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I’m genuinely not worried about what he’s saying, he’s passed me the phone as he’s texting and said read it if your worried. But I don’t want to read it.
I just don’t want our time together in an evening or such to be spent him texting kids at work knowing he’s thinking of her enough to text.
I think she is receptive because he doesn’t text unless it’s a full back and forth.
I just don’t like it it doesn’t feel right
While I would never consider myself a Trump supporter, I don’t really support any candidate and just believe they are out for themselves, I did vote for him because I believe he was the lesser of two evils. My wife didn’t vote for him, which is fine. Politics are not a big thing in our household. I don’t think we should let politics rule our lives.
What I’m trying to say is that two people who have different politics can be together as long as those politics are very important to them.
Trust your gut
So basically just chill wit it?
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Perhaps you can attend a session with him and make your thoughts and concerns known to his therapist. It's possible he hasn't disclosed everything. And it doesn't sound like he's even trying to structure his days to stay somewhat productive.
Yes, now I think last time i wannt sex then i will block her
We have been over this man up and ask if he want ls to fuck you. This is so hopeless the 50th time posting this shit in a week. I mean for real if you haven't gotten advice by now you aren't just ask already it's pathetic.
some people are just filthy, you can't really change them, they are clearly ok with the state of cleanliness and either you find a way to accept it, you never go over, or you find someone more closely aligned to your values. i would be worried too, like if its as bad as hoarders that is a huge warning flag. some of these folks blend in and try to pretend they're following societal norms but eventually things slowly start to slip away. based on the things you mention it sounds like you're young in your early mid 20s at most. just wait a decade and you'll see how much much worse it will get. she needs something very serious to snap her out of it, ironically if you break up that may do it and her next partner will benefit from the pain you endured.
He could have caused you permanent brain damage and you don't think he deserves to be a convicted felon?
We were together for 4 months and we didn’t talk for a month because I was trying to give her space and just leave it alone. But thank you for the response I really appreciate it!
Absolutely, at the very least.
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I can't answer if it was cheating or not, but I want to ask a question. Was your boyfriend able to consent to sexual activity? The way you describe it, he was extremely drunk.
It added a very apt description of you and your mentality, I'm sorry you are unable to put 2 and 2 together. You seem to be missing a lot.
What if it “stops” working for her and she just gets bored with you? Its much more complicated than just “time management”. I would seriously doubt her intentions so don't think you are just being overly cautious about this.
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I'm glad to hear that you're learning from this experience and working to control your emotions. It's important to remember that respect for boundaries is crucial in any relationship. It's ultimately up to your partner to decide if and when they want to meet with you, and it's important to respect their decision.
I'm here to help and offer advice, so feel free to reach out anytime you need some guidance. Remember to always communicate openly and honestly with your partner and try to work together towards a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
The sport isn't relevant. Although, I appreciate the insight. The issue is this woman is using the men's locker room when there is a woman's available, being used by the other female teammates, and there are hard guys (as stated by the OP). The woman in question is not considering the comfort of the other men who may be uncomfortable with her presence and may not feel comfortable saying anything. This is (in my opinion) naivety, or at worst, actively looking to push boundaries. It is also, highly unsafe in many ways. She has no idea what kind of mindset some of these guys have in regards to women. This could very easily turn out badly for her.
Yup. It’s ARFID.
So did you do more than cuddling ?
So did you do more than cuddling ?
Wait for it..
I tried searching for it some time ago. He told me he took them down (idk if that means he still has access to read the comments – is that possible on Reddit?). He said a month ago he has what he said written in his notes app. Might ask for it at some point but cba rn.
So you think your husband is fucking Julia while your mom is there and during short window before your kids wake up?
Appreciate the reply and you hit quite a lot of marks which is a bit scary how accurate it is.
I had the feeling I should probably think this through and sort out my mental state first before I make any drastic changes, reading your comment it tells me I should probably do that asap.
A lot of people do this now to prevent financial abuse. I don't but I know a lot of people who do and it works for them.
Exactly there we go comprehension skills finally kicked into overdrive? Yes, yes exactly. Is it that hard to believe I want to respect the person I want to share a marriage with while me myself also being frivolous with those who I don’t deem worthy of respect?
One of us is wrong and i dont believe its me.
She gives me the creeps to, like she's sone kind of childish pervert.
So, let’s see:
BF has told you that his ex is the best girl he’s ever had while in a relationship with you BF reconnected with his ex and now spends a lot of time with her, even though it makes you uncomfortable BF told you “not to worry about her” (those words make me shiver) BF has threatened you (“dire consequences”, who tf does he think he is??) BF tries to hide your existence by not posting you on social media (I’d understand if he in general doesn’t use social media but he clearly does ?) BF posts his ex in an intimate pose while not being physically affectionate with you (he clearly can, just not with YOU)
Girl…if you don’t break up with this child, you’re really gonna kick yourself in the future when you look back on it. Maybe it’s because I can be petty but I’d break up with him before he’d EVER have the chance to not only break up with me but humiliate me by leaving me for his homewrecker ex.
You’re 19 aka plenty of years to find someone else who appreciates you wayyy more and isn’t shy to display affections with you
You sound extremely needy and immature, and at 19 I really can't fault you for that. Cuddling on his lap while he's working? No. Needing him to stay with you and asking him to not go back to work? No. You seem to be looking for a protector/provider, not a partner. You're setting yourself up to be taken care of instead of taking care of yourself, and if you find yourself in a relationship with someone else down the road you're going to be very disappointed when you realize not every guy is going to drop everything and rescue you because you made a bad choice or want you sitting on their lap while they're working, or even just in general. This just isn't how someone in an adult, healthy relationship acts. Your bf's overprotection sounds “cute' to you now, makes you feel good, but when you're a bit older and want to do things with friends and he says “no” you won't be thinking it's so cute or feeling so good about it.
My wife tells me this everyday for the past 3 years. I just stay lol
also to clarify it wasn't about a specific encounter, it was posed more as a hypothetical question for her upcoming trip to Miami. Sorry if I worded it wrong
Why are you still dating this guy? What attracted you to him in the first place? Do you think the example you are setting for your children is a good one?
Don't date deadbeat dads who don't contribute! You already have kids, you are wasting resources that can take care of them in him!
Since you refuse to break up, my advice is to prepare for times 7-5,432. There came a point where that little voice in his head said 'yeehaw! I can do whatever I want because she's not going anywhere'.
Take control of your life and the life of your daughter. Stop waiting for him to leave. Otherwise, why complain about shit you refuse to do anything about?
Tell her ASAP you can’t afford it and you understand if she needs to select another bridesmaid.
When I bring up the subject of not having sex he says thinks like , it’s not about not wanting it , it’s more about being exhausted at the end of the day . Then it’s kind of like bringing me flowers the day after I say “ you don’t buy me flowers “
It's totally inappropriate in a monogamous relationship for one partner to be investing so much time in a dating age member of the opposite sex.
Relationships have boundaries and they apply to both parties.
Tbh I also saw such an outcome but I couldn’t stop my feelings.
We are a small company, less than 40. 20 where I work, there is no HR department.
I have a supervisor who is quite nice, and she had ask me in the past if I dislike the jokes she will tell him to stop.
At the time I did not dislike them. They were stupid jokes but they seem friendly, they never refer a third person so I was okay with them.
But he knows my gf since a day I bring her to an office activity. I know hers too…
I'm so sorry to hear this!
What you describe has many classic traits of a “n@rcissistic marriage”, and your husband is trying to prevent you from escaping the effects:
You Don't Feel Connected. Your husband talks with you when it is convenient. He never actually asked what your plans are for the future, or how you can work together to build the life you want. Instead of joining you in your self-improvement, he makes it sound like it's a bad thing. You Feel Manipulated. Your husband makes subtle threats throughout the relationship. He tries to control you in a way that is destructive to you, instead of lifting you up. You Don't Feel Good Enough. Your husband tries to cause you to have feelings of inadequacy that don't match what you've accomplished in your life. He puts you down and makes negative comments about the things that you do, and makes false accusations. You Feel Responsible for Everything. He thinks that everything is always someone else's fault, including the things that he does wrong. If somebody doesn't compliment him, he refuses to believe it's because he's lazy and a mess. You won't get an apology from him for his behavior. You Feel Criticized Constantly. Your husband is excessively critical of your appearance, instead of celebrating your health improvements. He makes fun of you and puts you down. You Feel Unloved. When you first got together, you felt like the most amazing person in the world. However, as time went on and problems arose, your partner began to devalue and ignore you. As you improve, he hates you instead of loving you more. He hates himself, and is upset he can't get you to still follow him downward. You Can't Rely on Your Partner. When your husband agrees to something, you never know if he will follow through, even with basic things like taking the lunch you prepared for him to work. You don't feel as though you have a partner you can rely on, and you find yourself having to do everything yourself. You justifiably don't do as much for him anymore, since he ignores what you do for him anyway. You've Asked, He Won't Change. N@rcissists aren't willing to change because this would mean admitting something is wrong within themselves—and he will never admit such things. He instead wants you to be unhealthy and sad like him.
You are amazing, and I feel bad for your situation. I wish you the best of luck! An individual counselor can help you proceed. A couples counselor wouldn't be useful, since your husband would never cooperate.
I will girl I’m so excited to be myself!! It’s only been a few days since I left his ass and I feel so empowered I haven’t felt this happy since high school. Much love !
Good. Stay with that feeling– because you're right on the nose. You'll know when it feels right, when the person feels right– and they won't make you feel like this, I'll tell you that.
wait till he nuts in her, then you are gonna be real jealous..anyways, go for two dudes first instead of the boring two girls and a guy scenario, that way you never have to worry about the other girl being better looking than you..
here is some good advice, if you dont want to do something, dont do it..its that easy to avoid.
Fucking ask her
You trust him or you don’t.
Maybe he gave a lift to a colleague, maybe he’s cheating. Who knows.
She will cheat again. Move on.
This guy is crazy, yeah keep a wide birth that's really abnormal and worrying behaviour. Some kind of control issues
You really think women would take the risk of a pregnancy including pain and postpartum depression just to tie a guy to her? Most women – like 99% don‘t do that. Like chill, you‘re literally just a guy.
Please call this question into The Savage Lovecast. I guarantee he’ll have the perfect response.