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its simple, give the money to me and you wont have to worry about this problem anymore.
(seriously though sorry for your loss man)
What you're experiencing is jealousy and that's breeding insecurity. You're still young, so let me give you a heads up.
Your girlfriends/wife is always going to have a memory of the “best sex” or the “hottest” guy they've been with and it might not be you. It might be the complete opposite of you, too. But, that's okay. Because you're going to remember the best sex or your life and the hottest girl you've ever been with and there's a chance it won't be your current partner.
And that's okay, because that's human sexuality, dude. One day those memories will change. Remember: there's always the best of something you've ever experienced… so far.
Take it as a challenge, slugger. Motivate yourself to deliver the best sex she's ever had… so far.
How young are we talking? I had some sexual issues and then realized I was sexually abused as a small kid, with no memory of the event. However, I too always knew what sex was as a result of this (dating back to 3 yrs old).
However, I did notice that you take antidepressants. This can effect some men sexually pretty bad. Some men it gives them ED and others they can stay up but can't orgasm.
I was in that same exact spot ages ago. Oddly I found out my ex was using all sorts of wild drugs. I had NO idea! We only found out because when I left I called the cops. They showed up and entered the house. He had left a note that he was going to kill him self so the cops found him and took him to the hospital. He had all kinds of crazy stuff his system. I was just so blown away because I sincerely no idea! Needless to say that’s NO EXCUSE! I’m so terribly sorry this has happened to you! I’ll be keeping you in my heart and in my thoughts. ?
How old are you guys?
Tell your mom she's a creepy fucking pedophile.
Non-monogamy comes with a TON of required self-work, deconstructing of enculturated monogamous beliefs, and reading homework.
It's awesome, but to do right, takes a lot. Including therapy, IMO.
You could reach out to the neighbor directly first and ask about the dog- sometimes people continue doing things if they are never confronted with it. If they do nothing, I would go to the leasing people and share the concerns with the dog. You could also reach out to local rescues and see if they could find a home for the dog or foster situation. I probably wouldn’t take the dog in if you already have 3 pets because it could put the dog and your pets in a stressful situation. Best of luck! You both have your hearts in a good place!
He’s fucking with you Ignore him
What a douche. Just make sure there are no bills in your name there and you are off the lease. Legally he can't throw you out if you are on the lease but I wouldn't want to be there after him saying some fucked up shit like that. Just tie up any financial ends and move on.
DUMP HIS ASS!
He sounds like a jerk. Not shaving doesn’t mean you don’t take care of yourself. He has some issues, OP, and you deserve SOOOO much better.
This is really disgusting to me and I’m sorry he’s making you feel like this. It’s your body, continue doing what feels best for you!
Honestly reading your responses to others, it honestly sounds like he’s a dick. He might not be all the time but he is enough to the point where it has permanently skewed your families perception of him. I think that you should be reevaluating your relationship with Charlie as if doesn’t sound like he respects you and your family noticed and is just trying to help you.
Red flags as far as the eye can see… and for once it's not the significant other! Toss the bestie. Keep the bf. Poor guy, meets her friends for the first time and is confronted by hooligan boobies…
So what’s the problem? Most people say things like this. Co parenting with someone you’re not with sucks, and that’s why people push to be married and settled first. Getting an attitude won’t help you in this especially because she’s pregnant so right now she does have the upper hand. She can refuse for you to be at doctor’s appointment and the delivery. I would personally put my penis issues aside and work on what you need to to get ready for this baby. Also get a dna test but if you really think the baby is yours then be a good parent and get prepared.
The age difference, the manipulation, the sexual blackmail
^ this
That’s actually some really constructive and practical advice, thank you! I will definitely apply this to future conversations and see if it helps. Most of the instances this occurs it is when it’s relating to something that comes across as trivial (to me, which is only my perspective), in this instance I hadn’t laughed at his joke as much as he felt he needed me to which made him feel I was not interactive enough (I did miss the memo) and I tend to get so laser focused on understanding him when it’s something that I didn’t anticipate (I can otherwise be a little shocked and defensive if I didn’t see it coming so I make decisions to ensure I’m focused on listening to him) and making sure I respond to his questions in as empathetic of a way as possible that I then lead with my response rather than leading with an apology. Thank you for bringing a different perspective to this for me as I feel you’ve hit the nail on the head as to what he may be experiencing.
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Yeah I’m working on it being in a house hold of mad shit, I grew up very independent closed off and working on being more myself how I used to be as young I mean I’m young still but ykw I mean, I want some advice on how do I stop being this way I been doing a lot of self improvement but I can’t shake this idk if it’s me being competitive wanting to be the best or just being extremely clingy
That is so wild to me. When I watch porn I’m not imagining fucking the guy at all. I’m just focusing on pleasing myself. This is why it makes me feel uncomfortable because when it’s one on one like that (solo porn) [based on all the f comments by men] he probably deff is imagining that he’s like in the room with her or something. That is just so wild to me. It feels like cheating but I know it’s not.
Zero amount of flirting is appropriate. Be friends, be kind, but for the love of god do not flirt with married people
He lives in an objectively much nicer house so we stay there more. I was raised pretty low income so there are some things about my house that I’m used to but that I understand might bother someone new
Ya know, hate to break it to Folks but lots of people in their 60’s still have sex, wear sexy lingerie & still enjoy sex toys, especially with live! access (yes, know how to use iPhone & computer).
Now do think the occasion might be questionable (especially with a teens & parents gathered) but did find a similar lovely gift in my stocking…& have enjoyed almost daily.
I left her. Not the other way around. I know it was a bad thing to do. But I’m just human and I blacked out. I’ve never done this my whole life. This was something I told myself I wouldn’t do ever, even with my past relationships even all the pain I felt with my past relationships, I never hurt any of my exes. There’s only so much a person can take before they go crazy, illogical and unreasonable. And that was it for me. In that moment she was the most evil and cruel person for what she did to me. I did what I did. I’m not proud of it and I hate her for making me the person I don’t want to be.
What I would have done would be marry myself, go on the honeymoon with friends, come home and tell him and his brother to take a hike.
This comment is gold!
And then you spent 4 more years.
These are very deep issues you seriously need to explore, if that is true.
The way you describe things makes me think about your age difference and what it meant back then in the beginning of your relationship.
If you were 22 and she was 27 when you first got together, there's at least a little indication that she was into having a younger guy (even just that 5 years in your early 20's is a very big difference, particularly if you moved in with her straight from under your parent's roof) because a younger man is easier to dominate.
And for whatever reason you complied. It probably served you well, at the time, because you were still a bit uncertain about the world and wanted someone with whom to explore it, someone with confidence that might have offered emotional security.
But now you're more comfortable with the world, more confident in knowing who you are and what you want. And you're finding that her ways of dominating you, your time, attention, etc, are getting old.
Nobody has to be the bad guy here. You don't have to justify a breakup by characterizing her in any negative light. You can just decide you aren't compatible anymore and do what's required for the both of you to move on.
I wish you a good and fulfilling life.
Plus, idk about anyone else but I swear I'd lose the last 25lb if they just chopped all my loose skin off. I look BETTER overweight because otherwise, in my 40s, my skin just hangs in these sad folds and if I get much skinnier, my boobs look like used teabags. I'm happier curvy, I feel healthier (I have issues with getting nutrition due to intolerances & allergies) and generally it's healthier for me because I'm in recovery from an eating disorder, though because I started out obese, everyone praised me till I wasn't able to stop & got dangerously thin. So yeah, I went from “don't eat! No not like that!” to “as long as I don't go over the weight where my sciatica kicks in, I'm good”
Fwb is different for everyone it isn't the same for all people. Do friends with benefits take showers together? Do they cook and clean together?
Most normal game on Patrion ?
Children can feel strong and proud in the face of bullying if they are taught from a young age to know who they and their family are, where they came from, and to see the value in it.
It might help with your trauma for you to talk more with your parents about their journey, about what you experienced, and just generally become more comfortable with your culture. It sounds like your reaction to racism has been to shut off that part of yourself.
As a man like you, I would like to respectfully say that you should grow a pair of balls and either demand changes in the relationship or leave.
Stop being a pushover and take charge of your own relationship.
The same way anyone else would get pregnant? I wasn’t looking for judgement on irresponsibility but thanks.
Please talk to your obstetrician so they can see how truly far along you are, if it is early enough misoprostal is enough but it might not be and you might need a d&c. A friend of mine was trying to plan her pregnancy and to reset her cycle the doctor had her take something birth control/misoprostal like – she didnt know she already was pregnant at the time, and the fetus was not aborted (their kid is 8 now). Talking to your doctor is also a good way to get an official record of what happened, this is considered abuse as everyone has already mentioned, they can recommend safe places for you and get you support/help and resources. I am so sorry you are going through this.
I’m surprised that he asked why you haven’t been as adventurous. I would think that’s a sign that he wants to be. He’s really still too shy to ever be the one with ideas? This is sad. And you aren’t okay with always being the adventurous one. That’s fair. Sad.
Maybe not a first date thing, but definitely when things start to feel serious.
I always find it strange when people come on here to paint their other half as evil, and only explain the “fight” in terms of “she thinks this but I think that” instead of explaining what actually happened.
You say it’s gossip and in all honesty, everyone should be allowed to have a friend to express their issues with. It helps get it out of our system. The only issue I’d have with it is if she was explaining your sex life or whatever but that does’t seem to be the case here.
If your wife can’t talk to you, do you expect her to talk to no one about what’s on her mind?
No
No
Yep yep. Thanks.
I can see that point.
how do i sound mean?
the time she snapped at me because i didnt build the model with them i went up to her in person and asked her what was that all about.
she couldnt look me in the eyes and i told her i was already stressed with my part of the work and asked to see her stuff. i told her this is a max of 1-2 hour thing and she said nothing. she couldnt even look me in the eyes.
their model was wrong i redid the whole thing by myself lol.
also i was told by a friend that she was bitching about me. the friend came to me looked at their model and laughed as well.
she said she was on my side given that i had the hardest part in the team and told me she was just being a bitch. the worst part about it is that my friends part was all wrong. lol
I feel like im too nice and sensitive to deal with snappy people like this. My friends are good hardworking and understanding people.
her and i actually bonded after we fought even told her. a few funny guy dramas… but thats all.
Another time she got mad at me because i threw a party same day as her. i know more people in the school bc i am more open and i say hello to everyone to i invited everyone. she doesnt talk to most of them but she said she felt like i thought she was gonna steal my guest.
i straight up said shes acting like a kid and she can very well come to the party too. as everyone is invited.
she hosted her party and i hosted mine and we were all fine
i even asked the people invited to mine if they got invited to hers and they all said they dont talk to her lol
Does he help with raising his child? Or are you doing all the parenting?
If he’s not putting in as much effort to raise the child as you, then explain that to him. Tell him taking care of the kid takes all your energy, and if he helped out, then you might have more energy and desire to have sex.
If he doesn’t want to raise his kid though, then let him go. Sue for child support. And then try and be the best mom you can be.
It’s not uncommon for a lot of women to not have any sexual desire for sometime after giving birth. Especially if they’re doing most/all of the child rearing.
You need to sit him down, face to face, for a brutally honest, heartfelt conversation. He needs to be made aware that you are one person. You are not a superhero with super powers. You are doing the best you can. It's time for him to pitch in and start doing his part with his baby. It took both of you to make the child. It takes both of you to raise the child.
Tell him while this baby is an infant, 100% reliable on you for everything, that somethings will have to take a backseat.
If he wants special time with you, he needs to make it. Hire a babysitter and take you out. Then, he should take you home and treat you like the queen you are.
Unless you are symptomatic, meaning you have symptoms of a complication from HPV or you have warts, there is no test, no exam, no nothing. You can be a carrier and never know you have it. And if a test were developed tomorrow and you typed the same as her, that doesn't mean you got it from her unless you've never previously had sexual contact in your life. If you have a hefty specialist copay, you're about to spend $50+ on being told you can't be told anything. In my experience discussing HPV with doctors, the only one who was ever able to answer questions with more than what I could easily find via google was an infectious disease expert who was conducting an HPV study at the time.
Kill those feelings before you get hurt.
He’ll be fine. Probably will meet someone else in 5 minutes -men hate to be alone.
Another one bites the dust… Wake up, don't become a shell of yourself.
I really want to know, but did you take the cat too? He doesn't deserve them!
Date men, they're better for you
i am ready for all the challenges, but I know that making her choose is really painful, and i don't want to be the one to force her to do that
i am ready for all the challenges, but I know that making her choose is really painful, and i don't want to be the one to force her to do that
i am ready for all the challenges, but I know that making her choose is really painful, and i don't want to be the one to force her to do that
He lives with his mom, aunt and younger sister. He complains about how much money he has to give his mom for bills and how they don’t have enough groceries. His mom recently told him that she is going to kick him out unless he starts helping around the house more.
I have cut off amazing people that I deeply miss and once considered dear friends because they were stuck in toxic cycles of bad relationships. It’s nude seeing someone you love so unwilling to love themselves, and at some point it’s more stress and damage than anything else. They spend so much energy defending their partner and become so unrecognizable when they’re around. It’s just naked to watch and harder to condone, and to me it was impossible to support.
This is your chance to let her know your boundaries. She knows he sucks, she filters what she says about him and refuses to discuss your opinion on their relationship. She knows she has the control here because you accept this, so it’s reasonable that she would expect her partner to be invited and included in your life.
She is an enabler, like it or not. If you cave in and invite him and he makes a scene, what do you think will happen? Do you think it will be the sixteenth wake up call that finally kicks in? Or are you realistic, and can you accept that she would probably make excuses for him and expect you to be okay with it?
It is okay to have boundaries. Deep down she knows your boundaries are reasonable, and because of him. But sadly you are likely right, this could be the end of your friendship. I imagine she’ll be embarrassed and angry because she knows you’re right. If this is the what ends your friendship, sadly it probably needs to be.
Yea…pretty clear what's going on bud
She's said she doesn't always do this, but even if that weren't true, it doesn't change the fact that pursuing a woman he barely knows who posts thirst trap photos is wrong. He should not be pursuing this friendship without OP's explicit blessing, which he doesn't have. It doesn't matter whether OP has been jealous in the past, what matters is his behavior now. If he wants to choose a friendship with a thirst trap he just met over his wife's security, he's in the wrong.
It would be weird for him to snap like that
Not weird at all if he has a crush he's wanting to pursue and is upset his wife won't let him.
I agree with you. It is either that is simply tine with lying to you, on which case there are other things he has lied to you about.
Alternatively it is as you say, and ge dies not see you as part of his life decision making process. This speaks for his lack of commitment to you. If you combine it with mentally exhausting (for him, and emotionally exhausting for you as his partner) career path, then I don't see your relationship surviving.
If something comes up in his life he will prioritise his prefferable choices over your life together. Obviously this is not acceptable if you were to start a family.
You're living in red flag city. You're describing extremely controlling behavior on your boyfriend's part.
Is any part of the reason that you don't have friends to lean on because your boyfriend basically doesn't let you have friends?
Sounds like my ex-wife but she was messy as hell as well. We did couples therapy and everything possible but the therapist was not good enough because he dared to criticise her. In her mind it was mostly me standing in the way of her success. I worked full time, did the laundry, walked the dog, shopping, showering the kid, changing diapers whenever I was home. I also did the cooking on the weekends and took our child to nature activities on Sundays the whole day so that she can have a “break”.
She was at home, not working and our child went to Kindergarten from 8-12 h every day but it was all “too much”. She went away on several weekend trips while I stayed at home. This went on for five years. Would not recommend! I made a fool of myself in the hope the she would get better. It became worse and the final straw for me was when she played the race/gender card claiming that I am at fault because I am a white male.
Divorce was a good choice as the toxicity in my life is now mostly gone.
Anyway, good luck to you!