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You’d have to talk to him further.
The real question though is do YOU want kids? Because if not, you should tell him. And if you do, need to get aligned with him because the clock is going to start ticking for you biologically pretty soon. Pregnancy after 35 is higher risk to you and baby.
You clearly don't know what that word means, since that made zero sense in this context. I'm going to mute this concersation since I'm concerned that your stupidity may be contagious.
I would have said “yeah, I saw better yesterday, sorry boo” and blocked him
I would not. Because betrayal changes too much.
This is a shit take.
I also think i should tell him that his jokes about my food were the same way. Not to fight back but for him to realize. Specially because tortillas and their combinations have an historical meaning in my culture. So i will let him know that even tho I’m not hurt, if he thought i was racist then his jokes have the same implications so we should stop joking about it. I think the only way will be to avoid joking about our cultural differences.
dump him?
Your bf is a douche bag. I don’t understand why you’re still with him.
Wait until her parents say some messed up shit to your child — mama bear will come out.
You Def need to have a conversation with her.
Wait until her parents say some messed up shit to your child — mama bear will come out.
You Def need to have a conversation with her.
I can tell from the post and the fact that you drafted it together, that you two are a strong couple with good communication and strong willingness to work on the issues. Props to that!
I couldn’t believe it when I read the post, because my boyfriend and I are in the same exact situation as you are (similar timeline, mismatched sex drive, lower frequency but when it happens it’s great, open communications), and we are also in the process of figuring things out.
Some things we’ve been trying: scheduling sexy days (having a mental preparation on both parties and time set aside is actually comforting, not boring); therapy on both sides (figuring out if there’s underlying psychological blocks behind the needs); medical check-ups (ruling out hormonal issues as a reason for low sex drive); and continue with lots and lots of non-sexual physical intimacy.
We are pretty much in the works of it all, so the methods above have not “solved” the issue completely, but they can be helpful. So I am not offering specific advice here, but genuine support for you both. Know that you are not alone in this journey, it gave me comfort reading your post, and I hope you’ll feel less alone reading my comment too.
Look, there are some really good guys out there, and as a word of advice, the guys with game are the guys that play it. If you meet some guy and he doesn't flirt with you, chances are he thinks you are stunning, but doesn't want to seem creepy. Just don't have the whole tinder shopping list of must be 6ft, make 6 fig, be funny, yadda yadda ya. You know what I mean. And a lot of the guys girls normally don't give a chance have great personalities because they have to work at being a good human in order to get the attention of women who want the shopping list. Plus, most guys who fit the whole shopping list have a whole black Friday at Walmart long line of girls trying to get with him, so they really aren't the for you anyways. Look, just try not to mess around with f-boys if you want a long relationship. Looking back this post is pretty negative, but it's also pretty truthful. Anyways, good luck, and I really hope that someone gives you better advice then me
i could but what if i’m only feeling like this because of the fact she told me recently and like i don’t actually like her in that way ?
why do people only ask this when it’s a younger man with an older woman?
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please don't get married you're only teenagers. it may seem like he's the one but always put your own life as first priority before any relationship
please don't get married you're only teenagers. it may seem like he's the one but always put your own life as first priority before any relationship
Have you had orgasms in ways other than penetration? Does he put in the effort to help you get off in other ways?
He's letting his ego get in the way of your sex life… which is completely counterproductive.
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I am also a highly sensitive person who finds it almost impossible not to constantly monitor other people's emotions.
I believe it's because I grew up with parents who were very hot/cold, and when I'd get home from school I'd never know what to expect; sometimes they'd be screaming in my face, throwing curse words at me for no reason and other times they'd be asking for a hug and suggesting family game night etc… Their flip floppy attitudes really messed with me as a kid. Kids who grow up in this emotionally uncertain environment tend to unintentionally train themselves to monitor the tone, micro-expressions and body language of people around them.
My boyfriend recently brought up to me that he doesn't like it when I assume how he's feeling, a very similar situation to yours. I told him that I couldn't help it and that it was ingrained in my brain almost like a survival instinct.
We came to a compromise later and I promised him that even if I felt like he was in a bad mood, I would not point it out to him. Instead now I stop before saying anything and just ask him how he's feeling and let him answer. He feels much more comfortable now when I let him tell me how he's feeling instead of going with my instinct and assuming. He said as long as I ask how he's feeling, he will always be genuine and honest about it. Maybe you guys can work out something similar.
She doesn’t have contact with the ex, I suppose I should’ve worded that better. She has issues caused by that relationship with herself she’s trying to fix. Not the other person. She needs time to figure out how to be a good partner, but I’m not sure I’m making the right call.
He sounds like a controlling and manipulative guy.
Major red flags on forcing no contact and the phone searches
Have a convo on boundaries. If he disagrees as I think he will, then leave
OP, this person is not a good one to take advice from. They said they don't believe in having close friendships if you're in a relationship. And that's a lot to unpack.
As for you, you just said you're afraid about what will happen if you spend time with any male. That's worrisome. I've never known any guy who tried to get his girlfriend to stop hanging out with men and stopped there. They always go on to eliminate other friends and family from your life.
not regular therapy…….
If your gut is telling you different. You need to go with your gut. Intuition is never wrong.
He’s insecure and controlling; traits that only get worse with time. Is this the future you want? Go to your games and let him pout. You’re young and have lots of time to find someone who lets you be you.
What makes this different is the language situation… As an introvert, when you have someone in your home, you have to be “on” – you have to be interacting with people who are going to drain your batteries. That's stressful.
Add the linguistic issues (he can't communicate directly, and some chunk of time, mom & OP are chatting in their language and he's left out completely… BUT he has to stay present because “hiding” from your in-laws is rude) – and this turns into a week long anxiety attack.
Even if it's not “too often” – OP needs to find a way to respect that for some of us – this is a HUGE ask – our homes need to be that place we can curl up and recharge after working, and although she ABSOLUTELY needs time with her family, she also needs to respect that the situation isn't as “straight forward” as it would be without the linguistic issues.
How do you not know how the both of you are preventing pregnancy?
I mean the first thing that comes to my mind would be to join the group. If you become friends with the guys yourself you prob won’t feel this way. Do you play similar games?
Leave.
Being a male in a nutshell.
avoids being masculine in a toxic way, but to the disadvantage of a situation that requires others to take on masculine roles
Society: “No, not like that!”
Not my ex, but close friend/fling
They have that already dawg..
Isn’t it exhausting calling your gf your “date”?
She’s not your gf but you have her running your errands? You say you would do the same for her, but do you? Why couldn’t your gf go with you to the friends party?
You have been together 6 years, and both of you have grown and changed in that time. It is normal that uou wouldn't feel the same feelings as you mature and grow older. As for the honeymoon phase, that isn't something upu should pursue as it always eventually ends. However, it sounds like you have fallen out of online which is not surprising since neither of you are the same people you were when you were 14.
The repeated confusion of boundaries and outright controlling behavior is embarrassing.
He sounds super misogynistic and like he's trying to force you to do something that will irritate your skin condition
If your stepdad wants to have his own family, and your mother cannot give him that for biological reasons, then they are not right for each other. It's no different than if someone needs emotional support, and doesn't get it. Your partner is supposed to fulfill your needs, otherwise the relationship won't work. Needs and life goals must align. Your mother has passed her child bearing years and there's nothing wrong with that, but the man who is right for her is one who doesn't want more babies. Of course, I don't know all the details of their relationship so all I can do is speculate.
If you love your stepdad, then maintain a relationship with him. What you'll often find in these situations is your mother will try to use you to hurt him, because she is hurt. In a case like this, your mother isn't actually trying to help you, she's trying to use you as a tool of vengeance. You don't have to hide it from your mother, but you must set boundaries. If he was and still is an important part of your life, then keep him in your life and tell your mother that. If she refuses to understand, then it's a lack of maturity on your mother's part. You may think older people can handle relationship pain with more grace, but I can tell you that is definitely not the fact! I've seen older women hold grudges over something that happened literally 50 years ago! They can't let it go and they can't forgive. Ultimately, how you online your life is your choice, and you shouldn't allow anyone else, even your mother, to strong arm you into behaving a certain way only because it gives her a little schadenfreude. Good luck.
If your stepdad wants to have his own family, and your mother cannot give him that for biological reasons, then they are not right for each other. It's no different than if someone needs emotional support, and doesn't get it. Your partner is supposed to fulfill your needs, otherwise the relationship won't work. Needs and life goals must align. Your mother has passed her child bearing years and there's nothing wrong with that, but the man who is right for her is one who doesn't want more babies. Of course, I don't know all the details of their relationship so all I can do is speculate.
If you love your stepdad, then maintain a relationship with him. What you'll often find in these situations is your mother will try to use you to hurt him, because she is hurt. In a case like this, your mother isn't actually trying to help you, she's trying to use you as a tool of vengeance. You don't have to hide it from your mother, but you must set boundaries. If he was and still is an important part of your life, then keep him in your life and tell your mother that. If she refuses to understand, then it's a lack of maturity on your mother's part. You may think older people can handle relationship pain with more grace, but I can tell you that is definitely not the fact! I've seen older women hold grudges over something that happened literally 50 years ago! They can't let it go and they can't forgive. Ultimately, how you online your life is your choice, and you shouldn't allow anyone else, even your mother, to strong arm you into behaving a certain way only because it gives her a little schadenfreude. Good luck.