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Honestly, just ask him if he could come over. He might not know how exactly you feel rn, if he refuses, then you should consider other stuff like you were thinking about
She’s said during conversations that she couldn’t wait for things like us having our own kitchen to fix up, getting a puppy together and gardening together ya know things couples that online together do.
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She’s said during conversations that she couldn’t wait for things like us having our own kitchen to fix up, getting a puppy together and gardening together ya know things couples that online together do.
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Honestly, just ask him if he could come over. He might not know how exactly you feel rn, if he refuses, then you should consider other stuff like you were thinking about
Just went back and read your first post, then this one.
What the hell are you doing man? What would it actually take for you to leave this woman?
Hell no !
It wasn't for OPs own good!
It was for THEIRS.
THEY made HER wedding all about them.
Actually it seems as if the missing dress is a blessing in disguise. And a major hint to NOT marry a man who doesn't have your back.
And afterwards chimes in with that ugly bunch of people to even blame her!!!
She won’t admit it but I also think us getting more seasoned and ready for the whole marriage and kids thing might have scared her away. I’m a pretty easy going guy (maybe too easy going) and i would have been fine with us just having a convo about it but…
On my own, I do want those things. So you’re right about whether or not I should put that on hold for a year.
This made me laugh thank you.
WHAT is there to explain, pray?
HOW can anyone be “over your loss” of a child in just 3 months?
It takes YEARS!
This is not about some rude insensitive people are possibly upset, when being rude all of a sudden has funny consequences!
Your comment strikes me as pretty misplaced.
You need a new man. They have obviously done more than hugged. You know you must go, cause you know Iron Man marries and has a kid with Pepper Potts right? They had a secret relationship until Thanos showed up. I mean come on.
What would be more surprising is him changing his behavior versus repeating it. Not to be totally pessimistic. People can change with therapy and work and all that and it seemed like he had done that.
But you have a right to be suspicious. He broke your trust and hurt you deeply and he has to earn it back.
He's failing to do that right now. And in fact it seems like he is breaking your trust again. In the sense that he should be doing everything he can to claw his way back and never give you another reason to doubt. Not seeing that happening.
Depression is an evil mofo. I hate this constant albatross necklace. It really does fuck with your perceptions of a relationship, too. Even so, like others said, there are still choices. One still has agency.
Does he know how you feel given his past mistake?
What does he talk about? Have you asked?
Would a friend of yours deserve better? If so, why not you as well?
You should tell her that in the comics Pepper Potts was married to Happy Hogan.
Hi I appreciate what you had to say. Thanks.
Girl, read his post over as if your bff posted this, and ask yourself if this sounds like a “happy, fun, and loving” relationship. It sounds like things are only good when he feels like he's in control over you. He's showing you some real nude disrespect and you need to take off your rose colored glasses and see that this will NEVER get better. Is this the future you want for yourself?
Exactly how you explained it to us. Tell her you’d love to take your relationship to the next level and move in together, but you want to hear what she thinks about it.
There’s a couple things you guys should definitely address; some people are divided about talking about these things but my experience is knowing these things help make move ins together less stressful:
1) Cleanliness expectations; what’s her definition of clean and yours? Do you have particular chores you guys like to do (I love doing laundry for example).
2) What does individual self time look like? Do you need time to mentally prepare for work? Do you need time for reading/gaming/other hobbies?
3) What’s the financial responsibilities look like? How do you guys handle rent, utilities, etc?
4) Will you guys have a set “date night?” I know people who have a “This is OUR night” and I think that’s beautiful bc it offers space to check in with your partner.
5) What does conflict resolution look like? I’m sure you guys have that down, but living together makes it so different.
There’s was a whole channel of helpful relationships conversations (pick what resonates with you of course) but I think those were the ones I thought were super helpful to me.
Good luck OP!
Run mate run, she already found the next guy it is only a matter of time
you think magic is real?
????
we can't help you
You've already been dumped. You're the backup plan. She's just not told you.
Spending three k on an ex is absolutely crazy and she has absolutely told friends shit about you. They didn't just stop talking to you for no reason
He got carried away in the moment. He didn’t actually mean any of the romantic stuff, and he doesn’t want to date you.
I’m confused by what you are saying, could you explain more? What do you mean that he should get out while he can? Like that he should break up with me, even though I never asked for this level of commitment? And what do you mean about my ex?
Maybe he just needs to reboot his phone?
Have you asked him about it? Communication is key, regardless of the physical distance in your relationship.
Maybe he just needs to reboot his phone?
Have you asked him about it? Communication is key, regardless of the physical distance in your relationship.
You don’t. She knows you want videos and she’s told you she doesn’t want to do that. Either accept that and stop asking or if that’s something you need in the relationship then acknowledge you may not be compatible and move on.
Ffs OP. Yes, what happened to your partner is bad. But she was 14! What happened to her for her to be so sexualised at such a young age? She was also a child and YOU DON'T KNOW HER STORY. You're calling her a “disgusting bitch” for something that your partner said that he was okay with at the time.
I'm not saying that it was okay. Support your partner. Help him through what he is going through. But leave her out of it. I understand that you're upset, but threatening to call her out on social media for a consentual sexual act between two underage people does not speak well of you.
It is totally healthy to not be in the minds of your partner but not while he is getting nude at the body shop. Something is literally wrong with you!!!
A 30 year old female still going out and partying 2-3 times a week is unhealthy IMO. Sounds like she either gets her act together or this relationship is on it’s last legs.
He doesn't care about your boundaries, he's made that perfectly clear. Someone who respects you will not be asking over and over again.
You aren't compatible and him not respecting your “no” is a red flag you're ignoring.
I’m not sure about this, but it could be that if the sharing is done through iOS messages, it might be set so that when he quits the app, sharing is disabled.
Unsurprisingly a 29 year old woman who hasn't actually been single and gotten to experience independence wants to do so
I wouldn't wait around for her by any means but I doubt it's a personal attack. Online your life, enjoy your newfound freedom, if you meet somebody else so be it…if not, in a year or so from now when you've both learned how to be alone and happy, maybe start over
You are not compatible to begin with. It’s best for both of you to move on.
She should not bring this up to them, that's making it her problem and that's not fair to her.
when she says just vibing with a guy =
Vibing with someone means having a strong connection with someone with whom you share a mutual understanding and respect. It is more than just a casual conversation but a deep connection between two people. It can involve exchanging thoughts, ideas, and feelings.
The best way to end these arguments is to leave him before you are really trapped by marriage or kids.
The only reason that would sound logical to me for writing such a text would be if he helped out a friend to come up with a pickup line like that. But since he didn’t say that… logically I would come to the conclusion that he if he can keep himself sharp, you can also keep yourself sharp
Before jumping to conclusions I searched how to tell I've been restricted from someone's stories and that's how I exactly knew
How did you tell you were restricted?
Well, she did, and that's not what I'm doing.
He basically been getting groomed for half of his life, so he sees it as playing around, he’s so in denial??♂️
And were not saying it's not. But if this is something that the father normally wouldn't do, and has never done before, then this is very likely dementia.
I agree with the other commenter that said he could've wrote that text to himself to show the person he's interested in, because he doesn't want it to go directly to that person's phone since they could've been in a meeting or around other coworkers.
Yeah he is interested in a coworker for sure. Even IF he wasn't, the fact that he's thinking about dating if you guys broke up, is weird and suspicious and not normal at all.
I'd leave him before he cheats (maybe he has?) Or before he gets a chance at seeing the coworker and then breaks up with you. Don't let him talk his way out of this and say he loves you, he wants a family with you, etc, because right now you are just a placeholder until something better comes along.
Avoiding your boyfriend was terrible and I hope you learn to not act like that in the future.
Dude do your girlfriend a favor and break up with her. She sounds like a gem, and like she deserves far better than you
I had to double check the ages here because everyone sounds like a child.
So far as I can tell from this the problem is you have shit friends.
/s just means sarcasm or joke
My God this is LOL level if it wasn't so sad. Think about that sentence. He said she willingly talks about all of her friends except one person whom she plays golf with 2 to 4 times a week. I mean come one that alone should ring alarms.
my accent frequency makes me sound “low class” or stupid, at least according to a few assholes i've encountered. but the thing is those were assholes, which is something your boyfriend can relate to
Thanks again for your response! I think it's more of a fear of what's next and pressure and such. I actually don't mind being myself around her. We got into a relationship quickly (that's on me though) and I may have psyched myself out. I've just been really wishy washy with her and don't want to string her along. It's nude rectifying that sense of calmness with this anxiety.
Your choices are a) change the way you speak – this can be done with the help of a professional voice coach and elocutionist and a lot of nude work or b) change your boyfriend – which can be done by visiting pubs and being open to approaches. A lot cheaper and probably a better solution in the long run.
Guid luck ta ye.
I forgot where I heard this, but “for every beautiful woman, there is at least one man who is sick of her shit.”
What do you mean you agreed your feelings were not romantic or sexual?
I asked what was going on in her head…She said she was caught up in the moment. But recognized it was wrong.
And the fact that you feel unable to tell your own wife what happened says a lot…
It does. Normally, this would be something we talk about. I have shut down post coming out. That is on me.
Maybe he was hoping to have a day to himself
How much are you paying in child support each month?
DARVO if I ever heard it. I'm sorry. Wow. Bipolar and crazy? Nope right out of there.
So your boyfriend insults you because of the way you say certain words? Dump him. You shouldn’t have to edit every word you speak out of fear that he will scold you for an accent that is the summation of you and your life.
Your concerns here paint a giant red flashing “HELL NO” neon sign, in my mind, but that phrasing is not going to work when you talk to your fiancee!
You need to sit down and have a talk with her as an ally; this is you two vs the problem, not you vs her. The problem, as defined here, is that her mother needs a place to online and is showing signs of bein unable to care for herself.
Approach the conversation from that point of view. Instead of “Here's why I think letting your mom move in will destroy our lives” try “Let's find a way to help your mom while still retaining our sovereignty as a couple in our new home”.
It's sad because it could be a valuable place for women to discuss their issues and find support. Buuuuut yeah it's just straight up unfiltered and encouraged misandry. Like the type of people that will call death threats in to someone trying to set up a men's shelter
Thanks for putting it like this, I was just a little annoyed at the fact that people had to bash me when responding.
I agree it feels really early. I guess the potential move half way across the country has me wondering what to do now because long distance isn't something I'd even consider
This was your Daughter’s dress who passed away very recently. One of these people thought it would be the best thing to steal your Daughters dress and they still haven’t given it back. That is just straight up disgusting.
I wouldn’t have anything to do with any of them.
I’m asking, do you now, wish you had been.
Got it. So you're here just asking random strangers if they want to off themselves, and that's somehow a more appropriate conversation for this thread?
One of my buddies had an ex that lied about everything, including what she ate for breakfast. She also tried to cheat at Pictionary, but wasn’t good enough at it to avoid getting caught.
That is categorically not true on any level. Snoring should not be considered normal. People ignoring the symptoms of a potentially life threatening thing like snoring? That's normal, but the snoring itself is not. Your airway is literally being blocked and you need air to online, it can kill you and if not can seriously affect your health in that you never get top tier sleep due to the blocked airway.
Well, you have some of the worst spelling I’ve ever seen, and you seem like a bit of a self-centered prick. You haven’t said a single positive thing about this woman you’ve been in a relationship with. Maybe you should consider that you’re not exactly a prize either? Do her a favor and break it off.
Inappropriate joke involving night vision goggles and team play
Of course he's still lying. You think he actually quit cheating? You stuck around. Why would he stop after knowing you'd stay? He will never stop lying. He doesn't love you.
I wasn't expecting them, he said that his mom wanted to meet me really bad.
it’s super easy to accidentally save a message. or maybe she saved it to show a friend but she knew you’d be sensitive to it so she didn’t mention it.
how long ago was this? you went back into her messages from 8 months ago to find a saved message?
Well this is dramatic.
Same here. I'll never cheat when I'm in a relationship, so my first instinct was that I'm asexual since it's difficult to think about anyone else.
There is no point getting back together if nothing changed about the reason why you guys broke up. Unless you guys moved closer to each other, since you mentioned the main reason was the 1 hour car ride distance, then there's really no reason to talk about everything again. If it was gonna work in the first place, you guys wouldn't have broken up.
Also, friends with benefits when you both have a dating history is a slippery slope of keeping each other on your lives without the commitment. Especially a two year relationship. One or both parties is going to get hurt.
I think he has gotten used to you always being ready and you saying no was taken by him, as a slap in the face. You did nothing wrong…my ex turned me down 99% of the time so I wish she had your libido. A 22 year old still has some immaturity in him so don't feel bad!
Get off social media if you’re learning toxic behavior from it.
If you feel like something isn't right, you will find what you're looking for. It's just worse because up until that point she seemed like a person who could never do that. You loved who she pretended to be. She deceived you and took advantage of your trust. Talk to someone, if you can. It will help with your anxiety. Don't want that being closed in and stunting your efforts in moving on!
I’ve been with my partner for 5 yrs.
Wait, you were a 22 year old dating a 16 year old???
Thank you! I've had this thought for years after hearing about so many men staying because divorce would be worse but they were so unhappy. I never want my future husband to look at me wishing to leave. You have insurance for the worst lol. Either the state decides or you decide and the state makes stuff take forever and probably not fair.
You get off on this. Get help. A very poor attempt to troll.
thiso
Why would I be mad that my mom is female what kind of reasoning is that ?
Don’t do it you’re young, discover who you are first! You might be together forever, what’s the rush?!
As others have said, things WILL end up badly for you and possibly your child if you stay. It’s not a question of if, but when. It sounds like he has either gotten worse or stayed the same, which based on his age suggests that he will never get better. Sorry this is happening to you and let me assure you he is in no way an “alpha” male. He is by all accounts a POS who is so weak and fragile he cannot control his emotions or actions. File a police report, get a TRO if you can, but just keep in mind that most likely will piss him off more so you need to stay safe.
You NEED to file a police report when you get home because you need to create a record of his abuse so that if/when something worse happens they will know who to look for..
I don’t blame you for hoping that it would end there. But I genuinely don’t see that happening. This is setting the tone for your marriage, and you’ve all too quickly been disregarded.
I understand how devastating it can be to have someone intrude on your relationship, and risk it. I know calling off a wedding is a big deal.
I would talk to your fiancée about how all of this makes you feel, and how much it matters to you. If he’s still unwilling to respect your wishes, I’d move on.
That was a date. They fucked. There’s no way they didn’t.
This is beautiful, and I wish I believed that this was the norm ? good for you though, GreenOnion.
At the time of writing, you have not had many comments but I can't believe that many of them are saying, or implying, you should tone down your stories.
No-one wants to hear blow by blow, intimate, detailed accounts of sexual experiences with previous partners but telling stories about what you were like, what you did and how you felt/feel about it are part of who you are, indeed, who we all are.
As a bloke, I could never imagine being so fragile as to feel offended by my partner telling me stories about the things she used to get up to before we met. It's patently absurd.
OP, you've either got to forget you had a life before you met your BF, ask his permission to recount a story or at least run it past him first or find a more mature and emotionally stable BF.
He sounds exhaustingly immature and he will absolutely suck the fucking life out of you in the long term
I agree. The no condom thing was her idea. I probably should’ve kept wearing them
This isn’t accurate! Sorry I’m am being vague so it’s nude to understand
He also has always talked about going to this place with his friends, (one couple and a sister, so only one other boy) this wasn’t a ‘my dream only’ place.
But he did say we could go together because I didn’t want to go with his friends.
I think what’s the most hurtful to me about it all though is that he chose this over coming to see me.
I can’t stop him from going, I don’t even want to stop him, I just don’t want to go with him on this occasion, and now I don’t really want to go with him at all and he doesn’t understand why.
I was just checking if I am silly, and I think I might be
By continuing to stay with this man-baby, you are disrespecting urself, oh girl u deserve so much better and I hope you realize that sooner than later
Have you found other people attractive since? Going through periods where you lose sparks is normal in a long term relationship, but cheating is never the solution. Choosing to commit is the biggest part and what makes it work. If this is a major problem then you should discuss with him your anxieties with intimacy and attraction and think of solutions to bring that back. Be transparent about him and don’t let this boil up and wait because that will just make things worse. Holding this back will only hurt him even more
Im 40 & have no idea lol
“We have a very healthy, mature relationship-“
“Why did he lie to me and what should I do?”
Aight.
Maybe you just have different senses of humour.
It happens.
Why the vasectomy? You are making it sound like he is the problem with that comment.
Homeboy couldn't set his own alarm? He is a grown man right? Does he not know how to? Are you his girlfriend or his mom?
I wanted to be loved so bad.
This is why most people stay in an abusive relationship, but this is not love. Learn how to love yourself and stop relying on external people for your self worth.
Firstly, read everything that you wrote to us. Save it and our responses. Keep reading it. You need to leave this man and not go back. Not just that. You need to be single, because at the moment, something in your past has made you feel as though this kind of behaviour is normal or excusable and it's not.
Many people in toxic relationships find it difficult to assess situations they are in. I'd be surprised if you don't have a poor self-esteem in general and I can read the self directed criticism in your post. It's easy to imagine that you think you deserved this and you brought it on yourself with your reactions. (And I'll admit, your reactions were not okay). But honestly, I don't trust your self judgement. It's obviously shit because you have been dating this man and justifying it. You can't trust your judgement.
Instead start thinking about your child. You are currently teaching them that this behaviour is normal. That men hit women and call them names. That women accept it or abuse back.
Break the cycle OP. Leave and teach your child better. That you are better. That people should treat each other better. That abuse is NOT normal.
Forget dating, get therapy, and focus on you and your child, and getting yourself to a place where you are happy with yourself, where you DON'T need to be loved so much that you will put up with poor behaviour. Say no. Be single. Leave bad relationships.
Respect yourself and teach THAT to your child.
This is why situationship is pretty much a “false” relationship. Almost every time this happens because one or both parties want the feel of a “relationship” without the label / commitment. So being “exclusive” like that is really dumb imo because its breaks the whole point of a situationship.
Be honest with the “exclusive” guy. Don’t tie yourself down with someone who doesn’t want to pursue the relationship further or want the same things you want. They aren’t even dating you, basically just a back up chick they can come home to when they want to feel “loved”. This next guy could be someone who wants to be more than that.
This is taken from experience from my cousin.
I mean I do think i can, I do want to be with him and eventually have a family. Maybe its just something I need to work on in myself. Because like i mentioned I do know he does love me and that should be enough. I also do know that passion is nice but not needed to have a totally happy relationship.
Thank you. I feel like its nude to see stuff when you're in it!
Ask him if he was talking with her without telling you.
Regardless, if your demand is reasonable he shouldn't promise sth, and then not follow through. If that is the case he shouldn't have agreed to it in the first place.
Feeling uncomfortable about one person, someone who had a thing with your bf no less, isn't a rare thing. Are you fine with your bf having other female friends? You see I would call you somewhat reasonable, if you are upset only about her, not him talking with other women in general.
Don't light the fuse because of it . Not yet.
She may be attracted to him . Fair enough. If you aren't those couples who act all non jealous , then this is a little bump.
If you are genuinely not an insecure or overzealous person, and she acts quite weird in future, you know what to do.
Or just play the game. Casually mention that this new girl on a particular place is very cute and observe her response.
ah, I don't believe “playing the game” is a good option, ever. Manipulation sucks.
But I agree in not blowing it up right away. Maybe she's just overshares, or thinks this is being honest. Or feels confident enough in their relationship to work through feelings like this. Or she is “playing the game”, which would suck.
Yall are too old for this behavior!
What is a “situationship”??
Spending time with your friends without your significant other involved is actually a good thing for your relationship.
If you can't be without your partner and you have to bring them along to hang out with “your” friends that's weird.
This is going to go great! /s
I kind of get it
You want a unique experience and if he's been before it be guided by what he thought was good and what wasn't
If he's decided to go with friends then he can't really complain if you decide to go without him
Bottom line is you do what you want to do
No. Don’t get married just because someone told you so. Divorce happens but a LOT of marriages involving military personnel ends up in divorced, with all the legal headaches. Getting married after bootcamp. I do not have the stats but I was in the military and majority of the people I worked with are divorced or have cheated. Plus, he won’t adjust with your career, you will. So you won’t be together unless you go where his station at, and you’ll end up either sahw or doing jobs not related to the field you like.
Also: Your therapist isn't helping you enough if they haven't recognized this.
damn dude i’m sorry. i have a good relationship w my parents, but was groomed as a young teen, and also had 3 very traumatic friendships and i think those experiences are what gave me such bad anxiety in my relationships and friendships for me. aside from therapy, maybe you and ur man could develop some rituals that can help you grow your trust in him that he will be there for you? my bf pointed out to me somewhat recently that my fear of him leaving is sorta distrusting, and that helped me think of it in a different way.
First, this is totally messed up!
Second, you shouldn't have to go through this crap and it could have been settled if she had told you who the “informant” is.
She is more interested in keeping a secret that she is loving and trusting her partner with the information she has shared.
You don't hide things from people you love, especially if you are engaged.
I would say you two most likely wouldn't make it to the alter with the way she is behaving. Honestly, is she dating or seeing or friends with another male that likes to plant suggestions?
I would leave, find someone who is honest and can't wait to be with you.
The fact that she won't tell you speaks volumes. Marriage takes a lot of work and you are only engaged! This is a HUGE RED FLAG.
Move on and don't waste any more of your life when you could be with someone who is open and honest with you.
You really provided almost no information, so off the bat, I'm going to say that your poor communication skills probably was a factor. You don't give information readily so you sound shady even when you aren't hiding anything.
Secondly, there is something wrong with a marriage if a guy spends an afternoon apart from his wife and she immediately jumps to you running around on her. Either you have a history of it or she does. If you are so prideful that you couldn't come clean about it, then that is another huge problem with your marriage. Your pride and anger have been more important to you than her peace of mind or security. This is the main reason why you ended up divorced. Again, look at point one. You don't communicate much to begin with, you act suspicious, you get prideful and refuse to come clean – WHAT DID YOU EXPECT HER TO THINK?
Any normal story would have ended with you just giving her the ring and all being forgiven. You could have just said, “I got you a surprise and here it is” or “I got you a surprise and you have to wait one week.” or whatever. You're a prideful idiot who got yourself divorced. Your ex wife was sensible enough not to sit around and wait for you to come to your senses.
If she doesn’t trust you why should she want to marry you?
You clearly can not trust her, so why do you want to Marley her?
Either she trusts the word of her secret source over yours or she is playing head games with you, either way it’s a huge red flag
It sounds like you’re recognizing where things might be going wrong and are taking steps to make things better! While it’s likely a mix of insecurities and happy chemicals, do you often feel this overwhelming “high” of emotion? My emotions used to swing from extremely low to extremely high until I got a good psychiatrist that recognized the mania and got me on mood stabilizers. Sometimes, we just need a little chemical help to balance out. This might not apply to you, but just wanted to share in case it helps! I wish someone had told me this many years ago haha.
No need to be sorry, this kinda stuff is confusing at best. It sounds like you're doing a great job so far, just keep up what has been working. I think it's ok to remind him once that you're here for him. After that, let him come to you when he's ready.
You are fine, try to not over think things. It's nude as hell, but you and him will be ok.
Then she married him. Damn
he has not been feeling the same recently about any aspect of his life, he said he doesn’t feel anything towards anything
This sounds like it may be depression — it might help for him to get professional help (therapist, psychiatrist, just talking to a regular doctor, or some combination of those). If so it's not anything you're doing wrong, it's just depression makes it nude to feel anything.
Run. I cannot stress this enough. Run.
Same gf that cheated on you on hinge a year ago..?
I know that love is a choice you have to make and I have made it.
The thing is, that vow required the participation of someone else.
It sounds like the person who posted about him in that group was just curious if anyone else was dating him… hence, “are we dating the same guy”. I mean you do you and maybe there is more to the story from her POV but it doesn’t sound like in this particular instance he’s sus. Has he done anything you make you suspicious? Anything tangible, outside of not being a good texter/busy with his kid and this singular Facebook post? Not to go all psychoanalysis or whatever, but could you be self sabotaging here?
Thanks, the word “demons” were his not mine. And his suggestions such as full transparency etc were his not mine.
I'm wondering if there is an opportunity to go to Elders or Leadership at the Church in order to protect other prospective targets from him.
Lol him and I are fine… but thanks for caring about him being blocked more than him. We’re gonna have a fun convo about this tomorrow lol. It’s just so easy how small and weird ppl on this is… I’ve been on it little over a month and I’m honestly intrigued. I’m so using to bring around ppl who actually had a life… modelling, music videos, clubbing, owning multiple property… actually living etc…
So this world intrigues me… I could honestly careless what anyone has to say… I’m honestly just bored and intrigued. You’re like a new toy 🙂
Y’all ain’t close but You consider her a friend…tell her.
You married him knowing all of this. Hopefully you are neither surprised nor disappointed when he kept doing the things he was doing when you met him.
Who are you to tell him what he can do with his life?
Either learn to online with this, or divorce him. But you are never gonna change him, so.
Men are people. You talk to them. You start with things you have in common, like if you have a class together or something. Ask him about himself, and listen to what he says. Tell him about yourself. Try to find things you have in common, things about him that interest you.
And there's no “getting a guy to like you”. He does or it doesn't. You say this guy doesn't like you. Do you mean he, like actively doesn't like you? Or just hasn't met you or spent any time with you? Because if he really doesn't like you for some reason, you are NOT going to be able to change his mind.
OK. You need to find your center. You need to breathe into your belly and get away from this drama. It's ridiculous and has nothing to do with who you are. Is there a place you can go or a person you can go to who loves you absolutely unconditionally? Is there somewhere or something comfortable you can find? You need to get away for a day or two. Because cutting sucks and you know not to hurt yourself. This woman is a troublemaker and his friends sound like jerks and I have no idea if he's cheating on you. That's the gods honest truth. He might be. But it doesn't matter. Your relationship with yourself has to be strong for any of it to matter. Work on that for now. Everything else will become clear. Take good care.
you deserve a better therapist. At no point in this story does it sound like either the father or step thing respected any boundaries. To me it doesn't look like they want to restore relationships since at no point has either of them done anything positive.
There's no reason to let those 2 things into your life.
Without knowing all the details. I’d say you need to take her to a doctor. A family member of mine did something similar and turned out she is suffering from schizophrenia and paranoid delusions. It’s only gotten worse with time but started out like this.
She said she doesn’t know if we’re compatible and that she wants some time to figure that out. I’ve just been upset ab it all day. If she decides to end it, I’ll understand but I guess I’m panicked and idk where to go with my emotions. I’m in love with her and I’m worried about what is to come ya know