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I didn't need to read more than 2 paragraphs to know he was a creep and then it got even worse
No she's not, OP has said he “assumes” he's not allowed, he hasn't even asked.
So he shares his feelings that he cant have female friends because it would hurt your feelings and then you come on here freaking out because he feels like he cant even have a conversation with a girl. You come off as really toxic.
Check the expiration date or type in serial number to see when manufactured then you have your answer.
They could be old but if they was manufactured within the 2 years then yeah he fucked about and you should just confront him
tbf, i think she's displayed her own share of unhelpful communication “errors”. I dont want you to fall into the “im a terrible person and to blame for everything” trap bc a) i dont think thats true. You're only responsible for you and while its necessary to acknowledge and take accountability for past behaviors, its equally, if not more important, to focus on what you can do more positively moving forwards.
and b) you're young and struggling, and depression already makes you feel shitty enough. Yes, take accountability and apologize, but please try not to wallow in your despair. It helps neither of you (ik, easier said than done, i do understand that).
Maybe, just maybe, if you're both willing and able to work on it, you two can work it out. Being so far apart and her living with her parents made things so much harder than they probably would have been otherwise. With those things less of an issue soon, it'd be easier (but still not easy) to sort things out. It'd involve open communication, trust-building, and a sincere desire from both of you. Agreeing upon healthy boundaries would be imperative i.e. figuring out what her supporting you during your mental health issues vs her/you making her responsible for them would look like. Ideally you'd be in therapy and you could use that to help guide you.
There is however the chance that the relationship has been damaged (by both of you) beyond realistic repair. You're both young. Its okay that mistakes were made. Its okay if neither of you has the tools to make it work. It'd hurt, but it'd be understandable. Its also okay if you simply want to be single so you can focus on your mental health. You've got to do what you've got to do in order to get well.
Bad Joke Incoming
I get that he is out of practice – hasn’t been in a construction site in a while or done carpentry in some time but it’s bad and not worth $200
You could tell your bf to start a religion. Jesus had better success as a religious martyr than he did as a carpenter.
Okay real advice time. I'm sorry for the joke.
When talking to your boyfriend I would avoid using words or phrases that could be interpreted as you not believing in him or that you think he isn't talented enough to sustain himself with his carpentry because men that age tend to be more reactive than older men, I would express that you're concerned about his future and the possible future he has with you (idk how long y'all have been together) and that you can't provide for both of you and pay to fund his business. Tell him good stories you have about businesses you've worked for and emphasize that not all businesses are toxic.
Thanks for the thoughtful response ?
Hey OP? Your BF is having a full blown emotional affair with what sounds like almost a clone of you, without the 'bagage'. Are you OK with being the side chick in your own relationship?
I mean, BF obviously is. He gets to hang out with your clone at work, have the deep meaningful talks with her and then gets to go home and verbally abuse you by critizing every little thing he perceives is wrong with you.
Why are you prioritizing him over you?
The fact he lists them as rules is unreasonable. The “rules” themselves are not. Don't show your nipples and underwear, come on. He should find a woman who can dress appropriately rather than make it a “rule” for you, but if you want a “traditional” man, you can't be showing your nips. That's just common sense.
Is being gay common where you live!?