Well there's actually no dumping involved because you two weren't in a relationship.
And if she chooses to end things with you, because you didn't respond fast enough, then that's okay too. Because they are going to be times when things take up your priority and your mind and you're not necessarily paying attention to the phone.
You don't need somebody to be jumping all up in arms about not replying back to her in a time frame that she deems is reasonable.
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The weekly my partner wants to open up the relationship post. He likely already has someone in mind. Do yourself a favor and get rid of this loser. Do it for your self respect and sexual health. He does not deserve a girlfriend. If you even attempt this just to appease an asshole who whined about your body, you will be back here in a month or so telling us “UPDATE I should have listened to you guys”
You have never actually directly tried to ask her out. I would do this. If she says yes, try to give her a kiss at the end. This is a test of her romantic interest.
You are trying to use intermediaries. This rarely works, as the intermediaries have their own agendas.
So give it a real test by asking her out, and if she declines or doesn’t offer an alternative you can move on or stay peacefully in the friendzone.
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That's right honey. YOU ARE A REAL MAN. I can't stand men who make a point to lower their women's self esteem. It's narcissistic behavior and he is a trash can!!! Love this reply:) your girl got herself a keeper.
I got that same feeling that he loves the attention and the chase of getting to know someone, I'm not sure what his intentions are with that though, because one of these women might develop feelings for him if they haven't already
Sounds like he just wants in your pants
Well there's actually no dumping involved because you two weren't in a relationship.
And if she chooses to end things with you, because you didn't respond fast enough, then that's okay too. Because they are going to be times when things take up your priority and your mind and you're not necessarily paying attention to the phone.
You don't need somebody to be jumping all up in arms about not replying back to her in a time frame that she deems is reasonable.
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It’s one those conservative dog whistles no one’s heard about in real life ie: lies.
The weekly my partner wants to open up the relationship post. He likely already has someone in mind. Do yourself a favor and get rid of this loser. Do it for your self respect and sexual health. He does not deserve a girlfriend. If you even attempt this just to appease an asshole who whined about your body, you will be back here in a month or so telling us “UPDATE I should have listened to you guys”
Sounds like:
You have never actually directly tried to ask her out. I would do this. If she says yes, try to give her a kiss at the end. This is a test of her romantic interest.
You are trying to use intermediaries. This rarely works, as the intermediaries have their own agendas.
So give it a real test by asking her out, and if she declines or doesn’t offer an alternative you can move on or stay peacefully in the friendzone.
Most communities have low-cost or free therapy available. I work for a regular clinic, but if a client realizes they can't afford services, I will discuss other local services for free or low-cost.
Best response yet. Thank you
That's right honey. YOU ARE A REAL MAN. I can't stand men who make a point to lower their women's self esteem. It's narcissistic behavior and he is a trash can!!! Love this reply:) your girl got herself a keeper.
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Your actions were wildly inappropriate. You need to accept that you're in the wrong and apologise.
I got that same feeling that he loves the attention and the chase of getting to know someone, I'm not sure what his intentions are with that though, because one of these women might develop feelings for him if they haven't already