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In my experience, it's one of those in-between expressions of affection (just like “I really appreciate you”, etc.), especially if you're a couple months into dating. In my past and current relationships, this sort of thing is tossed around right before the big “I love you”
You guys are at the point in your relationship where you're really getting to understand each other, and your feelings have begun to solidify. Both of you probably have “I love you” dancing at the tip of your tongue every time you're together haha
However, since you're still relatively new to your relationship, it's scary AF to take the next step, especially if you're the first person to say “I love you”. Naturally, the middle ground between “I love you” and something less personal is to say something like “you mean the world to me”
In all honesty, if you feel like you truly do love him, go ahead and tell him first!! It sounds like you're both to that point but are just too nervous to take that next step
If you both have arguments about it and you believe she neglects you as a partner while cheating on you then its not something that the community can help you with in my opinion.
Is she also neglecting your children in your opinion? Since you said “cooking stopped”
I would recommend you getting into couple's therapy if you didnt already because to me it sounds like when you cheated she felt you had already given up the relationship you both had, which may be why now she prefers to spend time with her friend
But it is also possible that her actions are for another reason and not because she is cheating, and that you are just seeing it that way because you don't trust the relationship in general and seeing proof where nobody else would see it
She is cheating or trying to cheat. You are only seeing the tip of the iceberg. She is sorry she got caught. She doesnât sound like she is sorry for cheating. Go to surviving infidelity.com it helped me with a cheating wife. Treat her as a fwb if you continue to see her
People are treating her exactly like theyâd treat a dude who came on here with this question. Personally, I think sheâs perfectly fine to have that opinion (I would too), but we are in the age of âbody positivityâ.
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Idk I guess it depends. I found the other day my gf has to get hard in front of male co-workers, I only became aware of this recently.
For anyone curious she started working in new area for a pharma company and it requires going into a clean room.
I didn't think anything of it, but I am from the same field as her so I know certain areas require us changing in front of others, but I don't think we'd need to talk about it, she actually mentioned casually while talking about her job. Doctors, Chefs, most coed sports all involve changing in front of opposite gender. Also gay people exist, they get changed in front the same gender all the time without making it sexual.
He respects his friends more than you, which is why heâs impressing them with jokes about you rather than respecting you. Heâd rather make them laugh than care about your feelings. Your husband is an asshole
You gave him a boundary and he crossed it after reassuring you he wouldn't. So no, it isn't normal. Why do you need to talk? You told him once and he didn't listen despite agreeing to respect your boundary. Just leave. Make sure he's deleted all traces of your pics before you do though.
If you've told him what it seems you're saying here – that it's too much pressure, stress, and he's not attractive to you anymore – and the lack of respect and boundaries, and he still is doing it, then non-negotiable couples therapy is necessary. I would also put sex off the table until he can learn to respect you and what you want.
If that was really the issue, he would bring it up if heâs comfortable with you. Thing is, youâre overthinking and jumping to a conclusion based off of one conversation. You havenât talked to him in years, dude. People change. Apparently, you havenât.
You NEED to get therapy. After abuse, itâs important to get therapy to learn ways to build yourself up. You likely donât realize how much your self esteem was also damaged. And the double betrayal makes it even more important to get therapy. Just focus on fixing YOU for now. Adding in friends and new partners should only come after you are healed and in a better place. Take your time, theyâve done a lot of hurt to you. See if your school offers therapy as part of your tuition, or contact your local DV center. When I was abused, free therapy was available for myself and my son for 1 year, in a 1:1 setting and they had groups as well.
Honestly if a guy tells you heâs not interested, believe him. But I know what itâs like to be 18 and to agonise over something like this, honestly you have two options;
Tell him you have a crush on him. He either is on board (yay!) or says he doesnât feel the same, and you are back in the same position you are now.
Believe him, let it go.
Trying to analyse his behaviours and intentions is not going to get you anywhere, itâs all easier said than done but you canât and wonât know by guessing.
A person is a person no matter the gender, so they are just asking to cheat on a trial basis and if they like it more than being with you, leave you in the dust. Give her the same answer you would give if she wanted to try another dude and kick her to the curb.
It sucks but you're not compatible. Especially in your late 20s you really can't date someone who doesn't want kids when you do. It's no one's fault. Neither of you have to “consider” the other position. It's likely not going to change for either of you. It's unfortunate but it is what it is!
You can't let the fear of being single control how you date. You found this guy and you will find another!
I'd take the kids and go back. Do what you need to do from there.
As far as he goes, its couples counseling time and you have every right to kick all of them out. THis is whey YOU set the stage for what you will and will not tolerate. And it comes from you.
Flat out tell them when they show up that while you love them they are only allowed over on X day because you are sick of trying to maintain a house, raise infant twins without any help from the man she bore and that you will not play host right now.
In my experience, it's one of those in-between expressions of affection (just like “I really appreciate you”, etc.), especially if you're a couple months into dating. In my past and current relationships, this sort of thing is tossed around right before the big “I love you”
You guys are at the point in your relationship where you're really getting to understand each other, and your feelings have begun to solidify. Both of you probably have “I love you” dancing at the tip of your tongue every time you're together haha
However, since you're still relatively new to your relationship, it's scary AF to take the next step, especially if you're the first person to say “I love you”. Naturally, the middle ground between “I love you” and something less personal is to say something like “you mean the world to me”
In all honesty, if you feel like you truly do love him, go ahead and tell him first!! It sounds like you're both to that point but are just too nervous to take that next step
Heâs fucking your boss.
If you both have arguments about it and you believe she neglects you as a partner while cheating on you then its not something that the community can help you with in my opinion.
Is she also neglecting your children in your opinion? Since you said “cooking stopped”
I would recommend you getting into couple's therapy if you didnt already because to me it sounds like when you cheated she felt you had already given up the relationship you both had, which may be why now she prefers to spend time with her friend
But it is also possible that her actions are for another reason and not because she is cheating, and that you are just seeing it that way because you don't trust the relationship in general and seeing proof where nobody else would see it
She is cheating or trying to cheat. You are only seeing the tip of the iceberg. She is sorry she got caught. She doesnât sound like she is sorry for cheating. Go to surviving infidelity.com it helped me with a cheating wife. Treat her as a fwb if you continue to see her
Trash take
Ill never even be close to placing him 2nd if he comes back
Not to kink shame but yes this is not normal.
People are treating her exactly like theyâd treat a dude who came on here with this question. Personally, I think sheâs perfectly fine to have that opinion (I would too), but we are in the age of âbody positivityâ.
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Idk I guess it depends. I found the other day my gf has to get hard in front of male co-workers, I only became aware of this recently.
For anyone curious she started working in new area for a pharma company and it requires going into a clean room.
I didn't think anything of it, but I am from the same field as her so I know certain areas require us changing in front of others, but I don't think we'd need to talk about it, she actually mentioned casually while talking about her job. Doctors, Chefs, most coed sports all involve changing in front of opposite gender. Also gay people exist, they get changed in front the same gender all the time without making it sexual.
âHey, bring a condomâ
There ya go.
He respects his friends more than you, which is why heâs impressing them with jokes about you rather than respecting you. Heâd rather make them laugh than care about your feelings. Your husband is an asshole
Everything he is doing is classic abuse tactics. Run. Run. And run some more.
You gave him a boundary and he crossed it after reassuring you he wouldn't. So no, it isn't normal. Why do you need to talk? You told him once and he didn't listen despite agreeing to respect your boundary. Just leave. Make sure he's deleted all traces of your pics before you do though.
If you've told him what it seems you're saying here – that it's too much pressure, stress, and he's not attractive to you anymore – and the lack of respect and boundaries, and he still is doing it, then non-negotiable couples therapy is necessary. I would also put sex off the table until he can learn to respect you and what you want.
She was a hard piece
If that was really the issue, he would bring it up if heâs comfortable with you. Thing is, youâre overthinking and jumping to a conclusion based off of one conversation. You havenât talked to him in years, dude. People change. Apparently, you havenât.
Donât bring it up.
Break up. This sounds like a poor match. Instead of berating her, maturely move on.
You NEED to get therapy. After abuse, itâs important to get therapy to learn ways to build yourself up. You likely donât realize how much your self esteem was also damaged. And the double betrayal makes it even more important to get therapy. Just focus on fixing YOU for now. Adding in friends and new partners should only come after you are healed and in a better place. Take your time, theyâve done a lot of hurt to you. See if your school offers therapy as part of your tuition, or contact your local DV center. When I was abused, free therapy was available for myself and my son for 1 year, in a 1:1 setting and they had groups as well.
Honestly if a guy tells you heâs not interested, believe him. But I know what itâs like to be 18 and to agonise over something like this, honestly you have two options;
Tell him you have a crush on him. He either is on board (yay!) or says he doesnât feel the same, and you are back in the same position you are now.
Believe him, let it go.
Trying to analyse his behaviours and intentions is not going to get you anywhere, itâs all easier said than done but you canât and wonât know by guessing.
All the best! X
thanks for the info, was only aware of it as a bleach brand
Bet thank you
A person is a person no matter the gender, so they are just asking to cheat on a trial basis and if they like it more than being with you, leave you in the dust. Give her the same answer you would give if she wanted to try another dude and kick her to the curb.
I hope you find yourself again and surrounding with supportive family and friends.
You need to figure out how to be independent. Finding someone else should not be a priority or even a passing thought right now.
It sucks but you're not compatible. Especially in your late 20s you really can't date someone who doesn't want kids when you do. It's no one's fault. Neither of you have to “consider” the other position. It's likely not going to change for either of you. It's unfortunate but it is what it is!
You can't let the fear of being single control how you date. You found this guy and you will find another!
Then, Sis, I mean this bluntly.
I'd take the kids and go back. Do what you need to do from there.
As far as he goes, its couples counseling time and you have every right to kick all of them out. THis is whey YOU set the stage for what you will and will not tolerate. And it comes from you.
Flat out tell them when they show up that while you love them they are only allowed over on X day because you are sick of trying to maintain a house, raise infant twins without any help from the man she bore and that you will not play host right now.