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I'm mad skeptical that you actually did. But if you did, come clean. Whether reconciling is possible isn't for you to decide.
He just isn't all that into you. Move on and don't look back.
Sorry man!
A time for everything, you are in shock now, allow it to happen, but remain somewhat normal in appearance… Separate the emotional with what you need to do… Collect whatever proof you can… Get with a professional in law and a therapist that can help you navigate all this and ready yourself psychologically.
Hope you find joy again… Hopefully with someone better.
Definitely let him know how him slapping your hand away made you feel.
I think the specific context of the slap might be important here. Did he slap your hand away to prevent you from tickling him? If this is the case, I think you probably don’t need to worry, and you probably shouldn’t tickle him because being tickled sucks tbh.
It honestly just happened by chance – I’ve had some experience, but I just haven’t gone all the way. But now thinking about it, I do feel like I will become attached to whoever I do have sex with
You should break up with this woman instead of marrying her. You guys are on 2 totally different pages about most everything. And, your sex life os already sub non-exists t which means it'll be fully down the gutter after marriage.
Do yourself a favor. Break it off, move on, and thank me later.
Getting drunk every single weekend is 100% alcoholic. My father was one. Please Google “functioning alcoholic” and how to deal with them. Read it. Imagine that is your life for years and years. That’s will help you to make a desigion.
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That’s not necessarily true. They’re older and they’ve lived together while OP and his gf haven’t. It’s a different life stage.
I know I badgered my now husband about getting engaged but as soon as the timeline was “after I graduate” I dropped it because then I knew! Hopefully it’s just about getting on the same page.
Red flag. Shouldn't he have more empathy since he used to be in their shoes? But I can imagine this is coming from a complex place, potentially his own experiences with these people which could be negative, the way people treated him at this time which has caused him to have such adverse reaction.
Not saying it can't possibly be overcome but something to watch out for massively OP because this represents an empathy problem. If he's not going to therapy I mean, worth considering. Therapy is quite an upper class thing to do right. Good luck OP.
INFO: Has your husband know this friend for a while and they just tried dating and it didn't work out, or did he only meet her a few years ago and date for like a month and that was the extent of their relationship? Also, you say they talk occasionally. How occasionally?
Thank you for the advice
Yea it is just one branch. I will rewrite a longer thread that goes more in detail. I was emotional and posted one instance of a greater recurring problem and have been roasted since alone it doesn't seem like a big deal and I can get that. Thanks for giving me the benefit of the doubt
I haven’t talk to the girls since, we only had one conversation. I do agree with your comment I just feel like it’s morally wrong to let someone fall like he’s falling. It’s probably due to my past experiences as I have family who had great potential and ended up in the worst situations possible. Although I don’t appreciate the subtle hostility I really appreciate the advice.
Move back closer and into Marriage Counseling. Try to do a marriage retreat that focuses on you and her. Set one up before you do the MC. Take it slowly. We did this and our issues were much worse than yours. Google walk away wife syndrome. We also did Retrovaille. Google it as well. Good luck.
I’ve always told him I do not want to carry
I have a fear of pregnancy and would consider my partner trying to secretly force me to be pregnant as an act of violence. This was worse than selfish, it was fucking sadistic.
She's created a dream life in her mind, she's her own worst enemy here.
Too bad any comments that don’t affirm her entitlement aren’t from “real adults”
This woman is batshit,
OP- YES he regrets everything and wishes he could go back and never cheat on his first love. YES that means he would have never met you and would still be in a loving marriage in a million dollar apartment with the person he once loved and his family also loved.
He fucked up royally and is/has dealt with his guilty conscience ever since. He had no choice but to move on and try to find happiness again with someone else (you) but you’re making that exceedingly difficult.
My guess is if you keep this up, he will dump you and move on once again. It doesn’t sound like he’s the one you want, rather his money.
So? He still isn't putting in any thought or time. He doesn't want to see your face. Wtf is that? He literally said he doesn't want to see you.
I don't know if I agree with your take. Sure, he has trauma surrounding DNA that should be resolved, but it could just be avoided with the test. No need for him to actually go and dig deep to solve it.
I know you're probably thinking I'm crazy for suggesting he leaves that trauma lingering but that's not an easy fix. It will also take years for him to overcome it.
He gets the same comfort with the quick test in a fraction of the time.
“I just couldn’t handle the fact that my partner can get aroused by other people than myself.”
I’m sorry for your hurt feelings, but you just recognize these are irrational thoughts. Your partner should sympathize and if he wants to be the best partner he can, do what it takes to make you confident in your relationship together. But, underlying that, these irrational thoughts will remain and you should really seek your own therapy for them. They don’t comport with the natural world.
She treats you however she wants with zero consequences. You stay, you make things easier for her, she never has to do anything to improve or get better. She can keep on screeching at you and get her way.
All you can really do if she doesn't want to improve is leave. Maybe it will give her a reality check, maybe it will just give you a better life? Either way, seems like staying and enduring the hellish groundhog day you're currently in doesn't feel like a great answer.
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I agree I see it a lot more since I quit smoking weed too
It sounds like you’re just sexually incompatible
Would you consider that revenge porn? You might be able to press charges. She's sending e Xrated videos of him without his permission. Contact an attorney.
I think we’re just tied to the idea of quitting together at the same time. There’s definitely an odd dynamic where she wants me to be strict on her and help her quit, and I think that’s stressing me out because every time I try she doesn’t want to stop.
Just gonna take a step back and stop myself and tell her her quitting is her responsibility at this point.
The only time this has happened to me was when there was something wrong or missing in my relationship. It’s normal to find other people attractive but if you’re thinking about them all the time and having to make a conscious effort to stay away from them you should take an honest look at your relationship. But yeah, in the meantime stay away from them as much as you can so you don’t give yourself the opportunity to do anything you’ll regret later.
I mean it's not totally a crazy thing for her to be afraid of I know a few people who have had blood clots due to birth control
Solution start the formal divorce and request the sale of the house or he can buy you out (you’ve said you can’t afford to pay him out) and start to rebuild. You might have to rent but it’s better than staying with him.
To the few comments pointing out he's only a step-brother– you know it's a good thing that the best friend considers him as her brother instead of just a step-brother she wants nothing to do with.
If he can’t get over it then it’s fine to let him go. You shouldn’t be expected to either hold yourself back from home ownership or feel badly for making more money than he does just because you’re a woman.
This is entirely a “him” problem. Don’t let him make it yours.
I think you know what to do.
On the very off chance he tries to hurt himself and you find out, call an ambulance. Wash your hands of this guy.
Pizza. Right. In her coworkers room, right. At 1.30 am. Right.
Seems legit.
It's clear from the OP's phrasing that she's not American, and even if she were, France wouldn't be too ambitious for a first trip. (Especially for a 21-year-old!) There is also nothing wrong with planning a trip on your own, and she shouldn't have to tiptoe around on her trip to avoid any situations that could make him wrongfully publicly accuse her of cheating — at least, she shouldn't if she's in a healthy relationship. If a reaction like that from him is a risk — and it might be — she should be getting out ASAP, not catering to his assholery.
OP, leave this BF behind for good, and have a great time on this trip and all your future trips, solo or not!