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  1. I see four possibilities:

    He has a dislike of non-sexual physical intimacy. That's actually quite common. Many people tolerate kissing and such until they establish their marriage, to keep the spouse happy, but leave it behind as soon as they can. Even hugging or holding hands can almost claustrophobic to them. He was always an “aromantic”, and got burned out on faking romantic feelings to keep you happy (so he is a close friend, but not the same thing as you). He loves having sex, but kissing and similar is off his radar. That condition has no treatment or cure. Some people are sexually attracted to one gender, while they are romantically attracted to another. The classic example I always give is singer Freddie Mercury. He was romantically in love with Mary Austin, but his sexual attraction was only to men. He and Mary remained dear friends to the day he died, but they weren't able to stay as a physical couple due to Freddie's sexuality (“mixed signals”), and he probably never loved any man romantically to the level that he loved her. There is a condition that a specialized therapist could look for: “demiromantic”. A similar well-known condition is called “demisexual”. It's where a person can only feel sexual attraction towards a person of high confidence, and has the horrible caveat that once the connection breaks (e.g., due to an argument), the attraction never comes back. It's a true dead end. In your case, it may be a similar situation, but with romance. If he lost that connection, and if it really turns out that he is “demiromantic”, it isn't coming back.

    To find out, your husband would need to be willing to have an analysis with a psychotherapist or similar, specifically one who specializes in the variations of asexuality and aromanticism. He would need to be open and unashamed to share what he really feels.

    Best of luck! Regardless of what ends up being the scenario, never feel ashamed to prioritize your needs! In my own case, my wife turned out to be asexual, so I'm turned down 100% of the times that I want to initiate, and I have to instead wait for the rare time (it can be weeks) when she has a hint of libido.

  2. Just tell her hey, sorry but I'm not in a good position to follow through with being a bride's maid at your wedding. As you know I've been through a lot and even booking that hotel for us was financially hot for me. I wish you all the best.

  3. This is an extremely common feeling to have in your 20s. The grass is always greener, and you’re at an age where there’s a lot of potential to do crazy things that mostly align with a single lifestyle. You don’t want to feel held back! That’s understandable.

    That being said, you’re thinking about your life primarily through the lens of your current romantic relationship. Try thinking about what else you strive to experience during these years beyond your relationships. What do you enjoy doing? Do you have a dream? If you were suddenly aged 30 years and no longer had the ability to sleep around and do crazy shit, what would you do?

    This is all a part of finding out who you want to be, not just from a series of fleeting decisions made on a whim, but from the perspective of figuring out where you want to go in the future. Whether or not your current gf is a part of that can only be decided by you.

  4. This is our set up too – our own accounts and one that we share. And we have no problem communicating about our accounts. Making OP go for completely joint is a bit on the scary side.

  5. She wants to cheat (if she hasn't already), already has someone in mind. She wants to try dating the other person and see if that works out, if it doesn't she'll come back to you.

    Just tell her it's a permanent break and move on.

  6. Full on no contact

    Join a gym

    Look at self improvement

    Immerse yourself in hobbies

    Pick up the pieces and move on

    There’s no other path. This is the way.

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