Everyone who says this is generally insecure and secretly really doesn't trust you.
I think that at your age, solo traveling is fine. You even went above and beyond choosing an all-women hostel. The fact that he doesn't trust you is so mindboggling. Are you coming across that incompetent and unable to take care of yourself in his eyes or is he just insecure and afraid you're going to cheat on him?
Go travel alone. Let him complain and moan. Of course, update him with your itineraries and activity. Face time him as often as you'd like without impeding your travel. Of course, always be careful when traveling solo.
crazy how you’re wrong ? he knew all of the things i mentioned before getting into a relationship with me. i attend therapy, he does not. i am medicated, he is not. i work to better myself, he does not. gtfo before victim blaming.
A change of attitude mostly. I fear she may now think I'm frugal if I ask her to help me pay the movies if it's a small chunk for her but even smaller to me and that she may resent me or I'll end up feeling guilty and ending up spending more than I'd be comfortable with.
Not to mention I would have liked it to be kept private that's all. Seems the universe had other plans, as usual.
I am glad he is your ex because he is a manipulative arsehole. He was playing word and mind games with you and your are so much better off without him.
Please don't give him that space in your head – he doesn't deserve it. He is just an entitled arse and his points don't make the slightest bit of sense anyway.
Get tested and get out. Don't blow another five years. He's not worth it.
How is she being a pain in the ass besides existing?
INFO: is this your first time traveling solo?
He says he trusts me but not other men.
Everyone who says this is generally insecure and secretly really doesn't trust you.
I think that at your age, solo traveling is fine. You even went above and beyond choosing an all-women hostel. The fact that he doesn't trust you is so mindboggling. Are you coming across that incompetent and unable to take care of yourself in his eyes or is he just insecure and afraid you're going to cheat on him?
Go travel alone. Let him complain and moan. Of course, update him with your itineraries and activity. Face time him as often as you'd like without impeding your travel. Of course, always be careful when traveling solo.
3 seems like the most likely reaction. You could have a friend ask her for you if you can’t be direct. But I’d assume it’s 3 from what you’ve said
crazy how you’re wrong ? he knew all of the things i mentioned before getting into a relationship with me. i attend therapy, he does not. i am medicated, he is not. i work to better myself, he does not. gtfo before victim blaming.
A change of attitude mostly. I fear she may now think I'm frugal if I ask her to help me pay the movies if it's a small chunk for her but even smaller to me and that she may resent me or I'll end up feeling guilty and ending up spending more than I'd be comfortable with.
Not to mention I would have liked it to be kept private that's all. Seems the universe had other plans, as usual.
Thank you.
Yep and they do work
Also important are kegels and breathing.
The “last longer” condoms are hit and miss, but worth a try. Anyway just need him to try something different OP
I am glad he is your ex because he is a manipulative arsehole. He was playing word and mind games with you and your are so much better off without him.
Please don't give him that space in your head – he doesn't deserve it. He is just an entitled arse and his points don't make the slightest bit of sense anyway.
You are way better than he deserves.