I have though, I saw a psychiatrist and got medicated. I’ve been seeing a therapist. but when a man who’s hurt me so many times, who’s supposedly in a happy relationship, shows up to my job drunk after not speaking for awhile? It’s hard to fit all the facts on here but I understand what you’re saying.
This is a big red flag. Just the fact that she sleeps with her parents is an issue at that age. Even if there isn’t anything sexual going on in her mind, this is highly inappropriate, and it shows that she has serious issues with boundaries and healthy relationships.
She may be so sheltered and programmed that she doesn’t realize how abnormal this is, nor why most people will be uncomfortable about it at a minimum.
Unless you want to marry into a family that does not share your values and beliefs, there’s really nothing to do but part ways and wish her well. Otherwise you’ll just get increasingly invested. But really… do you want to marry her and have that stepdad around your future kids?
Thanks!
I am sorry, you deserve better. Divorce him
I could be wrong. But I don’t think you should continue “wasting time” on him.
That’s some shit narcissists say
I’ve been in therapy off and on for 18 years and I’m not “fixed”. But it does absolutely help.
Ooooooh okay. That’s a diffident story then.
So she’s carrying baggage from the last relationship into yours is what your saying?
I have though, I saw a psychiatrist and got medicated. I’ve been seeing a therapist. but when a man who’s hurt me so many times, who’s supposedly in a happy relationship, shows up to my job drunk after not speaking for awhile? It’s hard to fit all the facts on here but I understand what you’re saying.
This is a big red flag. Just the fact that she sleeps with her parents is an issue at that age. Even if there isn’t anything sexual going on in her mind, this is highly inappropriate, and it shows that she has serious issues with boundaries and healthy relationships.
She may be so sheltered and programmed that she doesn’t realize how abnormal this is, nor why most people will be uncomfortable about it at a minimum.
Unless you want to marry into a family that does not share your values and beliefs, there’s really nothing to do but part ways and wish her well. Otherwise you’ll just get increasingly invested. But really… do you want to marry her and have that stepdad around your future kids?
And you're still with him because? It won't improve you know. That draining feeling is your clue. Find someone who doesn't drain you.
Maybe, but that still doesn’t make the wife right for harassing her. She needs to be dealing with her husband.