needy unconfident SO. It only damages relationships.
The reality of the situation is anyone can cheat on me or leave me for someone else right? I have zero control.
What I can trust though, is they chose to be with me so they wouldn’t do that. If they do, they suck, which is separate from me.
When you get jealous, get busy. Crazy how fast you forget about it with your own friends and activity. Less you act on it, easier it is not too and actually give that trust you want back.
This allows you to set reasonable boundaries(I.e. have female friends, but don’t hang out alone with them) or act like a confidant secure SO you would like to have (have fun w/ your friends, let me know when you make it home).
Thank you for the advice.. I have a lot to think on. I think I will delete my post as ultimately I need to make this decision for myself and should have a few conversations with my bf before I even make this decision. Thanks again 🙂
Thank God it's not just me. My roommate keeps telling me to give him a chance and get to know him, completely ignoring the red flags. Totally made me feel like it was me being weird
A relationship in which one person openly acknowledges that their partner isn't the best sex they've had seems like it's guaranteed to end in that partner cheating, right? I can't think of a counterexample off the top of my head, but all the divorces among my age cohort have pretty much followed that script.
Ouch, man.
No, you presented the facts, and she is crossing a line in the office, she is pursuing a coworker who is in a relationship!
She wants someone to tell her, her bad actions are ok, when she is in the wrong.
Sounds like a romance scam tbh
It is normal for us to have crushes outside momogamous relationships, but remember that letting those emotions develop further tells you something. It is also your responsibility to discuss this with your SO if you wish to be respectful.
Once she’s there it’s a whole different ball game.
yeah bro, I'd relax. Sure, it's not comfortable to see those pictures, but you two are only 2 months in. Some people are afraid to “delete” things and are more memory packrats. As the relationship progresses (and whenever it's time for her to get a new phone), there should be more of the two of you and less of the two of them showing up.
You guys need to talk. If she can't handle seeing a violent side of you in a situation where it was needed, then that's the end of the relationship. There is not much you can do on your end, but say what's on your mind, listen to her response, and then go from there.
For most women who do this it probably isn't so much about having a baby, it what perks and privileges the baby brings them. Attention, locking a partner they want into place, securing their future with a man they know will take care of them to name a few.
And now he texted “not coming home tonight. sorry baby. you're not as fun as she is.”
Do you live with this moron? Because, if you do, he needs to pack up his stuff and get the fuck out.
We've been dating for 3 yrs. I never expected this. I guess it's time to say goodbye.
Count your lucky stars, girl. This guy is showing you exactly who he is. Believe him!
I hope your exam goes well! You're smart not to waste any time with this a-hole. Just do well in school and online your best life!
I mean, why stop now in my opinion. It’s going to hurt either way, you may as well live in the moment and spend the remaining time with him.
He'll lose his vacation time if he doesn't take it now. It's understandable that OP is feeling fomo but he's not selfish for going.
This is a boss move.
What do your ridiculous sexcapades have to do with what's going on in the post? It's not remotely the same but super cool you're banging and making all the girls fall in love with you. Fucking Casanova over here!!
You are 100% right here. I've parked behind buildings like that before and there really isn't anything else you would be doing there
So, is it just financially that she doesn't trust you? Or is it all the way around? Because if it's just about money and she cannot get that out of her head, then maybe you could sort of take that bull by the horns and tell her that you are prepared to maintain completely separate finances. You will never so much as borrow a nickel from her, you will always pay your own way, and if things progress to cohabitation, and eventually marriage, then you can have one joint account where you each contribute your “share” for household expenses, and have a prenup, ect.
If that won't set her mind at ease, nothing ever will and you will have to decide whether or not you can have a life with someone who refuses to trust you.
And if what she means is that she doesn't see herself EVER fully trusting you about ANYTHING – then you probably should accept that she is still too damaged right now to be in a healthy relationship, and you should probably end things before you become further invested in a relationship that will never work.
Thank them for their input and keep doing what you're doing.
Oh, it doesn’t have to just be physical attraction! It could be changing the way you give gifts to suit the way they like to receive gifts. It could be altering your routine to make your lives more in sync. If there’s not some level of attraction to a partner, I can’t see how it could work.
This already says she’s in deep enough. She needs to kick him out.
Good catch.
I wish the mods would update the posting rules, to something like posts must come from accounts longer than a week old or be capable of blocking ips
You both need to buy in to make a healthier environment, but you can only control you. That’s why I suggest couples counseling. A third party will really help both of you buy-in. If he’s not interested in making the effort to create a safe space, then it’s not going to work unfortunately. Things can get better tho! Speaking from experience:)
Dude you're sick. Unless she's a horrible person, she will understand.
Your relationship is a lie. He's lied to you every step of the way.
Said he was going to work. Met up with a prostitute for anal.
Do you want trans sex? Nah…just a fantasy. Arranges trans sex.
I would never pay for sex. Pays for sex.
Says he didn't enjoy the trans sex. Messages sex worker how good it was.
Says he would never do it again. Tells sex worker he wants session two as soon as he gets more $$$.
He said the sex wasn't worth it. Plans to pay $$$ for it again.
Reddit tells everyone 'When someone shows you who they are, BELIEVE THEM'.
Your man could not make it any clearer. He wants dick. You do not have one. He does not love you unconditionally. He doesn't even love you enough to bother telling you the truth. He lies to you as if you're an idiot.
The man has a whole other sordid life outside your relationship. A separate life that he is throwing himself into, balls deep, with no thought, or care of how it affects you, or your life together. Find someone who loves YOU.
No this is all weird and not normal.
I agree that minimizing further drama from this woman and maintaining a neutral tone are incredibly important if a message is sent at all, and I tried to word things in a way that also expressed the desire to not be contacted again.
My old roommate's ex tried to still be in her life by coming around to see the dog. So shitty and manipulative. Then when she started seeing someone else he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to come around and see the dog anymore.
Thanks, I'll track that down
I think I’m this specific situation you might be in the wrong. It’s his party and he can make it lame if he wants to.
However, I think you are distressed because this might be the first sign of a larger incompatibility. He doesn’t seem to be very considerate for his friends, doesn’t seem to be logical, and kind of immature.
He is 33. He should know better by now. I would consider his behavior a red flag. I think you do too, and that’s why you’re upset
It's just AS weird to continue with a realtionship with somebody you have such a major distrust in!
OP tell her that.
“Dear, as you believe in others more than in me, who you pretend wanting to marry, we have to split apart. As to me such a huge mistrust and hiding your pretended source is a no go.”
This is some top tier paranoid and delusional bullshit you've bought into.
You need therapy and medication.